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JaminOffline
Man. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 29-39
I'm trying to make peace with females. I have had wonderful women in my life playing a nurturing role (obviously, I wouldn't be here otherwise) and I have had some good friendships with women who I find completely unattractive, but in adulthood I have found that most are hypocritical and judgmental and use men as proxies to bring more violence and exploitation into the world. I got pretty confused as a young adult, because I went to university and bought into the ridiculous notion that we are living in some sort of "patriarchy". On some level I understand that women must have human emotions just as I do. Many look to men for security or conversely for excitement. A healthy and well adjusted person will be able to find these things in themselves, but it would be nice to have somebody to provide reliable companionship and to take some of the cold edge off the world. Let's not fool ourselves, online dating is not how we imagined meeting a life partner. I have first hand experience with some real nut jobs from this site. I find it frustrating how many people on this site are into extreme conformity. A lot of profiles say "I am looking for somebody normal". Being "normal" is throwing away the precious gift of life. I have spent most of my life engaged in enriching and rewarding activities. If you are looking for somebody more engaged and motivated than the average Joe, but well balanced enough to stay true to themselves and not set unreasonable expectations you have come to the right place. Maybe someday we can meet in real life as real people not in an Internet fantasy. Something low-key such coffee or a walk is good for a first meeting. If we hit it off we can do something more adventurous.
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MichelOffline
Man. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 31-41
I enjoy traveling, sports, music, and movies. I try to balance my life between work and pleasure. Someone who doesn’t let the past hinder the future or doesn’t think the world revolves around just them.
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CarterOffline
Man. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: woman. In age: 28-38
Wait I have to talk about myself!? Hmmm...When I'm not volunteering for various charities, helping seniors citizens carry their groceries across the street, or nursing abandoned puppies back to health like every other guy on this site I can be found reading at the library, crossing things off my bucket list, lounging on the beach, people watching, or playing pretty much any sport (I did win a silver in the provincial badminton championships when I was 12, impressive I konw.) I'd take a pub over a club any day of the week and twice on Sunday or a nice bbq on a patio with some good friends. Fewer things make me happier than an old backpack, a plane ticket, and a pair of flip flops. Oh and travellers insurance, found that one out the hard way..... My last big trip was to Asia and Southern parts of Africa, but I recently decided to go back to school and it has really cut into my travel time so I'm not sure when/where the next one will be (South America maybe.)I've been described as being easy going and down to earth but blunt and motivated, spontaneous yet thoughtful, athletic but clumsy, someone who has a good head on there shoulders and is a hopeless romantic who is a bit of a dork but one smooth operator. I've actually never been described as a smooth operator I just added that myself because its pretty obvious. I'm also slightly sarcastic and appreciate witty banter and a wry sense of humour and believe laughter is the best medicine, unless you have broken ribs. So if you can laugh at yourself that's a huge plus. If you have a good sense of humour, don't take things too seriously and are down to earth, adventurous, intelligent and capable of holding a conversation we will probably get along just swell. If you want to chat, break some bread, spill some coffee, share some laughs, or down some beer. Drop me a line I won't bite.