SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Tracey
Online
Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58
Hi there!I am looking for someone that is affectionate,has a youthful and playful spirit, tempered with maturity. Someone that likes physical outdoor activies, that is in reasonably good shape and is attractive. I like to travel, enjoy learning about new people, places and history of other cultures. Day trips, weekend get aways are great also. I am looking for someone that has learned and grown from the past, good and bad, rather that having just moved on. Someone that can go from camping to a formal night out. I own a tux. Utimately I am looking for a partner with shared common values and can pursue future goals with. I think through our lifetime of experiences we are more cognizant of our likes, dislikes and are more assertive in expressing our wants and needs. Initial chemistry and attraction is a good start, fuelling us with the desire to know more about each other. A long-term relationship will naturally develop between two people over time, as they have the opportunity get to know the other person and measure mutual compatibility. If this happens, you will have a devoted loving and loyal partner. A picture gives some indication of physical attraction. A few *** talking on the phone can offer more insight to each other, while meeting in person is really required. I put average as "body type", but would say I am fit. Sorry but I can't be with anyone that smokes and a reciprocal picture is appreciated as this is just part of the process. If this approach resonates with you, send me an *** me on your meet me or favorite lists. If I put you on my favorite list and you are interested, just put me on your's.There is a "shite" load of people looking out there......somebody has to yell BINGO! I don't like "just coffee" and there is not a "catch all" "first date" relating to meeting via this forum but something where you get to relate and communicate with each other would be best. The setting should be one that both find comfortable and should ultimately be enjoyable regardless of the outcome,leaving both feeling more enriched for the encounter than they did before meeting. If there is an attraction, then with a little imagination, the possibilities are endless for the subsequent dates.
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Johnny
Online
Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60
Darn, I seem to have lost all my contact information. Should I have contacted you earlier, unsuccessfully perhaps, please forgive the intrusion and accept my second glance as a compliment.Preface:I offered someone a smile the other day, and another a compliment, on the street, free of charge. Frankly, I did it because they were attractive, lit up my day and had thus earned it from me. I considered it basic gallantry, graciously offered, and expected the gifts to be simply and graciously accepted, no more. One was, and one wasn’t. You’d have though I was Jack the Ripper or something. So much for gallantry. A time is fast coming when none of us will rate a compliment, or even a second glance, sadly. Might as well enjoy the attention while you can get it, methinks. Even the virtual kind. ONWARD!Life is awfully short, isn’t it? I’’t delivered. Here’s an idea, let’s have some fun while we’re both waiting around. Here’s the pitch:“Tall, dark & handsome trilingual male, artist-philosopher-hunk type, might be looking for love at the moment, but life’s too darned short. It will happen when it happens, and it usually happens when you're not looking anyway. Meanwhile, the man will chose fun company over contrived virtue any day, and appreciate it solidly, in kind. He’ll even fix your lamp or put up your shelf. Well traveled, good company, monogamous, big hands. Mutual respect given and required. All the advantages of a boyfriend starter-kit.”“Will she be perfect? Heck no, I’m certainly not, but hopefully she’ll be an able-bodied, elegant lady-friend who’ She will be mature enough to understand that the longest journey begins with a single step, or not, and that trust is earned, as are respect, loyalty and friendship. And he’s only a lowly male after all, so no interest likely without a proper picture and proper introduction.Cheers!”P.S.: I’ve had the good fortune to learn early one of the better lessons in life. Perhaps you will appreciate it. I only go where I’m welcome, and I only stay where I’m well treated. That goes both ways as far as I’m concerned. Call it savoir-vivre.AN UPDATE.(The following anecdote should be taken with a HUGE grain of salt, and a good laugh).A mature lady friend of mine (M., in her late forties) recently blurted out something disparaging about older men dating younger women, rather than HER, at a friendly diner get-together. After coyly remarking that she herself was dating someone more than 10 years her junior, so what was her problem anyway, and deftly ducking to avoid the flying pint that ensued, I gave the matter some thought and decided to bring it up at the next meeting of the Men’s Advisory and Diagnostic Council On Women’s Behaviour.So, what makes younger women attractive to mature men you ask? And what part of that magic could ANY woman use to her advantage? You’d be surprised! After the general hilarity and usual banter died down, the Illuminati, all respectable gentlemen in their late forties and early fifties, actually agreed on 5 reasons their eyes and minds wander. It isn't ALL physical after all (not the top 3 items anyway). And yes, we would rather have the company of someone with a bit more "vécu", if only, if only…CONCLUSION UPON REQUEST…(if you ask nicely) ;-)P.P.S.: This is rather puzzling. My voyages in the meetville ocean keep bringing up a curious question: So how DOES one get to the “long term” without first going through the “short term”, and PROVING one is good enough at it to merit a longer posting? Any suggestions? A quiet beer or coffee somewhere sounds about right for starters. There’s no point if there’s no chemistry, no gleam in the eye, no scent. *** Amazing what those will do for two people.
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Lance
Online
Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58
Hi there, Im not good at this but here I go!I am an outdoorsman that loves to hunt. I live on a small hobby farm with a few cows,two horses,two dogs and some cats.I run heavy equipment for a living, anything to do with excavating or landscaping I do.I love my job and I am very proud of my work.I enjoy my time off also,bonfires,cruising in my firebird,dining out,concerts,nascar,driving in the autocross,going to church,spending time with my kids.I like old rock and roll but also enjoy country music, I listen to b93 on my headphones at work all the time.I am looking for a very special woman to date at first and get to know each other and see where it leads us. I am very flexible about the first date. We could meet at a park and go for a walk,meet at a bar for a drink,just to see if there is any chemistry between us.