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Abby, 45

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About Me

I'm a strong woman who would love to know a stronger man. I am gentle but not a pushover. I am loyal, honest, positive, and I have no baggage or drama. I like being active, sitting around doing nothing does not interest me, but I like quiet times. I love my job in the legal field and really love going to work each day. I have one son, age 13. I love live music (classic rock, blues, jazz). I tend to be a caretaker and would really like to meet a man who is strong in body and mind, someone stronger than I am. I don't need someone to take care of me, but it would be nice to know he COULD. I love to hike, but I am not intense about it. I love exploration of anything I want to know more about. I love reading and writing, and that is one of the best parts of my job. I also really enjoy hosting holiday parties, backyard bbqs, intimate gatherings. I'm a very passionate person, everything I do, I do with gusto. I'm starting to appreciate cooking after a lifetime of hating being in the kitchen. I also enjoy walking for exercise and have very recently discovered resistance training - but I am neither a fitness queen nor exercise fanatic, I just want to live longer and better.Humor is important to me. You don't need to be a comedian, but a good sense of the absurd, wry, or ridiculous is very appealing. I do a little stand up now and then...I can be raunchy or innocent! I enjoy life! Live music! I do like coffee...perhaps libations at a nice quiet place? Dinner, movie thing is ok but a little awkward. Let's loosen up a bit, don't you think?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ruby

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Love music, playing anything I can figure out and master.I love nature,taking pictures.What makes me unique?My goodness how vain...(thanks spell checker!And as of yesterday ... Afroman? I must be getting younger? LMFAO! And Josh Kryjcik! Oh but I love him! A mix Of****r and Bonamossa? Not really sexy? But oh.... through that voice come's true attraction?And..... be still my beating heart. I have a new love? If only men could actually hear..? I sit all alone.......waiting as the clock keeps time , days go by with no response.I yearn for your caress, yet I sit and wait.I got pretty today, went for a long sunlit walk.....alone but waiting. Where are you?

  • Katy

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm looking for someone to have fun with, try new things and open our horizons. A great sense of humor is a huge plus. A few qualities I feel it would be great to find in a match: loving, loyal, kind, confident and funny. My sense of humor is dark and dry at times, I have an ecclectic taste in music, dining out for foods that I may not cook at home is fun, but I truly enjoy cooking as well, my goal this Summer is to learn how to use my large charcoal grill. I'm comfortable in most places, fine dining to dive bars, a glass of wine or mug of cold beer are just fine by me, group activities or one on one time, enjoy sports, live or tv, I enjoy exercise and keeping fit. I believe simple gestures are sometimes the most important, romance a sweet bonus. Traditional to me is the man takes the initiative, I'm not a wimp, but chilvalry is a quality near and dear to my heart. A few miscelaneous/silly things about me: I don't drink coffee (everybody in this town seems to) ; Quirks....I enjoy hanging out and am excited to meet someone that may have interests I'm not informed on, for the learning experience. I'm a mix of traditional and goofy~fun.Feel free to contact me further if you'd like to get to know me. Have a great day! It's nice to do something casual and quiet on a first date so that conversation can be the priority.

  • Melisa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Revised, renewed, and changed a bit... (well I have so I figured I better do this too!)About me oh, lets see... I am tired of the bar scene, blind dates are awful, and so far this online dating thing is still to be determined. I consider myself very open minded, independant sometimes to a fault, killer organizational skills. I am honest, caring, sharing, and all those other words that describe giver (yes, Pisces). I like to think a true romantic as I seek romance, stomach flops, fireworks, passion, rapid pulse, and goose bumps. I consider myself straight forward and to the point, as I like to tell it how it is and not beat around the bush. But, with that said I do take other peoples feelings into consideration. I live life by the golden rule, Yes the one your mother taught you... Treat others the way you would want to be treated. OK, heres the gutts of it: I am 42 but totally feel like I am 32, My wii fit says I am 26... Really! .. long dark hair, brown eyes, funny, friendly, D&D free, ex smoker. 38C's, CURVES all over. Real teeth and I use soap and tooth paste every day. Now that's a bonus right there. No black hairy moles, and I even shave the legs and pits and trim the forest. I have no warrants for arrest that I am aware of. Home, car, dirty mind, devoted, reliable, gives 110%, empathetic, employed, clean, fair credit but working on it, no lists of regrets, cat like personality, self sufficient, plumber talents, black dress classy or jeans with a t-shirt sexy, nice with a twist of naughty, funny, passionate, barb-wired heart, professional, private, OK somedays my halo is held up by horns but is that a bad thing? OH and real ... plus don't forget the fabulous sense of humor. The whole package. Confessions: I used to drive my car like I stole it on the way to work until gas prices hit the roof. I am a fabulous singer... when I am in my car alone and no one else can hear me. Yes, I do own the left lane of the highway. Love to cook... just hate cleaning up. Coffee must be strong. Pepsi kicks cokes ass except when rum is involved. My favorite sound is my daughter laughing. Toenails should be pretty... no that's not high maintenance. Flip the pillow over for the cold side, leg hanging out of the covers to feel a chill. In any room of the house or with the lights on confident. Loneliness sucks, who doesn't agree with that. Whom do I seek? Yeah good question... Someone like myself, that knows what the word empathy means. I do not judge a book entirely by its cover, its what is inside that intrests me most. Someone that can carry a conversation, write a paragraph, accept faults, and is human. In a perfect world this person would like to share weekends full of excitment, even if simply taking a walk. Someone who will like myself show no mercy while playing Laser Tag. Someone daring enough to try something new (zip line at Greek perhaps) Eventually I would like to find the right person to grow old with, sit on the front porch and watch our grandchildren play in the yard. Someone to sit next to me at the large dinning room table and smile, feeling the complete satisfaction of being a proud parent. Someone that rolls over on a Saturday morning, pushes the hair out of my eyes, as they look deeply into mine, and doesnt mind morning breath. Someone that will value me for who I am and my sincerity, honesty, and my sometimes obsessive organizational skills. Guess that sums it all up. Drop me a line say hello I don't bite... well if provoked maybe! First dates are the hardest, I think a quick meeting to just get the ice broke works the best. Face it you know as soon as you met someone if you are attracted to them or not. There has to be some sort of spark, or the connection is just not made. If you settle with no spark then it is just... not there...Why settle be honest and don't drag it out. We are adults here. I am always smiling over on the yahoo if you find it under mms***.

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