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Valarie, 43
United States, Ohio, Troy

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About Me

Hello :) I'm a single mom of an awesome 19-year-old daughter. I am a writer by profession and passion. I'm a full- As a features writer, I cover the "good news," entertainment, dining out, people and events. I've interviewed many celebrities and, in short, love my job. I've also published three fiction books, a series, geared towards pre-teens and teen-agers. My hope is to someday share those books with the world and become the next JK Rowling :) I enjoy all kinds of music and love going out to see it live. My soft spot is and always will be for hard driving, mind freeing rock! But I also like dance and country, and even some classical. I love to watch movies, but my favorite genre is Horror! If it's scary, I like it. Love old black and whites, all the way up to new films with crazy special effects. I also like comedies, but really don't enjoy mushy-gushy girlie flicks.I LOVE Halloween and it's my favorite day of the year. I have more Halloween decor than Christmas and very much get "into" the spirit of things. Speaking of spirits, I'm also a member of a paranormal investigation team. Yes, I'm a ghost hunter.Hope to talk to you soon! UPDATE: Please realize that meeting on a site such as this has no guarantees of love and happily ever after. If you meet someone, talk and decide to take the next step, as in meeting out in public for a date, PLEASE understand that it is a chance you are both taking. It may work out, it may not.I just encountered a PSYCHO and nearly had to call police. I don't ever want to feel like that again. Therefore, if you are looking for love at first sight and if you don't get that you are going to freak out and threaten my job and Life, Please don't even look at my profile. Thank you. That being said...A great first date would be meeting at an upscale bar and having a few drinks and even more laughs. I'm not picky and definitely not high maintenance, but would love to share some laughs with a wonderful man.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Tasha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Just looking for a good man who isnt into playing games. Tired of all the game players, liars and cheaters. Do not want or need BS games or someone who is superficial. Need a man who is honest, funny, and caring. No one is perfect so I take the bad with the good but like I said I don't want to deal with a game player. If ur in it for the real deal and good men really do exist then feel free to leave me a message..f Will figure it out together

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  • Dianne from Troy | Woman | 45 years old | Aquarius
    Dianne

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ** UPDATE - IF YOU TAKE THE TIME TO MSG ME AND I TAKE THE TIME TO MSG BACK, PLEASE DON'T RESPOND WITH NEGATIVITY OR RUDE, SEXIST COMMENTS.... I DO NOT CARE THAT YOU ARE "HORNY" AND I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHTERS OR SEXTING.....IT'S ALL ABOUT RESPECT ** ** I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO HEAVY MEN OR BLACK MEN - NO OFFENSE PLEASE, JUST NOT MY TYPE - NO PICTURE? - NO RESPONSE**I get a lot of *** so it does take some time to sort through them all so please don't take offense if I don't get back to you right away. I am only one person and don't have a personal assistant nor does my cat know how to read or type. PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE!! I am not rude and if you have taken the time to read my profile and send an *** answer. If you have EVER fished you know it takes lots of patience. Thank you!! If you are mean to anyone or anything, into drama, married, fake, a liar, user, do drugs, player, hater or just want someone to take care of you....move on please. If you like being in control of every situation, putting others down, think you are better than the next person or use violence in any way....then please, do not bother contacting me. We will not get along. I refuse to settle for less than I deserve. I've seen all the tricks, been played, lied to, cheated on and had my heart handed to me in pieces. No more. Be who you say you are, the truth ALWAYS comes out and I can see right through the BS.**Now, if you have made it this far, I am an easy going person. Love to laugh and cut up..... just have fun. I don't waste time fighting over trivial things and like to think outside the box. Life is too short to let things get you down, Live, Learn, Laugh and take the next step. I know who I am and what I want out of life and I know I want to share it all with someone special. It's the fishing part of it that's hard but hey, I'm up for that. I have a great sense of humor and it takes a lot to get me down, but if it happens just step back please. Love my old red boots and some would say I grew up in the 70's because of my love for bell bottom jeans LOL...but I do own a few that aren't. It can make a bad day good, a good day great and a great day the best! I listen to mostly classic rock, metal, pop, country.....almost anything. If it's got a kickin' beat I'll listen to it....and probably try to sing and dance (you might not wanna hear or see that tho) LOLI'm a country gal, yes, I have a country accent. I love being outdoors. Hiking is a passion of mine so I try to get out in the woods as much as possible. I also enjoy trips to the beach and love to travel as much as I can but mostly just enjoy hanging out at home by a good campfire. There are lots of things I'm interested in but way too many to put in this little box.If I sound interesting to you drop me a message. We'll go from there! Whatever works for both parties is fine. It's always negotiable.

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  • Valerie from Troy | Woman | 44 years old | Cancer
    Valerie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a down to earth, love to laugh, cup is half full kind of person. I love NFL football, so any guy who wants to watch football on sun afternoons, I'm right there with ya! I enjoy travelling, to far and close places. I like sitting around a fire in the backyard on a summer night, preferablly not alone. I like to be near water, I find it very relaxing just listening to the waves hit the shore. I enjoy snowmobiling in the winter and playing golf in the summer...(although I haven't played in a while) I like good movies, whether in a theater or at home, makes no difference. I am a Workforce Planning Manager for an Insurance company which closed it's local doors and we all work from home, because of this, I get a little cabin fever so I like to get out once in a while. I actually work a second job a few nights just to get me out and be around people. I'm not really hard to please. If I am in good company I am sure to have a nice time. Probably a good first date would be somewhere to have a conversation to know each other a little more.***\\\***Put This***On Your***Account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or Whom Maybe Suffering From It***\\\***OR A SURVIVOR***\\\***Thank You For Your Support

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