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Essie, 44

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About Me

Hello and welcome! As you might notice from some of my photos, I spend much of my free time outdoors, being in/on/by the water and camping (with all the accoutrements my SUV can hold). I'm definitely an outdoorsy, girlie girl.I also enjoy getting lost in the hilarity at comedy clubs, catching a flick on the big screen, going to ball games (I LOVE the junk food), live music on a patio somewhere, hiking, biking, kayaking (need to learn, actually), fairs/festivals and traveling, of course. Finding new/interesting places to spend the day/weekend is always a blast. Even though I do occasionally smoke, I would never do it around anyone it offends. It is a take it or leave it thing for me, but I wanted to be honest about it. I'm still trying to decide where it is I want to plant my roots, but for now I am spending some time with family who lives here. Honesty, intelligence, great communication skills and a varied sense of humor are the "usuals", and top o' my list. I am also attracted to people who are not the PC or GQ type. I love individuals who stray a bit from the norm and who are thoughtful, open and upfront, slightly adventurous, playful/silly, gentlemanly...I would like to find someone who enjoys being active (not hardcore), but who is also content to spend a rainy day inside watching movies together. Or, going out to play in it!I'm not looking to jump into something serious right away or too fast. I like to take things as they come naturally.I'm all for making the first move, just so you know, but I'm rarely on here searching profiles. I sympathize with the men who do make the first move and don't get any kind of response back. But, persistence pays!**********************************************************************************************************************************************************************If you click the "Meet Me" button, those notifications go to my spam folder, which I rarely check, and those that click it usually go by the photo alone, so it would be best to message me here, if interested in getting to know one another more. The options are limitless! But a first date probably should start simple (and escapable - har, har).Meeting for lunch or Happy Hour is a great start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I really don't take this site seriously. Iam a great girl who enjoys a variety of activities. Iam looking for a relationship but am open to making new friends if there isnt any chemistry. I would like to find someone to go hiking ,fishing,beach,anything outdoors. So if you like to be active send me a message. Believe me I have no expectations and im fine with making new friends....no benefits though not my style... Keep it simple I like a walk in the park or coffee and conversation is good

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    HelloI am on this site as it can be difficult to meet someone of substance who wants the same things I want. I am a fun,easy going yet determined person,looking for the love of my life.I realize this is life and not a movie, I am more than willing to put in 110% but I expect that in return. I am looking for a long term relationship,leading to marriage and children. Yes I want a family and all that comes with it. Life is about people and experiences so I am trying to do as much as I can to fulfill the dreams I have right now.I prefer a man who is into fitness and staying somewhat in shape....but you don't have to have a six pack. Just want to be the best version of yourself you can be. I date one person at a time,that's it. This is also what I am looking for in you. I would love to find a man who I can see possibly a few times a week(eventually),not once a week.So you can't live in another state or even upstate. I am looking for honesty and someone who can communicate. If I say something, I mean it and this is all I ask of you...life is about all the "small" moments...but in reality they are the BIG moments. I love to travel as well as stay home. My family is very important to me and I see them often.I became an aunt and it brings me more joy than I could have ever known. I love going to the beach,boating,getting in a kayak and exploring,I try to cook(lol) and love to bake. I believe in living a healthy life,yet do not deprive myself and have fun as well. I love a guy who can make me laugh.If you're looking for the real thing,and believe actions speak louder than words....I'd love to hear from you. I'd love to find someone who I can't wait to be with after a long day of work,my first call in the morning and my last at night....Apparently this needs to be said...please know how to read..reading my profile is a start.... I think meeting for coffee or a drink is fine when you are first meeting someone....now the second date...Italian with wine and good food and conversation....

  • Patti

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Open - minded- easy going -

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