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Bernadette
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.
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Juliette
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
My hobby is scrapbooking. I love to take pictures and scrapbook them. There is something about making fun memories and then looking back on them and smiling over and over. I love love love it. My long time goal is to have a husband and possibly have a child. I am happy right now with life however I know that with someone to share my love with I can be ecstatic. I have so much to give to a relationship. I have put so much time into my education and into my work. I feel like it is time to focus on what I want in my life for the long haul, that is that special someone to spend my time with. Maybe that special someone is you. Are you honest, fun, loving, kind and considerate of others. These are the qualities I have in me and therefore I would look for these qualities in the person I would want in my life. I am very loyal to my family and my friends. I love the closeness we all share. I would want someone that would want to be part of that not someone that would want to pull me away from it but to share the blessings with me. I am energetic and fun. I like to go new places to visit or site see, taking pictures of course. I would like to have someone that enjoyed photography too that would be nice but not mandatory ha. I love upbeat music, something you want to dance too and have fun with. I like christian music, some country and who doesn't like old time Rock-N-Roll, please no head banging stuff. I like a variety so it isn't hard to enjoy the music no matter where I am usually. I have two nephews that are like my own children that I love dearly. I have a great niece and great nephew that are absolutely ADORABLE! I love to have friends come to our house, cook outside, swim and play games that always makes a good night a great one. I am compassionate, giving and a good person. I would probably like to have some dates talking and getting to know each other a little better so somewhere nice that we could set and have a conversation together would be a good date. I like to go to Riverwalk when it is nice outside. Later in the summer I really enjoy the bands they have there. I enjoy going to the movies. I like action movies and comedies. I like going to eat at a nice restaraunt that you can eat and talk.. just enjoy each others company. I would like to have a date with friends sometime. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends so that would definately be a first date option if you would enjoy that.
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Deena
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
"Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide." (anonymous) With me, what you see is what you get. I am now, who I will be later, when we know each other better, so keep that in mind if you decide to make *** you know so little at the beginning...I promise to do the same :)Well it seems not everyone is on the same page…but I would like to meet someone from at least the same book!!Experience has taught me that I know what I want, what I like and don’t like and what I will and will not put up with :) I have run the full gamut meeting some nice guys (with no chemistry) to dodging the crazies (haven’t we all!) and I have learned A LOT along the way…mostly that I am resilient and I remain hopeful with this process!! ***update: I give up lol ***update...this is still true: I am a bright, affectionate, loyal, kind, honest and fun-loving girl with a sarcastic sense of humour looking for the same in a partner to spend time with…let’s see where it takes us :)On that happy note, I am going to be very blunt and put forth my “DO-NOT-APPLY” list…it's nothing personal; just saving us time:Smokers (never!- ew gross! I LOVE mens hands so it's something I watch for)Boring duds with no sense of humour (I have a big laugh and I’m not afraid to use it!)Toothless wondersI realize I am not perfect, and neither are you…but there is someone out here who thinks we are!!Have fun and please play nice :)XOPS - I'd like to add that I do not view kids as "baggage"; if anything they are more like a carry-on package to be handled with care. Clearly physical attraction is important (who knew?!) so I would prefer to keep first meetings short and sweet...but I am happy to do just about anything so long as the company is great! ***update: just a quick meet-and-greet; are you cute enough? am i?? lol Recently tried the saturday-night-dinner-date and he bailed after not getting 'dessert'...classy lol (not to mention hurtful) so I will stick to the quick meet-and-greets until I find that mutual attraction we all desire, thank you!!