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Lily
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I love laughter and am very attracted to people who can make me laugh. I can be very funny at times, and at other times very serious. I especially appreciate sarcastic humor. I love my dogs, my cats and my son. They are all my babies.What do I want? That's what I'm trying to figure out. Right now, I want to date and find out what is important to me in a man. After a long term, passionless relationship, I feel the need to get to know many people to figure out what is right for me. If the right man comes along, I will not turn him away, but I'm not rushing to find him. First I want to find out more about what I want.Update ***and ongoing:I have been dating and observing those traits that work for me as well as those that don't, so I thought I'd mention those traits here as a way of keeping track.I have appreciated the men who have:1) been affectionate/used terms of endearment to refer to me - I am a sucker for this2) been kind/treated me well3) expressed their attraction to me with class and/or passion4) had great senses of humor5) had a similar mindset as mine6) been direct and real with me7) helped me step outside my comfort zone8) been a friend first and a potential romantic partner second9) Bonus points to the guy who helped me look for my car for an hour when I couldn't remember where I parked it. You're awesome! (At least you were until we got to number 8 below.)I have not appreciated the following actions in the men I have gone out with:1) I did not appreciate showing up for a first date and seeing my date groping another woman; telling me I look great does not make up for this.2) I did not appreciate being stood up because my date was too drunk to show himself; no I will not reschedule.3) I did not appreciate the men (yes, plural) who have expressed their undying adoration for me but have then abruptly stopped talking to me the first time I refused to send them naked pics. Guess what. These men still don't have naked pics.4) I do not appreciate when someone says they want to go out with me, but then refuses to do so. WTF?5) I do not appreciate the date who tries to push beyond my stated physical boundaries. If I set a limit, I mean it. Oh, and I'm a black belt in karate so watch out ;***I did not appreciate the guy who chatted with me nonstop for two weeks and then stopped cold turkey with no explanation. If you decide you hate me, can you please just tell me and not make me wonder what happened?7) I did not appreciate the guy who whenever I asked him a question online, he'd give me one word answers, and then invited me to his house for the SOLE purpose of taking care of his boner. Have a personality first, people.8) I did not appreciate the guy who told me that he wanted a long term relationship just because the thought that was what I wanted to hear. Not wanting a long term relationship will not take you out of my dating pool. Being dishonest probably will, though.Please understand that with very few exceptions, I enjoyed almost every date I've been on (yes, even with the groper.) I enjoy the humor in these situations and just generally enjoy going on a date. It makes me feel alive.As I continue to date, I will continue to update this list until such time as I am ready to settle down! :)
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Freda
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I enjoy the outdoors and fresh air, sunny days, bike riding, camping, bon fires, hiking, kayaking, walks and riding horses on the beach. But also enjoy cuddling up in front of the fireplace and watching TV. Getting dressed up go downtown for a nice dinner, see the ballet, or a play, or a concert on the water front. I would like to travel more, make new friends! And have someone to share it with.Im self sufficient, independent and dont require a lot of attention! I was a single parent and raised my 3 sons on my own. Im a very caring and loving mother and grandmother! I am meticulous about my home and my job. Im pragmatic, and loyal to family and friends! I am looking for a man with a sense of humor, honesty, good morals, respectful, financially secure and of course romantic. I like a man with a nice smile and kissable lips. That takes pride in his appearance trying to stay fit and eat healthy. Someone that likes to go places and try new things. Enjoys talking and laughing over a glass of wine or beer. I would prefer someone that doesnt have a dog. But it seems like everyone has a dog in there life.My family is important to me. I love to spend time with! (No i am not Mormon my mom was just nuts) Meet for coffee and see if we connect. Second date maybe go to dinner or whatever might sounds interesting.
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Audrey
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am 44 years old & have a 18 year old daughter. I have dark blond hair, blue/green eyes, and can almost always be found with a smile on my face. I would absolutely love to find somebody that can make me laugh, but not be totally embarassing in trying to do so, enjoy my same interests, be affectionate, patient, and is good looking (sorry to be so shallow, but there's got to be physical chemistry as well). If you're looking for nothing but sex, kick rocks cause I've had enough of those offers from this website. Thanks anyways!I am looking for a serious relationship, somebody to come home to and tell how my day went. Somebody to come home to me and tell me how his day went. Somebody I can walk down the street with that will hold my hand and not be afraid to show some affection. If you're looking for a casual relationship or sexual encounter, pass me by. I'm not interested in wasting my time. I wanna be in love. The real flitter-in-ur-heart love. Anything quiet so we can get to know each other. Maybe miniature golf? A little romance doesn't hurt either. Hint, hint, guys. :+)