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Autumn, 53
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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Hi, I do not wish to have you go through the boring tripe and yawn of another woman’s profile…and hopefully you won’t with this one…I just thought I’d present a more accurate depiction of what I’m all about…~ To me, this is simple and honest…the way I try to manage and live my life… ~ A lover of freedom, a rebel with a cause, and a woman whose main desire is to live life to the fullest...I enjoy many things in life ~ Optimism is a really good thing and will forever lure me! ~ Laughter is definitely another and seduces me! ~ Music is Magic and entices my mind, body and soul! ~ And the simple things in life are the best! ~ from a stroll in the rain to pink cotton candy at an amusement park… ~ I love quiet moments and revel in the silence ~ I love the excitement and unrestraint of a rock concert and the ‘rush’ I feel from the entity on stage ~ I am dazzled by something ordinary and riveted by complexity ~ I adore the outdoors and enjoy long walks in all seasons allowing my stride to invigorate my senses. I love simple, stilled evenings at home curled up with a good movie or book. I adore crimson sunrises, falling snow in moonlight, living for the ‘moment’, twirling dolphins, wagging tails, ocean mists, bare feet in grass, harp music, humour, sound of the ‘ice cream’ truck, skipping rope, pony tails, running through a water sprinkler, authenticity, words, Springsteen, being silly & funny, trees, love, hugs, guitar, making a snowman, 1st bloom in my garden, a child’s handprint, sound of laughter, Springsteen, innocence of a new day, remains of the day, sound of a text coming in, Flyers, Meat Loaf (band), Renoir, birds chirping, valleys &’s mane, pig tails, ROCK, a puppy’s whimper, cloudy days, honesty, a toddler’‘creative’-of-a--’s breath, winter, lilacs, listening, Michelangelo, rivers & streams, bubbles, velvet, the moon, Bruins, polka dots, flute, Mickey Mouse, rock t-‘time’, Springsteen, poetry, candle light, books, shiny pennies, Freud, hopscotch, the ‘night’~ rain ~ pistachios ~ hockey jerseys, new beginnings …(and if that didn’t bore you, ask me for Part II lol)… I am fascinated, enchanted, enthralled, captivated and mesmerized by Humanity! ~ It ROCKS!!! I believe in 'Human Kindness' and the 'Art of Compassion' ~ and that we all make a difference in this world. We are as unique and beautiful as snowflakes ~ and this life is too precious to melt our days away…I cherish each and every moment…and live… ‘in the moment’… ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Me? ~ honest ~ trusting ~ positive outlook on life ~ your sanctuary ~ sunny and jovial disposition ~ free-spirited &~ compassionate toward all mankind & creations ~ enthusiastic ~ good conversation & aroused by same ~ sympathetic & empathetic to one’s plight and of the world ~ intuitive & articulate ~ a bit eccentric ~ up beat ~ confident ~ vivacious ~ independent ~ appreciative ~ understanding ~ spiritual and philosophical ~ aware & ‘present’ in this life ~ intense and passionate ~ grateful ~ happy ~ sensual ~ creative minded ~ in love with ‘life itself’ ~ love the ‘Arts’ ~ nature at the forefront ~ ‘music’ is integral ~ the power of ‘words’ ~ acts of kindness ROCK my world! ~~ loyal ~ friendly ~ kind-hearted ~ soulful ~ adventurous ~ spontaneous ~ observant ~ living for the ‘here and now’,..the ‘moment’ ~ confident and happy in the woman I’ve become ~ no regrets ~ the four ‘D’s’ ~ dedicated, disciplined, determined and devoted ~ respectful of myself and others ~ family, always takes a front seat ~ embrace adversity and joy ~ peaceful mind and heart ~ love to laugh ~ romantic ~ warm ~ caring ~ affectionate ~ open heart ~ think outside the ‘box’ ~ nostalgic ~ sentimental ~ playful, silly, with a child-like wonder…You? ~ honest ~ trusting ~ gentleman ~ positive outlook on life ~ kind approach ~ my sanctuary ~ sense of humour ~ enthusiastic ~ compassionate ~ passionate ~ romantic (thoughtful gestures turn this girl on) ~ open heart ~ loyalty, to your beliefs, values, morals, family and friends ~ integrity ~ happy ~ fun ~ embrace adversity & joy ~ accepting of another without trying to change them ~ unleashed spirit ~ living in the ‘present’ ~ raw emotion ~~ good conversation ~ anger, resentment, negativity, jealousy (leave them behind!) ~ music ~ respect for humanity and nature, ~ confident & happy with the man you’ve become ~ understanding of my needs as a woman and friend... And here it lies…a glimpse into my world ~ hope it didn’t spawn a yawn ~ and if something interested you from my many interests lol…drop me a line…and if not, I wish you well in your search and life…and wish you ‘happy’… ~ ‘love, peace & harmony’…to all…BTW: The only man that would ever come between us is, of course, the one &…and to me…he is ‘MAGIC’ ~ although he is HOT!, ‘tis not a physical thing I have for him…I love and admire his artistry and passion, he is epic! ~ he’s been a part of my life for most of my life and he ain’t leavin’...so get used to it! Lol. His music has followed me & I’ve followed him for over 37 yrs, so we’ve been thru a lot together & is a staple in my life. If you like his music, great!...and if you don’t, pretend you do when you're with me lol...as he plays softly in the background of my life :) Something simple ~ no pressure. Just two ordinary people getting together to chat...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Dance Gardening Spanish Adult Animation Ice Hockey Nascar Rodeo
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