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Phyllis, 51

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About Me

I have this desire, to find someone who is looking for me. Someone who wants to hang out, have fun, enjoy life, be there for me and knows I'll be there for him, enjoys family, traveling, being spontaneous, talking up a storm, dreaming, laughing, dancing, being silly, and loves to hold me and be together. No more texting for months, *** talking on the phone, etc. I love human interaction!! Ah just watched The Notebook again. Cried again. i'm such a sappy romantic. Will I ever find the man that wants to be there when we both get old and forgetful? Had a wonderful date with an old friend. He told me I was still as amazing as I always was. What a compliment. He told me to post it on here. He's a nut!! teehee So it's posted. teehee My new favorite quote: “In bad times and good, I have never lost my sense of zest for life.” –“Those who have never known the deep intimacy and the intense companionship of happy mutual love have missed the best thing that life has to give.” — I have followed my son's ambitions around forever. However, he's moved out and I'm living life as a woman with no band schedules to follow!! I love the Cubbies. I am a retired(meaning, too old-teehee) slow pitch softball and volleyball player. The body is not what it used to be. teeheee The heart and mind are willing!!! I love to go and do about anything. I raised my son from 1 to 12 with my family's help, got my bachelors degree during that time and have 19 years in the same employer. When I can, I would like to retire and do things that help others. Want someone who is just as stable!! Love life and when I do something it's full of passion and excitement. Love to do new things. Love to people watch. Love love love the sun, water and the beach. Moonlight strolls, sand volleyball, cuddling, and sharing life with someone who has the same passions and romance ideas about life I do!! Family will help you when you're down and just laugh to help you get thru things. I know God is not done with me yet and can't wait to see what He has in store for me!! Love action, romance and suspense movies(although, I'd have to hold on while it's getting good). No blood and guts. One thing I would love to say about you is: I LOVE THE WAY YOU HOLD ME! Jaime Grace sings an awesome song that describes this statement perfectly. I also am involved with the campus Habitat for Humanities group. They are an amazing group of college kids. Update: It's been fun looking thru all these profiles and checking out the different profiles. I think the only thing I want to add to mine is, I would love to find someone who wants to take care of me as I want to take care of them. Also, must love to talk to fit in with my overly talkative family! And if you don't smile naturally, thats a problem. life is to short to hold on to things that make you angry!!! Pretty much anything that entails, having fun, having plenty of time to talk and just getting to know each other. It's even better if he plans it. Show me who you are and I'll show you!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shanna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Just cking this out. Evolved from looking for friends to wanting to date. Summer is here and I am tired of being cooped up.UpDate Okay... its time to add on some personal info. I've put it off as long as I could. I had a profile up several months ago. It described me and what I was wanting (then) nicely. I was mainly looking for friends (again, then). I've made several great friends, appreciate, treasure and hang out with them. Couple of dates hurt my feelings, couple were bizarre, couple were compared to a teeth cleaning.... but overall it was great experience. I learned alot. Since then, I've had couple big life events that opened my eyes, my heart and my mind. I realized that I wanted someone more significant to share those cool, fun things in life. ME: Direct, but politeHonest, but kind Funny, but a bit smartass Friendly, but not a pushoverOutgoing, but not obnoxious Independant, but not a b***hHappy, but a bit lonelyAdventurous, but responsibleRomantic, but not sappyCurious, but not noseyPassionate, but not wild. Well... okay ??? Intuitive, but won't questionListener, but not shyGreat Mom, but need more ME life Respectful, but not judgementalStrong, but gratefulGreat friend, Always YOU: Goodlooking, Sexy, Built, Rich, Well Read, Traveled Extensively, Well Mannered.... WAIT! Bachelorette was on in another room, that was her list. Dream On Chica! HAYOU are a mystery to be unfolded, a surprise to be enjoyed. You will be an enhancement to my strengths and a compliment to my weaknesses. You will be the *** my laughter. You will be the cause of the nervous flutter in the pit of my stomach. And hopefully you will make me breathless from your kisses. Thats right, you HAVE to be a good kisser! Bonus points if kissing was on your activity list. Outside Patio for wine, maybe a great walk along the creek. Great conversation after the initial agonizing first five minutes that everyone seems to think you can tell the chemistry from.... yeah, right????

  • Blanche

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am your basic girl next door looking for a "cyber connection" the same as you. I am not into casually dating. If I don't answer your ***, please don't take offense. It isn't because I don't want to, it is because when I do and say "thanks but I do not think we are a match", I've gotten mean *** My preferences for my "future cyber connection":1 Still has a career or if retired, very active in something.2 Loves his family and is close to them. 7 Close to my age a little younger or older is fine. I feel I look and act young so looking for similar.8 Doesn't have small children. Sorry, been there done that. As for me, I'm a CFO/CPA for a retail diamond company by day and a CPA by night. I keep busy, but for the right "connection", I find plenty of time for us.I have traveled the world and still love to travel, but I keep it close to home these days due to all the unrest in the world of flying. (Unless you talk me into somewhere...lol)I am not into *** or talking on the phone alot. I like to meet and see if the "chemistry" is there sooner than later. Drinks somewhere quiet (with appetizer because I can't drink w/o having something on my stomach).I do not drink coffee.

  • Millicent

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I like going on little weekend getaways, I love to entertain and have friends over for BBQ's.About me..I'm a very trusting, loyal, honest and caring person who enjoys spoiling the people I care about. I want to find someone who I cannot wat to see again and they feel the same way. I'm someone who my friends and family know they can always count on. I always have fun and try to make the best out of any situation, I try to always focus on the positive. I like to laugh and can laugh at myself and do often. LOL... What I'm looking for..You would be sincere, honest, loving, funny, caring, has some of the same interests I do, be strong yet sensitive and like to laugh and have fun and can laugh at yourself. Someone genuine who is also looking for someone to share his life and have fun with.I'm not looking for someone to take care of me, I'm looking for someone to enjoy and share my life with. This site has been very frustrating, so many men write and say one thing yet do another...I don't get it. I would have never thought it would be this hard to find an honest, caring, fun loving man. If you contact me please don't just write one or two word messages or write messages for ever and not want to talk on the phone or meet in person to see if we click or not. It's really hard to get to know someone by messages alone. I'm ready to meet Mr wonderful and start having some fun, are you??? (not the Mr wonderful part)...LOL Somewhere where we can laugh and have fun.

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