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Yolanda, 51
United States, Virginia, Poquoson

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About Me

If you are looking to hang out or to be friends with benefits then please dont contact me. I want a real relationship nothing less. I am a professional female. I have a demanding career and work long hours typically 3 days a week. I dont like to be idle. I enjoy the job I do and the people I work with. Ive been alone for more then 12 years now. I have raised my children and love them dearly. Ive lived in several states and would like to stay in one place with someone that I dont want to be without. Now its time for what I want and need. Im an honest and open person, so ask if you've any questions.Im family oriented and very much think of my home as my sanctuary. I like it clean, neat and homey. I think coming into a home and smelling hot bread baking, the smell of a fresh baked ham or roast beef is a good day. Love a nice dinner, a walk in the evening or curling up together on a cold night to watch a movie. I miss sharing the day talking when snuggled close together in bed at night. I do believe in love at first site but also know it takes time honestly getting know each other. I think when 2 people honestly connect, it doesnt matter what they do as long as they do it together. I think a real relationship takes time and cant be formed in one date. You have to talk, spend time together and know that you can live with each others skeletons in the closet. Im looking for the passion of romance, the long kisses and being in a monogamous relationship. There is no such thing as perfect. Our quirks makes us unique and individual. Laughing is the best medicine in life and I love laughing. We have to be able to laugh at ourselves and all the funny things around us. I always look for the positive and want to see the good in everything and everybody. I take care of myself and take pride in my appearance. My pictures are recent.. If yours arent or there is a major change in them, then its only fair to post recent ones. PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE, its just not fair for me to respond to you if you dont. Sorry its a dis advantage! I think keeping it simple is good. Coffee, a drink and a chance to talk and get to know each other is good. If it doesnt work out then saying Im sorry and good luck is ok.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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