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Polly, 51
United States, Virginia, Gainesville

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About Me

I have been single for a while, by choice. I am looking for the right guy and I am willing to take my time. I do not generally write back to the "wants to meet you". I don't always respond to inquires (not because I am being mean) but I may have read something in your profile that did not appeal to me. I also look at distance as criteria for dating. You're not going to want to travel over an hour every time we want to date. I'm being realistic. Don't be a hater. It is what it is. I am a single mother of two girls (one home; one on her own) and they are a big part of my life. However, being a happy person with their own life means knowing how to balance motherhood and personal time for yourself. I think I do manage to balance my life and that makes me a very happy person. I am very independent and self sufficient, HOWEVER, that does not mean that I do not need a man in my life. I do. I need HIM to complete me (yes the movie was right). Many things I can do for myself, but a man in my life will make me feel like a woman, give me someone that I strive to make happy and I would love the big warm safe arms wrapped around me. I am very versatile. I enjoy trying anything at least once before I make a decision whether or not I like it or not. This includes foods, music, activities, travel and many other things. I don't like to limit myself to a box......so I am always excited about trying new things.The photos of myself are mostly current. A couple are from last year. I think you should post a current picture. Posting pictures from the past are not good when you go for that first date and you can''t find the person and they are right in front of you. This is the first step to honesty. I love the weather. I love the outdoor adventures that you can partake in because we have great weather. Not fond of the cold, but I can ski and make a snowman if needed. I take weekend trips with girl friend whenever we can afford it or get a weekend to do it in. It's fun to get away. I hope this explains a little about who I am and what I like to do. And good luck in your endeavors. I want to go somewhere we can talk and see if we have the chemistry to go farther. I'll leave it up to you decide how much you want to invest in our first meeting. I am ok with coffee, drinks, dinner, outdoor concert, or what ever you can think of. You do not have to try to impress me with where we meet, just impress me with YOU.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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