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About Me

Hi! My name is Tendergem. I am divorced spiritual but not religious caucasian woman with kids from United States, Michigan, Wixom. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    No, but my partner can have them

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    A Few Extra Pounds

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Brielle

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there, and thanks for viewing my profile. I'm an upbeat woman who's been fortunate to live in many places and meet a variety of people. I enjoy many things, but anything where humor and laughter are involved is always a favorite. I enjoy watching football, basketball, and baseball; tailgating is one of my favorite things to do! I've been known to wager in a little competition every now and then, as long as I get a handicap and a huge head start :) I'm certainly a “girlie girl” (please don't mistake that for high maintenance) with a touch of tom boy and enjoy a strong, confident man who just so happens to enjoy engaging in friendly banter and teasing around with me. I'm an intelligent and driven woman. I love discussing a variety of topics, and I prefer stimulating conversation over drama and gossip. I'm confident but not arrogant. I'm passionate and sensitive but also strong and capable. I'm extremely loyal and very much self aware. I have a great capacity for love and life and am a very compassionate person.Okay. Seriously, I struggle to describe my perfect match because he could be basically anyone from anywhere. As I'm aging, I'm finding that I enjoy meeting men from different walks of life (don't get me wrong: you must have teeth, a good source of income, character, intelligence, and attractiveness). I've decided not to put too many geographical limitations on my profile because I don't necessarily believe that the love of my life lives within a 50 mile radius. I imagine he's imperfect and comfortable with it - not afraid to make mistakes and learn from them. He's attractive, in good shape, and takes pride in his appearance. He probably doesn't mind that I'm a little bit silly at times, and he likes to play and have fun. When faced with a situation that looks hopeless he'll start laughing and tackle it willingly. He's a lifelong learner and believes that a relationship with his love interest deserves as much effort as he puts into anything else in his life. My job is as important as his, but I know that in order for a relationship to thrive, both partners must put time and energy into it. What I've learned most from my prior relationships is that both partners must put effort and dedication into the relationship, and that once trust is broken...it's hard to recover - so don't break the trust. My guy requires some time alone, yet he looks forward to building a connection and enjoys the magic of chemistry - he likes getting wrapped up and whispered to at night....and of course he totally digs me (despite all my faults), and I feel the same about him as well. I do love the pictures of men proudly holding their fish or deer they conquered: it shows they can provide for their woman. :). Cutest!I hesitate to write anything negative, but there are a few things I want to put out there so that you won't waste your time. If you have commitment issues and are only here for computer entertainment or to constantly be validated then please pass me by. I believe a relationship should begin with a degree of friendship, a touch of butterflies, a twinkle in the eyes, flirtation, admiration, and an appreciation of what the other brings to the table. I believe that a kiss is very telling and vital in determining if sparks will fly. Further Intimacy is reserved for someone very special.* I can't emphasize enough that if you can't be faithful in a relationship, then pass me by. I'll gladly support you doing that, but other than my daily four mile walk/run and weight workout four days a week, you won't see me participating in any extreme sports. Fishing, hunting, boating, and skiing are more my style. :) I believe that an initial date should be at a casual venue where there is no pressure on either of us and we can have a warm or cold drink together.

  • Rona

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I love people that look at the positive side of life, no drama, compassionate, kind and have a sense of humor!I enjoy nature, live music, romance, traveling, experiencing new things.Love being on the water, reading a good book.Loyalty, trust and respect are a must. First date should be light hearted, lunch or glass of wine, low stress. I am very easy going,

  • Neida

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I should start with what I am looking for so the rest don’t have to read any further:Honesty, with me and with yourself.Passion, in what ever you do.Strength, both physical and emotional. Be strong enough to admit you have faults to.Ambition, don't settle for what comes your way, make it happen.Romance, it doesn't cost a thing if you do it right.Leadership, make a decision, if I don't like it I will tell you but I don't want to decide everything for you.Machismo, I don't want to think I’d have to defend you in a fight.Respect, I am a person with feelings; you should be able to acknowledge them and act accordingly.These are what I want, not requirements. Yes I want the perfect man but perfect for me is flexable. I am not looking for me so you don't have to like all or any of the things I like. I only list a few of the many things I already know I like but I am sure there is a lot I haven't tried yet. My only hobby these days is learning new things. Seems that's the only thing I am really good at. I bake to reduce stress but taking time off that to lose some weight. I love just going for a drive or even a walk. I love the beach and the mountains. I like all kinds of music. I had everything a person could ask for in life at one time or another and lost the most important thing of all the love of my life. I refuse to be alone there is too much life for one person. I hold honesty above all else. Sometimes the truth hurts. Every time I read my profile it seems a little depressing but it is not that way at all. Life is good. It certainly beats the alternative. I just want to be happy and happy with the person I spend my time with.One of the most important things I have learned is that I deserve better. I deserve to be treated with respect first of all, second to be treated like a lady. I won't settle for less. If you are offering less then don't bother here.Please don't expect a sex encounter. That is not going to happen here. If that is all you are looking for just move on. Meeting is not the first date. Meeting would be nothing more than a meeting in a public place, coffee, drinks, dinner?? or what ever. I have been reading some of the first date ideas on here and most of them sound pretty good to me. But again first date is different that just meeting.

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