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Gilda, 43

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About Me

I find it rather difficult to talk about myself but here it goes. My priorities are faith, family, and career (in that order). I am a divorced mother ***years divorced) of an amazing 21 year old daughter whom is a senior at UNCC. I am grounded and as normal as any red headed Aries with a Type “A” personality can be. I enjoy reading, tennis, attending the Theatre and spending time with good people doing just about anything from the beach to hiking. I suppose I should first say that I am not interested in “hanging out” or casual dating. I am interested in getting to know someone that is at a place in life where he is open to really getting to know someone that may lead to a possible relationship. Honestly, I do not want to get involved with someone that has young children and/or unresolved issues in his prior relationships. I am not perfect by any means but I do not have anything in my life that would interfere with establishing friendships or relationships. What I am not looking for:• Someone that does not live within 30 minutes of my postal code• Someone who is not in my age range ***to 48)• Casual daters, serial daters, married men, separated men (however long separated)• Ego maniacs, jealous natured, wimpy, metro sexual• Someone who’s idea of decorating is putting a deer head on their wall Casual lunch or coffee date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hey There!I was on meetville earlier in the year but got really frustrated at all the fake profiles and /or those contacting me making plans but then canceling them all the time. I deleted my profile completely and tried some other avenues. Just thought I would come back to the site once more to see if there are any new guys out there that maybe are SERIOUS about using the site for which it was intended--> actually meeting someone......First off about me:I am a divorced single mom of 2 children. One just finished her first year at college and my second is a rising 8th graders. I work entirely too much....some of it is out of need, but some of it is to fill my time since I don't have anything else to do to fill my time as my kids are at the age they just don't really need me around as much. I am a Registered NurseI am currently on hiatus from working on my RN -BSN online, but will start back in the FallI am a movie fanaticI love music, it is a big part of my life and sanity--> I only really like Hard Rock/Heavy Metal, a pop song only here and there, but NO COUNTRY OR RAP, NADA NONE AT ALL**** JUST BECAUSE I LOVE MY ROCK MUSIC DOES NOT MEAN I DON'T LIVE A GOD FEARING LIFE! JUST BECAUSE I LISTEN TO HARD MUSIC DOESN'T MEAN I LIVE THE LIFESTYLE!!! I DON'T DRINK, DO DRUGS, OR PARTY, I JUST LOVE THE DRUMS AND THE FAST BEATS OF THE HARDER MUSIC AND IT REALLY IS A STRESS RELIEF TO ME TO LISTEN TO IT. ALSO, THE LYRICS ARE LIKE POETRY SOMETIMES, AND THERE ARE SOME VERY TALENTED SONGWRITERS IN THE GENRE. SO BEFORE YOU PASS ME BY B/C I LOVE HEAVY MUSIC, JUST REMEMBER THAT IT DOESN'T INTERFERE W/ MY BELIEF IN GOD AND MY MORALS AND VALUES**********We go to concerts right often, wish it was more often than it is, but hey, we live in NC, and not all the good rock bands come throughI made my mistakes in my previous marriage. Yes it takes two and both of us made mistakes and I fully own my part in it. But, I have learned from my mistakes and during the past 4 years alone (by choice) I have also learned exactly what i am looking for and what I am willing to compromise on and not compromise on. I really am a traditionalist when it comes to relationships. I believe the man should be the one who is in control and the woman is to be by his side, supporting him. I just ask that my opinions be sought out, listened to, respected, and considered in the big scheme of things. I am educated and book smart, not so much street smart, lolWhat I am looking for:First off, don't tell me you that you are looking for a relationship as the "bait", and when we talk or actually meet, switch it up and all the sudden you are looking for a FWB situation, b/c that is not what i am looking for on this site.I seem to attract the young guys or the men who are my parent's age. Please do not contact me if you are more than ***years older than me (6 MAX), i am sorry, just have had bad luck w/ older guys, so it's just a preference, nothing personalA man w/ his priorities straightEducatedStrong (both emotionally and physically)Respects that I am smart and actually likes that quality Wants to spend time together, actually looks forward to it (not as a plan B)Preferably likes my kind of music (not a requirement, just a big plus) and would be willing to go to concerts w/ meSomeone who doesn't mind going to the movies, as well as pile up on the couch and snuggle while watching one(That's all that i can think of right now, but I am sure more will pop up and I will amend the list as I think of it) I would prefer the man choose, or ask me what I would like.......you really can't plan things like that until you have talked with someone for a while and get a feel for what they are like

  • Ramona

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Good coffee, great conversation and laughter are essential as is chemistry. I am looking for someone with honesty and integrity. I am sometimes quiet, my eyes speak in many volumes- conversation comes in many forms. Not much into going back and forth with e-mails. Have found through past experiences (and common sense) people can construct themselves into whatever they want or feel you want them to be. Thus, not on here to make interpals, but to actually engage in doing things together. I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in a person. - Audrey Hepburn Now let's talk about you !

  • Krista

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I would describe myself as loving, giving and spontaneous. I am full of energy. I love the outdoors, but feel just as comfortable curling up inside to a good book or movie. To me, life is about the people. It's not about what you do, but who you do it with. Unfortunately, for most people, fear keeps them from experiencing the best that life has to offer. I like to keep an open mind and look forward to trying new things. I want to live life to the fullest. I want to do everything, go everywhere, and am always looking for fun, new experiences. I'm looking for a man who knows how to balance his life between work, family, friends, etc.. He is attractive, independent, bright, hard working, down-to-earth, and sweet. He has a great sense of humor, A man who is not afraid of intimacy. Honest and open, and willing to build a relationship one day at a time..

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