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Shelley, 51

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About Me

Hmmm. I love to have fun (who doesn't), laugh, red wine, no drama, extremely independent, emotionally and financially. (I don't need to know what you're doing or thinking right now) lol. Communication/thoughtful debates, love cooking, quiet nights at home, squash (playing and eating), dress up nights out (I wear a uniform for work), I love chivalry, I'll open the door for you 20% of the time, you the rest.)I would like to try new things, and get out of the box. I am not a big shopper. This seems unusual to people, but it's true! I would like to learn more about technology, fishing (tho I can teach a thing or two about fly fishing), music, history, fixing stuff, and just about everything else. I can be ready to go out in 40 minutes, including shit, shower and makeup. Lol. That's rude. I like fitness, but I'm not a freak. I would like some encouragement in this area, especially now that I live near the sea wall. I have two bikes, rollerblades, tennis/squash racquets, golf clubs, on and on. I am not looking for someone to complete me. I am already fully happy and complete. Just some laughs with new friends. I have to admit, I'm not much of a cold weather person.)I think it's tough to meet your perfect match over the Internet. Patience and the ability to "give good texts" and "give good phone", are a must. I am not looking for serious immediately, but how bout some fun with someone fun? A new friend, then who knows? I have decided that I would like to meet someone who makes me want to be a better person. Also a bit of a Mcgyver, like myself. LolI am real, and painfully honest (I don't know how to be anything else.) Well enough about me. Lets see what happens. Now I would like to know YOU! Start off by telling me the one lie that's in your profile?! lol. Cheers! Hmmmm.... Communication is the biggest thing, and being a good listener. So, let's go for a walk, watch the submarine races, and have a chat and a bevy of some sort. I want to look in your eyes and see the type of person you are. I find the good in everyone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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