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About Me

This is a mystery, how does one express the multi-faceted three dimensional in a two dimensional form? And yet, here we are!I am happy because I choose to be! Life is an adventure, enjoy the ride! I am complex not complicated. I need, I am not needy. I am self aware, adaptable, easy going, tolerant and loving; that doesn't make me a door mat. Passion does not equal drama, I am looking to create a life of passion. Everyday is an opportunity to create something new. It doesn't matter where I go, it matters who I am with. Take me to the symphony one night and a dive bar the next, it's all good. I have the personality of a cat and the soul of a dog. If you understand animals that will make sense.I am here to meet my best friend. I am here to find my life partner. Someone I can have fun with doing absolutely nothing. Someone to climb mountains and explore the world with, who can also lay on the couch and watch a movie. It doesn't matter what you have, I want to know who you are and how you treat the people in your life. You prefer talking about ideas and action more than people and things. I want to know who you are, not what you do. I want to know if you know who you are. If your profile is incomplete, I can only assume you don't. I need a man of integrity who knows the value of being his word. "The only way you know you love yourself and others is by the commitments you are willing to make and keep", Dr. I am whole and complete, I do not need someone to complete me. I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, and dependable. If a friend in need calls at 4am, I am there. I am the friend who will help you move, lol. I am looking for a mate that has those same kind of friendships in his life. I am silly and playful, but please don't doubt that I can be serious at times as well. I enjoy a good banter. I have conviction with out the need to be right. I need to feel attracted, but that doesn't mean that magazine cover looks are required. Beauty is in the "heart" of this beholder. I am passionate about life and love. I am constantly growing and evolving, I want someone to grow and evolve with. Everyday is an opportunity to change for the better. I have a massive capacity to love. Relationships may be work, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun!!My pictures are current, I weigh ***lbs, and I am really 51........ 'cause why would I lie about that!!! lol.I appreciate all those who are interested, but honestly, I will only respond to those who are geographically desirable and have photos posted. If you do not have a clear full face photo posted I will not respond. There is only one real way to know if there is a connection and that is to meet. Love is always thirstyand looking for a thirsty lover.Love and lover follow each otherlike day and night.- Rumi --Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Depends.........second date, that is another story!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shelly

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    First let me say I live in Queens just in case you missed it above.Would like to meet a guy that would like to spend some time together, but I also enjoy my alone time as I'm sure you do to.If you aren't at least or taller than 6'2"+ don't waste your time or mine, and don't tell me you can wear heals (not funny) don't want it. Please be between ***, white and in shape sorry not into heavy guys.I know what I want and hope you do too at this age. In the summer I like to go to the beach to tan and take long walks along the water, among other things...In the winter I enjoy traveling to warm places to relax and tan....I enjoy gardening, hanging out with friends and family, going to the gym, being outside. Going on vacation at least once a year if not more to some place warm and fun.Enjoy baking having friend and family over for a relaxing night.Would like to fine someone that has his act together at this point in his life. Meaning has a job, his own place, can afford to do things.If your handy and help around the house that would be a plus :) but not a deal breaker.Love children just don't have any of my own, have lots of niece and nephews, and became a Great Aunt recently. Let get to know each other and have some fun. I enjoying going out to dinner/lunch and getting to talk to the person and getting to know them a bit more then just a phone conversation.

  • Brooke

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello! I am employed and I enjoy my job..., most of the time. I try to keep things pretty simple with a positive attitude on life..., and always try to live by the Golden Rule. I am Spiritual and belong to a fellowship. In the summer you would find me on the beach with my girlfriends...in the winter I am happiest with snow on the ground...or looking for it in the mountains. I prefer being outdoors. Traveling is part of me, German Father and Guyanese Mother saw to that...now I would like to try for more of Europe, maybe Thailand. I have a cousin living there for the next few years. Life for me is simple and I avoid drama at all cost. I never had children but have been blessed to have had and have many of them as a constant in my life ... I'm not sure how it happened...but my life has been full because of them! I believe that I am perfectly imperfect and my friends tell me that I am a Good Listener, Respectful, Trustworthy, Understanding, Funny, Curious and Infectiously Happy. I believe a healthy relationship is being able to show your feelings, all of them..and..I believe in the three C's, Conversation, Compassion and Compromise. I'm adventurous and still a bit of a thrill seeker, I like to drive fast ;). Although, I am at the time of my life where it just takes takes a bit longer to recover. My search is about a desire, not a need. What is most important to me is about sharing our hopes and dreams together..., being supportive to each other & cherish our lives where we can achieve our goals with endless possibilities. A partner that can give freely of themselves, and appreciates the same in return. I believe we should be both students and teachers so we both can learn from each other and other's in our lives. I am looking for someone who is realistic and down to earth and wants to live a wonderful life. It's not about what you have or don't have, it's what is in your heart and how you treat others that will show who you really are. And yes, let's be honest, chemistry is important to everyone and we all have our taste..., prefer athletic average or a little husky types. I know what I appreciate and also know what I don't want. Life is to short for Games, and it just becomes to disheartening. It's not what we get out of the relationship that counts... it is what we bring into it that gives it life. I know we are not all perfect, we are human and desire that Special Someone. FAITH, HOPE and LOVE..., But The Greatest Of These Is LOVE. As for likes and dislikes...practically everything is in the like column except dancing...I was not blessed with rhythm...I will always give it a shot though, not to proud to give it a shake! I love most music, ...and I enjoy singing too...although, once again, was not blessed in that area either. As for movies, I love everything but Horror flicks.So my question is; Is there someone who will be willing to take a chance in a friendship to see where it may bring us?"Thank You" for taking your time out and reading my profile. And if you are interested , please feel free to contact me. "Courage is not the lack of fear..., courage is knowing there is a fear, but having the faith by taking the risk to go through it, knowing no matter what, it will be all right". We never know..., unless we try. It is all about the journey, not the destination. I will be upfront and answer anything you would or should want to know about me...please do the same. HugsUpdated ***I live between O.C. and A.C., NJ so there are many options!

  • Earnestine

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    An incurable romantic, I believe in happily ever after. I\'m kind and generous. Easy-going, rarely get angry, don\'t hold a grudge. Love to cook. Look for good person to make a caring family with.

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