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Gretchen, 53

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About Me

I'm hoping to meet someone i'm crazy about...just one last time. Hopefully he feels the same way and we become best friends. I love being outside so I set up a projector and white screen in my yard to watch movies at night. I love cuddling up with a blanket, popcorn, and a drink.I'm a curious mix of fun, laughter, intensity, creativity and a very loving heart. When a man knows how to make me happy, my eyes are only for him. I love adventures and surprises. I am comfortable cuddling on the couch at night watching a video or having romantic dinners out on the town. I love weekend trips together, cooking for each other, jetskiing, fishing, walks on the beach (who doesn't), and even camping. I find intelligence a very sexy quality. I love my family and love being in a healthy and quality relationship.I have a beautiful daughter that is in college. I spent the last 18 years making sure she was taken care of and now it's my turn :)Sometimes I just enjoy being alone to enjoy nature and reflect. I volunteer at the Wildlife Waystation and enjoy working with the animals. Scooping tiger poop can be very good for the sole...lolI know a relationship is right when I can be with that special person and not feel an awkward silence when the conversation slows. Let's start with a drink and see were it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Darlene

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    It doesn't matter what I put here everyone just looks at the pictures anyway :)Humor attracts me.....so humor me :)I have no tattoos. I exercise. I take my vitamins and visit the dentist regularly. I love sports. (except the NBA)... You positively have to love sports too.Family values and education are important to me. I did not come from a dysfunctional family and I have children that are well on their way to graduating from college and becoming young professionals. I am looking for someone who shares the same values. I would not be a good match for someone who does not.I'm in search of an educated, athletic, secure (as in mentally and financially) professional for fun, laughs, romance, and adventure... I've been on here long enough and my curiosities have been satisfied..... I am a positive person. I have read many profiles that refer to the proverbial glass (half full-half empty) really all that matters is if I want the glass or not! Even though I have some really bad dates, I maintain a positive outlook and look forward to the day that I meet someone who is right for me :)Good things come to those who wait ;) ;) ;)

  • Miranda

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    ***Update:I first joined this site a few years back while I was separated; I think mainly because I was lonely and wanted new people to talk to. Then my husband and I worked things out and I stopped logging in. Sadly, he passed away about 6 months ago, but at least the sparks in our marriage had come back and we had some special times before I lost him. I've only been back on here for a week or so. Not even sure I should be here, but I know he would want me to have male companionship of some kind. So here I am.The diversity of those on this site fascinates me to no end. There are so many differences in personalities and interests, yet all sharing at least this one thing in common by being on here. People sure are interesting. :-) I hope to make some new friends while here. If I initiate contact with you through the site’s ***, I have read your profile and something you’ve written has caught my attention. I do, on occasion, write to someone that I already know will not be interested in me as a potential match (some of you fellas are more specific than others when describing what you’re looking for), or vice versa. Don’t assume my intentions are anything other than an appreciation of some part of you. Chances are, I honed in on your great sense of humor and thought I’d enjoy chatting with you, want to compliment you on your excellent profile-making skills, or am curious and/or interested to learn more about some content in your profile.Now on to an attempt to describe myself……I hold back opening up to someone until I feel comfortable with them…sometimes that happens quickly, sometimes it takes awhile and sometimes it’s just not gonna happen.I am not outgoing, but I’m not an introvert either. I love meeting and listening to people, yet until someone gets to know me, they usually think I’m shy. I tend to be one of the more quiet ones in a group setting. That’s because I’m trying to hear what everyone else has to say. If you’re looking for “the life of the party” type of gal…I’m not her. More likely, I’m one of her dearest friends though.I love music…just about any kind. Always have. Always will. I can’t imagine a life without it. I have a deep respect and admiration for musicians (and a bit of envy). I will listen to anything at least once.I love animals…especially the furry kind.If I’m with friends…I’m usually having fun, regardless of what we are doing or where we are at. I enjoy both indoor and outdoor events/excursions/whatever else you care to call them. If you’re with the right person ANYTHING can be fun!I love road trips, preferably unhurried. I like taking time to stop and see the little things that aren’t necessarily mentioned in any tour guide and watching people along the way, and hopefully hearing their stories. I’ve never been able to work any world traveling into my budget, but if my sister ever wins the lottery (because I don’t play, and she promised to share if she ever wins big LOL), there are so many places I’d love to see!Some of my turn-offs:LiarsCrueltyMeaniesFakesFreeloadersRacistsClosed MindsCheatersControl FreaksHatersHomophobesInsecurityTo find the key to my heart you will need to be genuine, young at heart, well-mannered, loving, self-sufficient (I won’t be your maid, mommy or bank), honest, kind, have smiling eyes and a sense of humor (if you make me laugh, you’re halfway there).I don’t understand the concept of people “looking for a long-term relationship”. That is not something you find…IT finds you. If it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen, whether you want it to or not, AND not on your own personal preplanned timeline, but when it’s the right time for IT. I think some people get so caught up in the ‘looking’ that they forget to cultivate the friendships that could have been growing. One, of which, may have eventually blossomed into the exact thing they were looking for all along, but never end up finding due to their own haste and lack of patience. Look, if you feel the need to, but don’t throw away the friends you meet along the way.May you find joy in your life, Peace of mind, and laughter in your heart. Thanks for stopping by. xoxo I have not had a first date in years. No, make that decades!Open to suggestions. It seems obvious that it should be someplace we'd be able to talk and see if we're connecting at all. I suppose it would also depend on how much we had already talked on the phone or *** and forth. This is too generalized....to many unknowns for a definitive answer.

  • Nadine

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm a freelance writer and mom to an awesome teenage son. I workout daily and am in great shape. I like to dance, hike, explore new places, go to garage/estate sales and second hand or antique stores, garden, bake, watch and participate in some sports. I'm looking for a close friendship type of relationship, but I do not expect it to happen overnight. I don't need anything complicated. I hate to play stupid dating games. If you want to ***, please do not contact me at all. I am looking to date not to have cyber sex. I like the simple pleasures in life and do not need to be wined and dined. I do like to be impressed, but that does not necessarily take money to accomplish. Most important to me are honesty, genuineness, and sense of humor. I don't judge a person or try to change them. I just expect the same in return. I am sweet, agreeable, witty, and pretty good looking. I'm just looking for a decent man who wants a woman to take care of who will take care of him in return. For a first meeting coffee is good, but if things progress from there, I think a good first date is dinner at a place where conversation is not impossible. Maybe dancing or a movie afterward if there is a connection. My ideal date would be a drive to the beach with a picnic lunch of Dungeness crab.

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