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United States, Tennessee, Collierville

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About Me

I believe my greatest strength is that I truly care. I'm a very genuine person - an encourager who believes in people and gets the most joy out of life when helping others. I believe in God first and family second - and close friends are more family than some relatives. There is ALWAYS a bright side in everything. ALMOST everyone who knows me will tell you I truly am a good guy! I am definetly an open book. Ask me anything and I will kindly give you a straight answer. I know for sure I don't have time or patience in my life for games or BS. Life is too short not to be honest. I don't have a jealous or controlling bone in my body. I won't BS you just to get "l....lucky". Married 26 years. Divorcing almost 2. Wasn't my idea, but the process is beyond my control. I'm absolutely over it. I haven't dated all this time, but I've decided it's time for me to live. I've been on Match for 7 months but only had my profile visible 5% of the time (twice when it looked like my divorce was actually about to happen). I hope being single is like riding a bike!!! My 4 incredible kids ***are currently the most important thing in my life, and I have a rather busy career myself. I don't have a lot of "me" time, but I'm looking for someone to truly have FUN with in the "me" time I do have. I'm equally at home in black tie or gettin' muddy on my ATV. Small town or city life. It's the simple things that matter most. I believe you get out of anything what you put into it - whether it's your body, profession, relationships, or faith. I'm simply trying to find someone where there are sparks in hopes that we can enjoy one another's company. I'd love to find a lasting relationship, but I'm not trying to force one to happen. I don't think you can. I'd like to find someone who is as happy home on the couch watching a movie, enjoying the company of friends, or dressed up for a night on the town for just the two of us. I seek someone I love to do things with - whether it's things either of us already enjoy, or trying things that are new to both of us. I prefer someone who is as comfortable with make up as without. I'm equally attracted to someone who looks nice in jeans and a t-shirt or a little black dress. Honesty, communication, values, optimism and security in oneself are a must. I truly enjoy treating a lady like a lady, but I'm not looking for someone who thinks it's my responsibility to always make all the plans about everything. Life can be very hard sometimes, and I want to find someone where the rest of the world disappears when we're together. I'm looking for someone who has experienced enough of life to know what truly matters to them. If you have, age is irrelevant. If you haven't, it doesn't matter how old you are. My primary love language is touch. I love to snuggle, hug, hold hands and kiss. Yes, at some point a truly enjoyable sex life is a must have for me - and I know that doesn't begin in the bedroom. Just being honest. I'd rather be single than settle - and sex isn't the only thing that applies to! I seek a relationship based on true friendship which encourages/helps each person to grow positively in all aspects of life. Fav quotes: "Everything happens for a reason, but sometimes the reason is that you're stupid and you make bad decisions!" I'm guilty! "I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I choose to react to it" "Happiness is a decision" - my ex said that all the time. LOL!! Rom 5:***"Have joy in tribulation, because tribulation produces perseverance, and perseverance proven character, and proven character, hope." "You can either go through divorce or grow through divorce". I choose to grow! IF, after all this, you have an interest in getting to know me now or after I'm divorced, send me an *** me a wink. Thank you very much for your time. I hope you find the one for you! Jeff NO PICS=NO RESPONSE...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Political views

    Conservative

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Music Reading Traveling Watching Movies Outdoor Hobbies Pets Spirituality
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