SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Jacquelyn
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!
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Crystal
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I hate writing ab myself. I love music, movies and my kids. Not looking to get serious but who knows what may happen. I am pretty much happy all the time known to be sarcastic and can't abide stupid people. Have learned to smile thru a lot in my life and still have a lot of life to live. Something simple that way if we don't get along no harm no foul.
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Mallory
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Must love Wolves!! I work hard and go to school but have been told I already hold a Master's in humorous sarcasm. Easy going and genuinely nice is the type of man I am looking for. I like just about any kind of music and finding a dance partner would be fantastic. If you are offended by Ladies who have tattoos, you should be informed that mine are classy and hidden, but still there and I will be getting more. I am very independent and NOT looking for someone to take care of me, nor do I put up with someone wanting me to take care of them. Everyone has some type of baggage or drama in life, so expecting everything to be drama free is ridiculous as long as the drama in life does not cause major heartache or is preventable. I love many activities but unfortunately limited temporarily because of school. Makes it hard to meet new people but with patience comes reward. Thank you for reading and have a fabulous day! A first date is almost like an interview, trying to find out about the person sitting across from you. I am pretty much game for anything from a movie, dinner, theme park, sporting event, a new adventure, a simple cup of coffee, or a walk by the lake or ocean.