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Lila, 47

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I am a single mom of three sons...two being grown and gone. I love life and feel like I am living life for the first time in 26 yrs. I am a mommy of a 5yr old son so he is part of my package. Don't bother me if this bothers you. I don't believe in wearing masks. What you see with me is what you get! I don't want there to be any surprises, so you need to know that I am NOT Miss America nor am I BARBIE..I have a few xtra pounds on me that i am working really hard to get rid of...so don't judge me. I'm a plus size woman and its something I have come to terms with. I'm a christian and I go to church. I love music of all sorts. I work for a radio station so it tends to run through my veins. My goal is to make sure that my third son turns out to be the great man that my other sons have turned out to be. I have to warn you that I love to dance, too. It's great exercise and it makes my heart smile. I'm a little stand offish at first, but you will like me once you get to know me. I'm usually the life of the party. I absolutely LOVE to laugh. I'm willing to take a chance if you are.Let me conclude by saying that there is nothing about me that is hateful or rude. I do believe that since I have a photo on here, it's only fair that you do too. I will not respond to those without photos and to anyone that is the same ages as my older sons...so please just stop right there and don't even try to go there.I have been a mom most of my life (started at ***so don't be scared of me if you have kiddos of your own. I'm not a "one night stander" type of gal. Don't crucify me for having my dad's old fashion ways. I enjoy a good drink and a good concert. Did I mention that I'm just enjoying life right now because it's pretty great. Holler at me and maybe we can talk.Thanks for stopping by my profile today. The thought of a first date makes me nervous. It's been a while since I have had a DATE. I was married 23yrs, so this will be different. Not really sure how to have a first date. What is it that people do nowadays? LOL. I like to shoot pool and I absolutely love to dance!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Roseann

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I have ***custody of my son who is 16. His father and I have a great relationship which is the way it should be. I'm truly looking for the real deal. No games, no lies, just the real thing. So if you are looking for something real too, I'd love to hear from you. :)

  • Penelope

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    A REAL, Intelligent, witty, confident, genuinely caring and devoted extrovert searching for a real genuine man with integrity!I am playful, affectionate, outgoing & funny with a love for laughter. I believe in looking for the good in people, my glass is half full even in the most trying times. I am a very passionate person when it comes to my values and beliefs such as sports (Go Packers!) to include hockey and boxing, family and the qualities that I'm looking for in someone special. I am a well versed conversationalist and an excellent listener looking for the same in friends and a significant other. my little black dress...but I do love to dress up for romantic dinners!With that being said, outside of raising two wonderful children who are the center of my life...; the local trails), theatre, movies, jet-skiing, the beach, bonfires, dining out both casual and gourmet! In winter...skiing both downhill and cross country, tubing, making angels in the snow, cuddling by a "REAL" fire with a glass of wine, creating &. sometimes you'll just catch me smiling and laughing at nothing at all. Although chemistry is a must and extremely important, I am seeking friendship first and if we are fortunate enought to share a spark we'll see if it can light the "match!" Lastly, integrity, intelligence, confidence is a must as I am a fit, attractive woman who tends to draw a lot of attention but can guarantee I am only looking for one special man! Likewise, I am looking for a man seeking only one special woman (no players, serial daters, men on the rebound please..)If your seriously ready and interested in getting to know someone REAL and TRULY have all that I have to offer you...;) Depends on the date but definately something fun!

  • Alfreda

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I need to be able to refill my depleted reserves. I enjoy any activity around the water. Even my favorite vacation is cruising. Just give me my Kindle, iPod, some sun and water and I am good to go. IT was my goal this summer to have a killer tan and i succeeded!!! I may not be great at fishing but I have no problem relaxing quietly while some one else enjoys the sport. If I knew how to dance I might enjoy music more, but I do like listening to live bands. I enjoy having someone to share my life and expose me to new things. I recently got custody of my 17 year old godson and am a parent for the first time in my life. He's showing me a more active lifestyle. No longer the quiet book worm I tried to be. Its been fun, but no teenager wants to hang around with a parent all the time, right? I would like to find a partner in life. Someone to share my experiences with, good and bad. I don't need someone to fix things or try to make it all better. I am way too independent to go for that. I want someone to bounce ideas off of and tell me when I could be making a better choice, but not force me into it.I like to try new and different things. I actually got my para-plane license when I was younger. I love to fly! The feeling of being up in the air with nothing coming at you... incredible. My favorite movie is Titanic, for the history of it all, not the romance. I have been a Titanic buff since a kid. I have books and artifacts that I treasure. Then again I like history period. My favorite memories as a kid involve traveling around the country seeing battlefields, museums, historic monuments. If you want to to hear more feel free to contact me, if not... have a wonderful life! Open for discussion. I will try most things at least once.

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