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Rita, 46

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About Me

i like to spend time with my family and cook outs.like going on long drives,enjoy the beach. i have a beautiful daughter and granddaughter who are my world,i spend a lot of time with them so you have to be able to deal with that if not then don't waste either one of our time..i love to go out to dinner ,the movies outdoor activities i am very out going have a great heart, great sense of humor,etc...looking to meet someone i can hang out with have some laughs,go places together and enjoy each others company,and see where it might lead.i am looking for relationship my best friend the one and only one i can share everything with it will take someone very special to win my heart,so if your up for the challenge and think you can handle a independent woman you could be the one LOL. i didn't realize how hard it was to find someone that is even half of what i am looking for,but i know he is out there some where,that will except me for who i am i don't pretend to be something i am not.i love kids and animals.i have a beautiful 4 year old grand daughter who i spend as much time with as i can.i am so ready to start a life and adventure with someone special.Life is way too short,believe me i know,so i will not settle for less.i am not perfect so i don't expect you to be either,i want respect and honesty for that is what you will get from me.I am a very faithful person and give my all in a relationship,i love to pay lots of attention to my man.i don't take life for granted,i was diagnosed with stage three Melanoma (skin cancer)in ***had two operations due to it did spread but thankfully not to main organs,i have been blessed with life and new beginnings,life is way too short,it has been a long year and a half but through all the pain and the chemo i was determined to make it through and i did i am a Survivor.So i am finally in a place where i know what i want and what i will and not put up with,i think i am a good person and deserve to be happy and share my life with that special someone.i am starting to have that big smile again,i am still dealing with the scars,which i am sure in time i will except them,because they will be there for ever,but i am here so they are my survivor scars that saved my life.....Let my new life begin...FYI i am not looking to jump right into a relationship,but if i meet someone and that is where it leads then great.i am in a good place now where i am ready to date again. my ideal of a first date is to make it as relaxing and not so stressful.maybe out for coffee or a drink,walk in the park just trying to get to know one another.i just like to enjoy myself and i can usually have fun with any situation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello,I am hoping to meet someone who is honest,with integrity and a good sense of humor.Beginning a new stage in life now that my children are grown,hoping to find someone to share new adventures as well as old favorites.Lots of things on my bucket list,but very content just relaxing with good company too.Please if you are still married ( even just "technically"),I am not the girl for you.Hate to talk about negatives but evidently that is a more negotiable thing for some people.I am kind,loving,honest and very loyal to my friends and loved ones.I am focused on being happy and positive and would love someone who is too,as it is great to have someone to encourage that as well as be encouraged when they need a little.Please say hi if this sounds appealing to you,I'm pretty outgoing but find myself hesitant in this arena.Wish you all the best in your search,Sue Somewhere quiet enough to talk and get to know more about each other.

  • Gail

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello there :)Really... when did it come down to meeting people online? (smile).A bit about me:I treat others with respect and expect the same in kind. I suppose most would consider me pretty independent. Not a feminist by any means (I hate those labels) I am not looking for someone to "take care of me" financially but I also am not in a position to take care of you financially either. Make sense?Even with independence I am old fashioned when it comes to dating. I am more comfortable having a man call. If you give me your number and ask me to call that makes me uncomfortable and I won't.I have an easy time making people laugh and am happy most of the time. A relationship is nothing without honesty and laughter. My parents have raised me to be kind. I believe communication is extremely important.Looking for someone with diverse interests. We don't have to share all the same interests but you at least should be "interesting."I don't have the energy to play games in a relationship. It is not worth the time or effort.If there is a connection so be it.. if not.. the same. Life is too short to look for hidden meanings and play games. Appearance is important to me in the sense you have to be attracted to someone to have a relationship. Appearance is not so important that I judge a book by the cover.As for my appearance.. I am plus sized so if you are looking for someone who is skinny keep looking. It doesn't define me, but chemistry is important.I have become more of a home body over the years. The bar scene is just not me. I enjoy getting together with friends, spending time outdoors (usually try to go camping in the mountains at least once during each summer) and being close to someone.Intelligence is not measured by what university degrees you have but your ability and willingness to learn. I have a few degrees and am very smart in certain areas, and not so smart in many other areas.I like to think I learn something every day.A sense of humor is extremely important to me. Dinner..wine tasting.. auction? Nothing fancy required but like to get to know someone.

  • Pamela

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Well I enjoy the outdoors ,movies, music, reading, spending time with family and friends. I am easy going, good sense of humor, good head on my shoulders, open minded ,caring, loving, passionate, kind heart. I do not live in the past for that is what it is the past. I do not care what a person has nice house car money that means nothing to me. But what I do care about is getting to know that person and what they are about. I like to go camping and fishing, cooking out on grill, have always wanted to learn how to scuba dive and play golf. I like to eat out and slow dance and ride motorcycles. I think meeting for coffee or a drink maybe dinner and a very nice talk just to see if we click and go from there.

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