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Mercedes, 41
United States, New York, Hempstead

Offline, last seen Mon, 30 Mar 2026 01:48:16

About Me

Hello there! Okay, here's a little bit about myself...I am a Guidance Counselor in a public K-8 school. I love my job and wouldn't want to do anything else. To make this easier, I asked some friends to describe me and here are the results: fun-loving, sweet, adventurous, motivated, family oriented, considerate of other's feelings, and energetic. I am quick-to-smile and somewhat inquisitive! I enjoy all sorts of activities and will pretty much try anything once - I’ve gone sky diving, cliff diving and accomplished the knee-hang catch on a flying trapeze! I enjoy fine dining, traveling to tropical islands, rollerblading, roller coasters, hiking, some snow skiing, pistol shooting, obstacle/adventure running/races (i.e.: Tough Mudder 2x), and CrossFit for exercise! I am the type that loves getting dressed up and going to a nice restaurant one night and maybe camping out by a fire the next; I can suit the occasion and enjoy doing so. I spent a great deal of time in college and working hard. I own my own home and am financially independent. Ive had several (very) long term relationships (8 years, 7 years, and 6 years each) and although none of them developed into a life-long future, I feel that I am a better person because of them.I have fulfilled all of my academic and career goals and hope to meet a man who has done the same...hence, who is ready for a committed relationship. I am looking for someone who I can share myself with - someone who will be my love, as well as my best friend. I am finally ready to meet the man who I am meant to be with. Although I am not looking for a relationship that is only "convenient", I have tried the long-distance thing once or twice and have found it difficult. I do also understand that everyone is on their best behavior during the get-to-know-you stage...which is why I do not tend to jump into things. I will try to be as up-front as possible in this.Having said that, I prefer to meet sooner than later. As much as I appreciate good writing technique, as illustrated in *** &/or text messages, I would much rather meet early on to determine if there is a spark between us - which is absolutely necessary!! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American Thai Turkish Family & Kids Music Thriller Basketball Dance
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    “In my world, the glass is half full and every minute of life is to be enjoyed. I am looking for someone to take that trip with me. I have an extremely sensible outlook on life, I am easy going, grounded, practical and down to earth. I value surrounding myself with the same. I have a strong desire and ability to be loyal and don’t get involved lightly. I put my heart into my job/work and am passionate about the fact that my career is based on helping people/companies become more conscientious of the environment. I am financially successful and am looking for an equally successful partner, both in life and in work. I want someone that sees themselves as they are and with a desire to continually improve on who they can be. Self-confidence and self-respect are a must! Dependability, reliability and patience are some of my top virtues. I believe my daily work out gives me life. You will find me by the pool during the summer and snowshoeing or telemark skiing in the winter. Take me to the dance floor, and I’ll dance all night long. I love close friends and love to have fun and laugh. I value time spent together, strong, open commitment and communication.”

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am an honest, fun, sincere woman in hopes to meeting my match. I am outgoing and love adventure and meeting new people. I love anything outdoors from sunsets,camping,fishing,concerts, sporting events etc. I can go out on the town wearing heels and a simple black dress to my favorite jeans. I LOVE music, preferably rock and enjoy watching good live bands, I can appreciate all types. I enjoy spending quiet evenings at home snuggling up to some movies and a nice quiet dinner :) or camping on the rim playing frisbee or throwing a football. I appreciate the little things that people tend to overlook or take for granted. I look forward to meeting the guy who I cant wait to spend time with again and can't stop thinking about, a guy who appreciates the good qualities that I have and appreciates that same woman that walks beside him. I love thoughtful little things that you do to let me know your thinking of me or that you care, that means so much!!! I am hopeful to finding the guy who knows what he's looking for in a woman and won't settle for less. Im not looking for the perfect guy, Im in search of the perfect guy for ME. If you are a guy who likes to spend most of his time at the bar, a guy who is into drama, please I'm NOT your girl. Thanks for checking me out and good luck in your search.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I like to listen to various types of music as well as attend live music events, cookouts, traveling, etc. I\'m looking for an educated and intelligent partner. I value honest, respect , and compassion.

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