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Dale, 41

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About Me

Well, as a single mom of a 3-yeat-old, my time is rarely my own. Hobbies are something I hope to resume as my child gets older and more involved with school activities. In other words, school activities will likely become my hobbies in a couple years. :-)I really don't want to spend a lot of time trying to convey who I am here when a phone call or two and/or meeting for coffee would tell both of us *** there's any chemistry worth pursuing. That said, I must also tell you that I have very limited availability. Babysitters cost money, and as a 1-income household, we don't have an overabundance of that. So I choose who gets that very precious time with great care. If you don't have pics up on your profile, or are cagey about means of contact, I will not reply. And in the interest of full disclosure, let's get right to the heart of it: I don't require rescuing, but after the # of guys I've talked to that have all been taken advantage of most grievously by conniving, selfish women, I've concluded that guys say they want an independent woman, but at the end of the day, they want to be the hero.-do list. Oh, and he also has to sweep me off my feet. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alyce

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    This is where I try to be funny, but I'm the only one laughing, and those of you that are, are the true geeks, so welcome! I am 41, and yes these photos are recent- I'm told I look 30, but that being said, I really am 41, and also want to date 40 and above. Okay maybe a REALLY mature 36, but warning: I DO NOT WANT ANY MORE KIDS. I have two lovely men in college and they put me through enough hell that God has granted me a "get out of hell free card", true story.P.A), wine, coffee, FOOD, baking cookies, entertaining, reading, art, dancing, and church. Church? gulp, cough....yes I go once in a while and wouldn't mind sharing that with someone. Please no crazy evangelicals, but Lutheran, Presbyterian, Catholic would be great as long as you are ok with drinking and occasional swearing. (I've got the card remember) Not a deal breaker if you respectfully disagree, but if the mere thought offends you, you might want to bolt at this point. I take fairly good care of my body (see exhibit B) if you do not take care of yours on a similar level, I'm probably not interested. Don't need a sugar daddy, been taking care of myself and two boys for a long time, however I'm not interested in sponsoring struggling musicians (cute as you are). I am a muralist, fine artist, designer, teacher, and I'm going back to school to get my Masters, so I'm a pretty busy cookie, but really would like to meet someone special to grow old with. (nostalgic music playing) I'm not materialistic or very high maintenance, unless you know how to fix bikes. Re-read my age requirements, that goes for grandpa Joe too! I am a teacher so PLEASE use the spell-check feature built into this program (the red dashed underline means you are misspelling a word!!!!!!!) Seriously? On the other hand, if you are witty or a smart ass, please inquire within! The best first date I ever had was a 2 hour hike followed by a shooting range (which I had never done before, and was very uncomfortable with), then beer tasting at a brewery, and then dinner at a 5* restaurant. Though we didn't work out because of our age difference, that still goes down in history as one of the best dates ever....can you beat it?

  • Josefina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Trying this site out...Just looking for someone honest, hardworking, fun. Looking to enjoy life. ABSOLUTELY no time or patience for drama, head games, or BS!!I listen to all types of music, I like football and hockey, muscle cars and motorcycles. I have two grown sons and an 11 yr old daughter who lives with her dad.***Apparently more clarification is needed in my preferences. I desperately do not want to be rude to anyone, but I strongly believe in being upfront and honest - I don't want to waste your time OR mine. Sooooo......Please do NOT bother to contact me if you:1. are not Caucasian 2. do not have a fairly strong grasp of the English language. "We be good aiight?" is NOT a come on.3. are fanatically religious. I do not attend church and I have my own religious views, thank you4. have hair longer than mine..sorry guys5. are on drugs6. Have a real problem with ANY of the following: guns, motorcycles, tattoos, military ***These subjects are NON NEGOTIABLE. I have a kid in the military so I don't really care what your political view is about it - I'm PROUD of my kid7. If you're going to be a douche and send me some bs msg with what you want to "do to me" - I WILL F'ING REPORT YOU...Look dude, if I want to do anything with you (and I'm definitely no prude believe me!***I'll tell you in person - and that ain't gonna happen with sh*t like that, no wonder you're single.All that being said, I'm sure SOMEONE will give me cause to add to this list. Again, I am simply trying to be as honest as I can be. Thanks a cup of coffee or an ice cold drink :)

  • Alyson

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I thoroughly enjoy having quiet time to myself, however it would be nice to connect with someone. I would like to meet someone who is completely hilarious, sexy, charming, kind and is comfortable in their own skin. I enjoy looking into someone's eyes and making them fall to their knees.. No, not really. But it sounded nice anyway. If it happens .. that's awesome. My friends say that I am confident, funny, intuitive, flirty, sweet and loyal. I am getting too old to meet people in bars anymore and frankly it's getting boring. I hope to at least make a few friends here if nothing else. I am not looking for a miracle on Plenty of Fish... it's just a vessel to possibly meet someone who perhaps wants to spend time getting to know how fabulous I am.Please be able to spell and know a little something about emotional intelligence.Likes: Cooking, Hiking, Reading, Singing, Randomness, Romance, Sushi, most music- except country, day trips, traveling, Writing poetry*POF Pet Peeve: Either you want to get together.. or you are a player.. or you are shy.* Whatever the story, get it under control. :)P.S. I do not care if you own a boat, a mansion or several cars, because if you are an ass or a sociopath none of that matters. LOL! Coffee or an adult beverage.

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