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Barbara, 45
United States, New York, Hempstead

Offline, last seen Sat, 08 Nov 2025 08:25:35

About Me

I am a Mom, employee, daughter, and friend.....I have lots of people that count on me to be there. The rest just kinda happens and falls into place. My life seems to be changing right before me.....I'm enjoying every minute of it and finding many new things I like to par-take in......I enjoy many different activities. It all depends upon the hat I am wearing that day. Everything can be fun depending upon the company.....I listen to all types of music, it also depends upon my hat for the day....from oldies to heavy metal...prefer metal.....With my boys grown and their life planned out........That means that, I have alot more free time to spoil the man that chooses to be in my life.....life is too short to be unhappy very long, or to deal with lies, so please don't waste my time if you tell them....... I try to keep the drama to the lowest level that I can. Recent events make me add this statement!!!! IF you cant have a first conversation without asking me about what im looking for or sexual expectations dont bother wasting my time.....I ask that you say what you mean, and mean what you say. you must be a gentleman. you must have some dreams that you are willing to go after and not afraid to achieve them with a good woman at your side.....I will do my best to spoil you, and be there good or bad....I wont run from a few detours....its the little things that mean the most to me.....I love lightning and thunderstorms and sitting in the swing under the gazebo watching the rain and a fire in the firepit....I'm a flip flop kinda girl. I also like my cowboy boots. I clean up decent for a night out on the town or can be very comfortable playing pool, mini golf, at the movie, the park, hell, I'm game for nearly anything. Although I prefer the outside in good weather. I am a deck, swimming pool, bbq, friend, and family type a girl....as long as I can find some time for painting my nails!!!! LOLCamping and canoeing and 4X4ing are some favorites too.I tend to keep busy and always find someting to do as I might miss something cool to do....Sleep is way overrated!!!!Thanks for reading and have a great day!!!!! If there is something I might have left out feel free to drop me a line!!! Depends upon what we agree upon....It should be somewhat quiet so we can talk to each other. Fun, low-key and stress free....Just be ourselves and go from there...hugs are way more personal then handshakes.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese French Action Adult Sci-Fi
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