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BerylOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am fun, adventurous and love a great conversation. I am very goal oriented and enjoy a career as a writer/business owner. I love kids (have three, 5, 15, ***and am very family oriented. I am pretty much up for anything new and love new experiences. A perfect night at home for me is some jazz, a glass of wine, candles and cooking with my friends. I love hanging out with my kids, even though one is in college. I am ***not 43 like my profile says) but most people think I look much younger and am even mistaken for my oldest daughter's sister often. I like to dine out sometimes but also like relaxing time at home as I have a demanding career. I have traveled some and would like to travel more. I am not a really big outdoors person but have owned boats and tried hang gliding, zipping and snorkeling and am pretty open minded. I am fairly tall at 5'7" with long blonde hair and brown eyes. That's a little about me. I think its funny when guys post pics of themselves with fish. Dogs, cats, babies...girls think they're cute! fish? not so much. Good pics also help (preferably not with an x cut out of them) haha. Tell me a little about yourself... My perfect first date would be with someone that I can engage in a conversation with on the same level over a glass of wine and a sunset...just getting to know each other. I like someone who is business minded, would like to travel a little and is a strong family man.
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EstelaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I've been here a lil while, and I've learned a few things. But 1st things 1st...yes, I have pictures. But I don't post them. I have my reasons...(Update....okay, so I added pictures)Now on to what I've learned. When you send me a message, if all you say is "Hi" or ask me how I'm doing today, I most likely will not respond. Saying something interesting, funny or witty will get my attention. If I can't be stimulated intellectually, you won't have a chance physically. I don't mean to be crude...but I have to find you mentally attractive if I'll ever be interested in meeting face to face. My interests? I love all types of music...but wont do rap. My favorites are country, alternative, and the blues. I am a health nut, and I've studied food & the human body all my life. I enjoy keeping in shape, and I have a healthy lifestyle & diet. I love to read and watch movies. And no, I don't care to read that romance trash. I prefer non-fiction....true crime & health.I have 2 beautiful children, and my world revolves around them. I share custody with their father, and he is a big part of their life. I'm not one to bring dates home. I am raising a handsome young man & a beautiful young lady...and I must lead by example.I like to go mud riding, sitting by a camp fire, riding my mountain bike, roller blading, and sitting on a porch swing. I love to cook & I take care of myself appearance wise. For now I work part-time so that I can be home when my kids need me. We MUST be friends first. If you can't be a good friend to me....I can't be your lover. Just had to throw that out there...I am a genuinely happy person. I know who I am, I know what I want, and I'm not afraid to be by myself until I find it.
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WilmaOffline
Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 23-33
In my free time I usually watch Netflix, play video games, read, dance, go on walks, hang out in the backyard with my neighbor, or go out with friends. I enjoy camping, fishing, hiking, races, bowling, movies, and whatever else a person can come up with to do. I've always liked trying new things as long as I have someone to try those things with. I do believe in God, but I am not religious. Believing in God is a choice. If you do not believe in God and think anyone who does is delusional or you are offended by Christian music then you can continue on your way. I will not push my views and beliefs on you. I will not belittle you for your beliefs. I may ask you about them and why you believe the things you do and I may tell you why I believe the things I do, but I will never try to convert you. My current goal is to become a Registered Nurse. I'm currently on my path of achieving that goal. However, my nursing classes don't start until ***. It's a long wait to get on with my life. I, also, want to write novels. Eventually, I want to get married and have kids. I have one kid and he's 7. His dad doesn't have anything to do with him. I'm very independent and enjoy my space. I don't want someone to fill up my time or is too needy. I am opinionated, honest, loyal, and real. I rather a person know exactly how and who I am right from the beginning so I don't waste their time. I would like to be treated the same. I'm a firm believer of the golden rule, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Sometimes, I slip up, but I'm always trying to treat people the way I want them to treat me. I don't put up with bullshit. I like to take things slow. There is no need to rush things. I don't like needy, clingy men. I don't like men who lie, cheat, does anything illegal, or gets in meaningless fights. I want a man who is honest, loyal, monogamous, humorous, reliable, good work ethic, responsible, is good with kids, slow to anger, understanding, shows me I am special and wanted, not judgmental, listens, caring, not afraid to shower me with compliments even if I am not accepting of them, and laid back. Also, it is a real turn off when I read a message and the guy can't write even the simplest words. Sorry, but we will probably never meet. I like intelligent guys, but not so intelligent that they are obnoxious, arrogant, and make me feel like a complete idiot. Everyone is smart in their own way. I happen to be good at science and really enjoy it. I'm a little old fashioned when it comes to talking with men. I may find you attractive, but I will not approach you first. I feel that if a guy is interested then he should come to me. I will not give out my number right away, that is something that is earned, as well as, meeting. You may end up waiting a couple weeks to a couple months depending on the connection and the extent of our conversation. I am not a cat person. I prefer dogs. There are very few cats that I like. One thing you need to know about me is that if you are married, I will not meet you, ever. Marriage is sacred and I will not come between another person's relationship. If you are married and on here you need to get off and make things work with your wife. Too, many people get married and think it's effortless. It isn't. There is a reason you got married in the first place, I suggest you figure it out and make it work again. I like rock, reggae, jazz, blues, oldies, country, christian, and even some hip hop. I really don't like rap.On another note. I took the time to write all of this out so, I would appreciate you taking the time to read it. I will read yours as well before responding to your first message. If I have directed you to read my profile then you have already made a bad impression. First dates are hard and awkward. The right first date will ease that awkwardness. I think, that the first date should be up to the guy. He can pick restaurant, activity, or whatever he prefers. I like to see what the guy picks to do. It says a lot about a guy. I will tell you that dinner and a movie is not going to be the best first date. How can you get to know someone while watching a movie? I don't know about you, but I love movies and I get so into them that I tune out everything around me. Besides, it's rude to talk in a movie theater. I would like a date to be creative. Dinner is fine, but there should be an activity to go along with it. I want a date that will blow me away.