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About Me

The poem quoted below speaks profoundly to me, and for me. I can say this, now, at this point in my life, only because it has taken me quite a while to get here. I do not regret one minute, the men, the years, or the decisions (good or bad) that have gotten me here—now. They were all steps along the way which have not only enabled me to understand the depth of this poem, but have created the ability for me to implement its meaning into my daily life. It represents how I try to live my life in every moment (when I can remember to do so).“To know that I am no-thing, that is wisdom. To know that I am everything, that is love. And between these two, my life moves.”el bistamiBut, seriously, I am not this serious. Just a deeper aspect of myself. I live to laugh. Love to laugh.I am open, self deprecating, and live with integrityI need to laugh at myself daily. And to create all sorts of movement in my life....I try to accept all that life has to offer on a daily basiswith courage, compassion, and kindness as best I can. However, I do miss the world terribly. Working diligently (and at times distractedly) on recreating a new life at home for myself. Taking the time to figure it all out while continuing to work with children in one capacity or another.I sometimes contradict myself because it ultimately expose oneself to finding your true inner desire by facing your own contradictions you didn't know you held? But I do have solid integrity and am grounded for the most part.I am physically active and love to hike, bike, walk, roller-blade, and play a lot of soccer when I am fit. When I am working on getting fit (again) I do all the same stuff daily-- just a lot less vigorously. I also do yoga and pilates regularly because I love how they feel. I need to move daily in one form or another, without it I would go mad. But, I am no longer a fanatic.My life is constantly changing, as it should. I try to remain open everyday to what life brings and work to take action to bring what I want into my life.Looking for love and a LTR if I can ever find that right mix of a guy at the perfect time?? It has proven elusive for far too long.I am spiritual and practice kindness to self and others daily.... Coffee, drinks, a walk, or dinner...or any combination thereof.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lois

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    im a sweet, loving woman with no kids, just a neice and nephew i spend most my time with when i can. I like to rent jetskis, go fishing, concerts, drink at a pub once in awhile for laughs and hang out in the backyard in the pool. I am looking for a relationship not some fly by night romance. I would like it to start out as friends first and then if there is enough interest go from there. If you have any attraction hit me up and lets go have some fun together. I'm not shy so don't you be either please. you and me and a nice corner so we could talk with a nice cold beer

  • Tracey

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    It is very important to me to find a christian man. I am a single mom to a great 19 year old son. We are both in college. I'm in college working on becoming a teacher for students with special needs. I love it! I'm thrilled to be in school! I am so ready to be done though! I also work in a grocery store as much as I can and still keep up with school and home.I'm a positive women who is also very adaptive. I enjoy many, many things and I'm always willing to try new stuff. I can be very sarcastic at times and really enjoy funny people.There is no box to check that says I want to see where things go. I have found that saying I want a relationship helps avoid some of the men just looking for a "good time," some. You might be surprised at how many want you to go ahead and meet them so you have a good time with them while you look for someone. Sorry, not interested. More importantly, I want to find someone I can spend time with and hopefully have a serious relationship with them. Now, I'm not looking for an *** but, I do want something serious, eventually. Even though it is difficult to fit into my schedule, I will make the effort but I'd like the favor returned. I also don't want to be serious tomorrow, there is plenty of time. I am a very faithful and loyal woman when I am trying to get to know someone and see if we might work together, I quickly get to the point that I am only trying with the one person. For me being exclusive is not about being serious, it just makes good sense.I feel that everyone has some sort of baggage and nobody is perfect so I would love to find someone who does not shy away from my past or their own. Doesn't mean we need to dwell on it, just means it helped shape the persons that we are now. I have 6 tattoos and some piercings.I took the time to write some things here that tell a little about who I am. I get very turned off by messages that show that the man has not even looked at my profile, I'm not sure why I should respond.The following is just a little something that I wrote. I don't want to be treated like a princess, because I am not that fragileI don't want to be treated like a rug, because I am far better than thatI don't want to be ***, I am right hereI don't want to be controlled; I can make my own decisionsI want to be A priority, but not your only oneI want to be treated like a friend, like you want to spend time with meI want to be treated like a partner, like my opinion mattersI want to be cherished, like I will cherish you I think first dates are about getting to know each other so movies are kinda out, a great dinner, lots of conversation, and a few drinks sounds much better to me. Maybe a round of miniature golf? Game or two of bowling?

  • Victoria

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I am 26. I have a little boy that is 6 . I like hunting and fishing. I like to have a good time no matter what I am doing. I am fun loving and like any kind of music that moves me. I play in a dart league at the bar I work for.

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