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Judy, 44

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About Me

Ok so this is me: You get what you see. Authentic. Fun. Easy going. Independent, Confident and Free Spirited. I have great girlfriends that I spend a great deal of time with. They have gotten me through the worst and best times of my life and they will get a chance to give their opinions on you :) Don't be nervous! You will love them all. I have had my own business for twelve years as an interior designer. I love it. It is my passion and its where I spend A LOT of my energy...that is...AFTER I am the mom of two beautiful teenage daughters. They keep me on my toes and they are reason I get up every day. You must love girls if you will be part of this house :) We do have a boy... My little Shitzu. He is not always stranger friendly but a good judge of character! My friends would say that I am loyal, a confidant, strong and determined. I know how to have fun. I have been referred to as the energizer bunny because I am usually the last one standing. They also call me "DJ Ne" because I love all kinds of music and I am the girl with the ipod :) I love to dance!I LOVE to cook. I want a man that will cook with me. Not just eat! I love good wine. I love fine dining. I love entertaining. The parties, the barbeques, the get togethers...are almost always at my house. I need a guy that loves that too. I almost forgot! I LOVE COFFEE! It's a must in the morning! Grande Latte with 3 Splenda...or...at home it's the Keurig! If you are a coffe drinker...you know it!I love the sun, beach and water...laying out, boating, a picnic, jet skis. I am not very athletic (i was not blessed with that gene even though I try) but I love to watch and I will be right in the middle of it all. I just won't be the star and I am SO fine with that. I would really love to learn to golf and if you have the patience to teach me...well you just might be the one :) I love adventure. I love to travel. I LOVE rollercoasters even though I am scared to death! I won't be skiing in any type of environment (because I suck at it!As for you: well...I hope you are tall, smart and witty. If you can't make me laugh and if we can't laugh together...it's not gonna work. I hope you love to sit and have wine with me and have long conversations about anything and everything. I hope you have a great family and a set of friends that you can't wait to introduce me to. I hope you are passionate about your career but not overly obsessed. You know how to have fun on the weekend. I hope you are honest and kind and can be open with your feelings. I hope you bring something to the table that you can teach me. I want to learn more, experience things I've never experienced, and just grow mentally and spiritually with a man I respect. Is this all too deep and too much to ask and expect? I hope not. Cuz I am setting my stardards high and you should too... First dates...I prefer to leave it up to him however, to be honest..drinks or appetizers or something impromtu is best when meeting someone blindly. The initial meeting is just to be somewhere comfortable to be able to talk and get to know one another and see if there is a connection. Stress free. If that meeting goes well then lets start planning the fun stuff!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Claudine

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    My friends would describe me as an independent, outgoing, funny, good-hearted, caring, dependable and honest person. My family, friends and two dogs are the core part of my life.I love a variety of things from movies, dining out, traveling, concerts or even spontaneously jumping in the car and heading to Winstar for a few hours. I also enjoy evenings just hanging around the house just kicking back.I'm looking for someone to spend some time with, get to know and take it from there so we'll see how this goes. I think a first date should take place at a very casual spot that is not too loud so that we can get to know each other and see what common interests we have, etc.

  • Myrna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello and thanks for reading. I'm a divorced woman with 2 kids, one teen and one in college. I am in sales, I love my job and work hard. I am very family orientated. I love all kinds of music, I like to go to concerts or go hear live bands. I read a lot of crime and mystery novels when time allows. I'm outdoorsy - I like to go explore, I love the ocean and the beach, I love to snorkel or go boating. As far as sports hockey is my number 1 game (Go Bruins) football is great but I'm not a Jags fan (sorry guys!) for this girl its Saints all the way.I love most everything about it. I'm a dress up type of woman but I am also very comfortable in jeans and a game shirt. And did I mention I'm an excellent cook? =DI work out but I'm not a health nut. I hit the work out about ***times a week (it should be more but I'm lucky to get that in.) I hate talking about me so anything else you would like to know please ask.Now for what I'm looking for:be a positive personbe family and goal orientatedbe employed (sorry but I'm not paying your bills just as I dont expect anyone to pay for mine)be kind and have a sense of humorbe physically fit ( i would love a work out buddy)be honest...I'm so tired of liars and cheaters, I know there are good men out there that do not lie or cheat..I just want to find them!please don't be verbally, physically or mentally abusiveplease don't be out of shape, Sorry I am just not attractive to men who don't take care of themselves. please don't ask me for r or x rated pics you aren't going to get them. meet for a coffee and see if chemistry is there.

  • Flossie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Generally men are physical creatures, and past profiles has proven that most of you don't read these anyway.....so....... :) Here it is in a nut shell......I am not possessive, jealous or demanding. I don't want your money, house, business or man card. What I do want is laughs, fun, cuddles, passion, openness, HONESTY, and friendship that possibliy could lead to more. I am finally ready to move to the next phase is this amazing life journey and share some great times with. WARNING: I am NOT photogetic at all, and have been told that I look better in person... not a line of bs, just being direct and hopefully it will get you to be open minded. lol lol If nothing else, a face to face meeting allows you to scope out the package...hehehehehIf you want to know more, just ask. But, gentlemen.... before you ask any question to any woman, think first. Is it something you would like your sister, mother, aunt, daughter, best friend or grandma to hear? In other words, if you wouldn't say it or want it said to them, then show the ladies here that same respect. It will go a long way. Generally I am tyically attracted to tall, average to athletic built men, clean shaven (a bit of scruff is okay), not a big fan of facial hair, sorry, not a fan of peircings, or full body tatoos. I know what I am attracted to just as you know what you like, and I make no apologies for it. This is real grown up life, and the time of BS and deceit is gone. I have no desire to spend endless amounts of time typing away on a keyboard. If there is an attraction, then that is what gets people to stage ***face to face meeting. - I enjoy the simple things, and have always tried to treat people with respect and dignity. I view life as a glass full rather than a glass half empty! :)- My friends describe me as bubbly, outgoing, smart, happy, funny, thoughtful, sensitive, giving, sexy, sensual, quirky and always up for trying new things. - I am more curvy and voluptuous than average, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.- Am independent, secure, well adjusted and have buried most of my baggage in the back yard. BAGGAGE, NOT BODIES.... hehehehNow, if you think you are up to the challenge, than send a message, introduce yourself, say hi and lets meet! You never know who could be just around the corner. I prefer to meet and talk face to face rather then endless chatting, please don`t mistake that for desperation, I just don`t want to waste anyone`s time. I will say this.... a relationship with me comes with some pretty amazing perks! lolCheers for now, and happy fishing.PS: DON'T PUT ME IN YOUR FAVORITES WITHOUT SAYING HELLO AND SHOWING SOME EFFORT. I will just delete you otherwise. Once the first meet and greet is out of the way, and we've established some commonalities and a connection then as for the first date, the sky is the limit. lol lol

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