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Sonja, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ruth

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    God and Kids are my main concern. God has granted me the privilege to raise three beautiful blessings. I grow more and more proud of them everyday. I love them dearly. They make me laugh and cry. So in essence they do their job well. I'm a follower of Christ and go to church regularly. My pastor is like a father to me and I'm grateful for him in my life. God has brought me to a place of contentment. He is refining what that means for my life everyday.Want to know more just ask. Being relaxed and ourselves

  • Michele

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Let me start out by saying if you are a player they my suggestion would be going over to Toy's R Us or any WalMart Toy Department. With Christmas coming up there wil be alot of women & children in those departments. Now if that didn't offend you and you want to keep reading, please continue.I enjoy reading, going out to the movies, & going out to eat. I love various types of music, but my favorite is Country music. I am looking for someone who knows how to treat a woman. In my 25 years of dating I have never received flowers from a man or had a man who was a gentleman and opened the car door for me. I am a hopeless romantic and I know somewhere out there my match is looking for me.I am not the type to message a man first so if I send you a message, know that I have read your profile and you have really sparked my inerest. I also am not the type to date numerous men at one time...that is just too wierd to me.If you have one of your pics where you are half nude please don't message me, because if we would have hit it off you just blew half of the mystery of getting to know each other that way.If I don't sound like your type, then good luck on your fishing trip and I hope you catch your dream fish. I would say for a first date meet for coffee, lunch, or dinner and see where it goes from there.

  • Beth

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm starting over in my life! My friends recommended this site so here I am! I like all kinds of different things read above and you'll see or ask me! I also like to sometimes just sit home either with my kids-I've got 5 and watch one of their movies or alone with a book/moive or with my guy I'm dating maybe a movie,order dinner out or one of us cook,hot tub(if you have I dont),fire,maybe cuddling...I've recently over came my fear of heights two separate times. I am proud of myself..Now if I could stop smoking cigs I'd be set! I know I can do it I did it for two days..I did heights for my kids so smoking I need to do for them and myself!!I'm also proud to say I've work hard over the last year to get the body back that I wanted..I walk every night,did yoga/pilates, workout dvd & try eat healthy & drink water..It's a work in progress but well worth it!I'll be working again after years(16yrs) of being a stay home mom and raising my children.I'm not sure what I'll do yet.I may do some college classes too?..I like all kinds of music ask & I'll tell u it may surprise you..80's is my favorite...I'm a very loyal,loving,caring, humorous,creative,protective(espically w/my children!),bold, honest,shy,blunt..I do have some rules don't cheat if you arent happy either talk with me to work on it or end the relationship! Don't lie honesty with me is important I've got nothing to hide so you shouldn't either..I also believe being just friends with a guy can make for a better relationship. I do have guy friends yes a guy & girl can be just friends! Extreme jealously not cool I'll like a guy to have my back,be there for me but I can handle myself!I'm okay with sports I dont mind watching a bunch of you & your guy friends play or watching em on tv or even going to game..If you are looking for a one night stand or friends w/ benefits then im not for you! I feel I deserve better!! I'm also not looking for someone to raise my kids they've got a father :) but remember my children are a part of me & I dont want more if you have children okay but we won't have one together....Right now I want to talk,hang out/date then see where it goes..not gonna rush into anything that's never gone well for me...Dont play games either not in mood or got time for it!! My time is important so dont play games! I'll make time for the right guy!!Also like a guy atleast 5'9 & up(I'm 5'10 & like wear high heels sometimes) and car/job be nice!! Yes I can be picky like I said I'm in no rush!! I think we should make this choice...maybe dinner, coffee or walk...

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