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Alissa, 41
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

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About Me

I am the mother of 3 and have a son who lives at home still and is Autistic,nonverbal, and is 15 yrs old., I have 3 grandchildren so yes I am a grandma as well. I have been clean & sober for 6 yrs and 5 months. I am an extremely honest person and respect someone more for telling the truth *** being lied to. I have a good heart and a funny sense of humor. My family means the world to me and will sacrifice anything for them to have it better. I am somewhat of a tomboy in other words I am not afraid to work or get my hands dirty but can be a lady as well. Not really sure if I am looking for anything serious at this point I just got out of a relationship...but if the right one comes around it would be nice to get to know them and do things together and take it slowly to see where it goes. I am very understanding and openminded, and do not judge. We all have a past and I havent had the prettiest nor have I done things i am proud of. Yet Today I am doing the best I can and taking care of my family. I lose respect for ya when u cant keep ur word at least tell me geez! Its not like I am gonna freak out or be mad, Just dont like dissappointments.I mean why even say ur going to do something when u know damn well ur not? AGHHH! I do understand everybody has there own way of doing things, I try to do the next right thing and not hurt people today. Somewhere out in public or out to eat so we could talk and get to know each other. That way there is no pressure on either part and see where it goes, and if we dont click well we can go our separate ways. Or depending on the person and our interests ..as to what we decided to do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Adult Adventure Animation Sci-Fi Baseball Cricket Drag Racing
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