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Freda, 40

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About Me

I am looking for someone who I can spend time with, that can accept me for me. I do have children and grand children, my babies are my world. My children range from 23 to ***. So yea I do have 2children still living at home. I do not like drama!!! I work min of 50 hours a week, sometimes I do have to travel out of town to work. I would like to find some one that I can share time with, laughing, and basically just enjoying life. I do not like to shop, I don't have to have my nails done. I live basic don't have to have expensive things to be happy. Money isn't everything to me. But that being said you must have a job, steady job. And if you live with your parents because you cant make it on your own then I am NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. I am NOT looking for a man to raise my children. At a place that we can talk and get to know one another. At a nice restaurant or a picnic at the lake.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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