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Ilene, 32
United States, New York, Utica

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About Me

I would consider myself layed back and easy going. I have many close friends, friendship is one of the greater things I value in my life. I am a lover not a fighter, I dont like the feelings of resentment, anger, or hostility. I have been known to go out of my way to please others. I have a very open mind and am not here to judge others. Everyone has made mistakes, I am not perfect so I dont expect someone else to be. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and can hold my own, so dont dish it if you cant take it. I dont get offended very easily, its not worth letting others get to you. I am one of the few people that know the term compassion. I have a way of thinking from all angles and views and not just my own. At times I hate it..lol I am a single mom of 2 young boys. I come from a strong family background. I was raised with morals. I do have standards and know how to respect those around me. I believe there is a time and a place for everything. I am a simple woman who knows how to find joy in the little things in life. Money doesn't buy happiness nor love. I am not shallow, or high maintenance. I don't need nor do I have 50 different hand bags or shoes. My kids have more cloths then I do. They come first not me or anyone else. I like the idea of being swept off my feet by the guy on the first date, but thats my hopeless romantic side and I know it wont happen. So I can easily go for dinner and dancing just as well as I can go for shooting some pool and having some drinks. I guess its all about where the night leads. No expectations, no disappointments. I guess the biggest advise I could give is this: Intellect is my biggest turn on.I'm not short. I'm bigger and better things in a smaller package. I'm compact baby!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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