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Rosella, 39
United States, New York, Binghamton

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About Me

For the past few years I have put most of my effort/ambition into my career and now its time to shift focus, allowing for some much needed balance.. Realized only after a year that nothing comes close ... So here I am . You must have an opinion, speak with intellect, tell me why I am wrong (only sometimes...;), inspire me, motivate me... challenge me, most importantly love me. I work in a male dominated industry and I am considered one of the "boys" but I am all woman. :)I am highly competitive in every aspect of my life, and always aim high in all I do .! I've learned the last few years that the quest for perfection, and the superficial, materialistic sh*t is irrelivant in the bigger picture. It seems that simplicity is really what I've been after all along. ;)I am perfectly content being by myself and am extremely independant, but two is always better than one. ... I've been called a **** many times.. I have never though been called needy, clingy, a doormat or a demsel in distress... I am still hopeful. I am a horrible settler, have a hard time faking anything for the life of me,(there's no poker face here)... I've been told I am honest to fault, would help anyone in need, loyal as hell to my family and friends . I'm the kind of petson that reacts and speaks up in a given situation when the others are afraid to ..:) I have a mouth on me and sometimes swear too much . But I clean up well and can carry on a conversation about Shakespearean literature or Chaucer at an event. I actually have a brain . Bonus :)I prefer someone that takes care of themselves, workouts and lives a healthy lifestyle. I am attracted to ambition,confidence, intelligence and strong character. I'm not much for liars, fakers, and unkind people- and do not suffer fools gladly. If you a have "; tattoo at the back of your neck, enjoy playing endless mind games, with sleazy intentions, I'm not your girl !! It would be refreshing to finally meet someone sweet and genuine, someone that brings out the best and wants the best for me. :) The best feeling Is letting go ... Being yourself without any fear . I workout 5 days a week, so it would be ideal to meet someone with the same lifestyle. I would actually love to spend more time outdoors, trying new activities, and learning new things. Travelling and exploring new places sounds fantastic! :)Im ready to be less controlling , and way more spontaneous....If all the worlds a stage ... and we are merely players... well then.. lets go play!?? That's up to you ...!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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