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Violet, 45

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About Me

Hi ... I am ready for a (NEW BEGINNING). I want people with real personalities who are not afraid of the truth and enjoy the simple things in life! Life is 2 Short & People work 2 hard 2 NOT enjoy LIFE!I live day by day and never plan anything.. I am trying to enjoy life as much as possible. I have goals and dreams that I am trying to reach. So for now I work and do whatever in between.... When you least expect it I know you will find him. I have 4 children that I enjoy very much and yes they are all 18 and older so no babies.,,, (did my job) so now it is time start over... I hate starting over!!! but who knows what the future holds for me... Just ready to travel in the next 3 to five years and hopefully its with you.I don't read like I should and do not watch a lot of television. 1. I work a lot!!! 2. TV is Shit!!!!! I hate people who get caught up in crap and do not live because they might miss 12 hours of tv. Don't get me wrong.. I will watch tv and watch it with you just not all day and night!!!! I love all types of music.. depends on who I am with and the mood I'm in and where I am. Not picky about food... good food anyway, I do NOT eat a lot of fast food and I love to cook good food and I will definately cook good for you. I know how to treat a man as long as you know how to treat a woman!!!Email me if..... 1. If you are real NOT a player 2. If you treat your mom with respect! (unless she didn't want you like my mom) ;o( 3. NO NO NO 1 NIGHT STANDS!!!! 4. You know how to (treat a lady) 5. If your not a liar/cheater/scum/loser 6. If you like the simple things in life 7. If you love your kids and will except that I have 4 grown kids (only 1 lives with me going to college) 8. If you buy flowers/cards/and do things just because (I love surprises) & (surprising you) 9. If you are a great listener/work/stable/clean 10. If you are Drama Free!!!/Not Married!!!!/Drug Free!!!! 11. Make sure your photos are recent and you are who you say you are!So what I am trying to say is you don't have to be perfect.. but we are all adults and people take advantages of certain situations and waste time... I don't want my time wasted on some fake ass guy who is not sincere, not real, lies, and not respectful.... Been through all of that I am 45 not 18... So please NO GAMES!!.... Not trying to sound perfect but tired of games...... Thank you and good luck!!!!! xo ;o) On a first date..... 1. No you are not picking me up from my house... lol 2. Please decent clothes ok ;o) 3. No one night stands 4. Lets talk over a drink/appetizer 5. Save the lines for someone else 6. When I am talking to you hopefully you will be into me and not the girl behind me 7. Just go with the flow and if it is meant to meet for a second date then that is great!!! ;0)I am really a nice down to earth person... I am a lady in the street and a freak in the bed!!!! Nothing can be forced and you have to do what comes naturally. If 2 people are into each other then that means there is some kind of chemistry and time will tell when the time is right to take it to the next level. Just be respectful and you will get it back.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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