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Phyllis, 43

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About Me

I love to LAUGH. Laughing with others, at myself, as well as being funny, finding humour in unlikely places…making the best of situations, smiling, hugging, holding, leaning, dancing, skipping, splashing...and laughing again.I am open and honest. I've never been married...was engaged once... a long time ago. With each new relationship I have lived a little more, loved more, laughed more, and learned more... about who I am, what I like, don't like and what I need and want in my life. I am genuine, gentle, sweet, loving, kind, usually always positive and usually always seeing the best in someone or something. I am a sensitive being, can be serious, but also playful and a little bratty sometimes too...but in a totally fun way. I have an athletic build that is a bit curvy and a few extra pounds. So i am not sure what i should have selected. I am pretty active once again.-Sep 22 this year), hiking, kayaking and am looking forward to doing more…lots more. I do not have children not because I did not want any, but timing was just what it was. I have a back ground in Child & Youth Care, coached recreational gymnastics for 11 years... and through friends and work colleagues, I get to enjoy kids that belong to other people. If it is meant to be, I will become involved with someone who already has children...or maybe even grand children.Family and close friends are important. They may not be perfect but neither am I. I love them anyway. Life happens but what matters most is not what happens...it is how you respond to it. So.....It is time to venture out and risk vulnerability...in search of a soul mate, a best friend, a lover. If you have a healthy approach to life, food, activity, friendship, family, are honest, open, not afraid of emotion, and enjoy some of the same interests...including conversation....about anything and nothing - Social, political, entertainment, feelings, friends, family, spirituality, community issues...concerns...likes, dislikes, doing quizzes to foster getting to know each other.....perhaps it is time to take a chance?Please post your photo - And if you say you are looking for a relationship but are really looking for a sexual encounter...keep fishing.Thanks! Meeting for coffee or tea or lemonade. Get the awkward stuff that did not get touched on - online or by *** of the way and see where it goes...maybe a walk or dinner...or...bowling...aquatic driving range....or mini golf????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beth

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi, Looking for an adventurous man who likes to have fun. If I said let's get dive certified and head to Cozumel he would say "Yea Baby". Do you want to hike mountains with me and share a bottle of wine at the top? If you have kids the more the merrier. My babies are grown but we still love to have fun. Heads up I am very spiritual I attend church every weekend.So if your not in to something bigger then you move along. I am a busy woman working and going to school. I love participating in organized runs. I did a few ***marathons since I want to run until I am ***I have cut my runs down to trail runs and 5 & 10K's.I don't watch much TV much, sometimes I will catch Mike & Molly. I love music...I sing all the time when I am happy.Please if you have not been divorced for at least 3 years don't waste my time. Your not ready for a relationship. I don't want to be played and it takes at least 5 months to know someone before they start to show their true colors. Blessings in your search for love!

  • Ida

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    About me... Looking for my country boy... I'm an outgoing, independent, ambitious, confident but down-to-earth person with a passion for living life to its fullest. I enjoy being outdoors, I love the rain, painting and sketching, most sports, volleyball, traveling, camping, cottaging, kayaking, skiing, movies, entertaining, going to the gym and staying active but also hanging out at home by the fire enjoying a glass of wine, reading a good book and great conversation. I appreciate the small things in life and never forget the value of friends and family. To me honesty, values, respect and integrity are the most important qualities in a person. I also enjoy having a good time, dancing, seeing concerts, entertaining and getting a bit wild and crazy occasionally, relaxing in my hot tub, back yard parties, poker, bonfires, music and sitting on a patio so I can people watch. I am Irish, an Aries and a redhead therefore can be stubborn... I respectfully but bluntly speak my mind, have many of my own opinions that I will express, can have a very sarcastic sense of humour and love to smile, laugh and have fun.I have an awesome career, own my own house and car, am financially independent, have no baggage to speak of and I'm undertaking renovations on my home soon; some of which I will do myself. I enjoy getting dirty and don't cry when I break a nail lol! About you... It would be nice to meet a guy that is genuine, has a great sense of humour, is kind-hearted and gentle, honest and sincere, confident but not arrogant, independent and active. I am here to meet someone to get to know and spend quality time with building a relationship. I would like to grow old with someone and spend time enjoying the little things life has to offer.I should also probably mention that I have a 12 year old daughter who lives with me full time but I do have 'me' time. There ya have it!Cheers! Meghan Drinks, coffee, dinner?... something casual and fun to see if there's a connection.

  • Deidre

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is the difficult part, talking about myself without sounding boring, conceited or weird especially when the goal is to sound intelligent, confident and hilarious......ok hilarious might be a stretch, maybe amusing?! :)I enjoy being active, healthy and staying fit but also enjoy my downtime whether it's reading, watching a movie, catching one of my favorite shows or easy conversation. My friends and family tell me I'm fun, loyal, outgoing, affectionate (yikes, sounding a bit like a dog here), compassionate, a good listener, funny. They also tell me I'm anal (I say neat), a nerd (I say goofy), blunt (I say honest). I enjoy travel, surprises, music, dancing, sports (some), books, laid out plans, last minute plans, open mind, photography, silliness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, kids laughter, simplicity, respect, honesty, down to earth, sense of humor about yourself, awareness, standing by your word, hugs/kisses, holding hands, beaches, campfires, friends, family....I have more pictures available and if we end up communicating, I'm happy to share and expect the same in return. :)Good luck with your search. Something easy and casual - drink, walk, etc

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