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Trudy, 42
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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About Me

- Im not looking for a long distance relationship.I don't want to meet men at a bar, so here I am . - I have been divorced for seven years now and have learned alot about myself and what it takes to make a relationship work. I know I want to be able to enjoy life and enjoy it with the people that are around me. I would say I have a good since of humor, but at first I may be shy. My friends would tell you that I am fun to be around, a great mom, and for those I care about-I would do just about anything for you. I have two boys and they are my world. Besides some hard lessons learned, they are the best thing that came out of my marriage. If you don't enjoy kids I am not the person for you. I do have my kids full time (that does not mean I can not get away) so it is important for me to be around someone who does enjoy kids.I am looking for a man that will treat me with respect, is honest, and will be there in rough times. I want someone who will respect my kids, and realizes when you do have kids plans can change at the last minute. I want someone who likes to go out and have a good time, yet he has no problem staying at home lounging around on the couch. I am looking for someone who is done with the party scene and more on the settled side. My hope is to find a good hearted, loving man! I'm looking for someone I can share my life with, so if you are just looking to get laid- don't contact me.As well, while I will text quick messages I hate texting full on phone conversations. If you can't pick up a phone to have a conversation then please don't bother contacting me. Honestly, for first dates I prefer, to either go for coffee, a happy hour or lunch. I feel this takes some of the pressure off. If there is not a connection, then we are out an hour of our time! If there is a connection we can can plan another date soon, or continue on with the date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Sci-Fi War
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