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Vanessa, 42

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I am 42 years old, looking for someone between ***. Dating at first, relationship if things work out. I am tiny, but full of fun and suprise! I have a huge heart, and my family, friends, and faith are very important to me. I have 1 son, he is 22 and in the US Air Force. I have been a stepmom to 3 children, so unless your children are 18+, please don't respond. I don't mean to sound selfish, but my son is an adult, and I am all done raising someone else's children. Being that I have not been single since I was 16, I know what I am looking for, will stick to my expectations, and settle for nothing less. Looking for someone who is financially comfortable, tall in height, good looking, athletic build. Sense of humor, can laugh at himself, and spontaneous. Romance is very important to me, and for the first time in my life I am looking for someone who wants to spoil me!! Someone who is down to earth, and secure with who you are a must. Well mannered, and family oriented. Daily drinkers please do not respond. I am planning on going back to school in the near future to finish my nursing degree, and the medical field is my passion. I think I am very laid back, funny, spontaneous, can hold an intelligent conversation and drama is NOT anything I like or want in my life. I am an excellent cook....coming from an Italian family, cooking is a pre-requisite!! If you cannot handle situations like a grown adult, I'm not interested. I would rather spend the day in Home Depot looking at paint chips than go shopping for anything....I love to go fishing, boating, ride 4 wheelers and shoot guns. Favorite movies are horror, thrillers, action or suspense....NOT into "chic flics". Any questions, please ask! DO NOT CONTACT ME UNLESS YOU HAVE A PHOTO!! I think that if you can handle my profile and give me a chance, you won't be disappointed.....I am the type of woman that if I am happy, YOU will be happy....I absolutely love taking care of the man in my life, and your happiness is a priority to me. I am not interested in head games, or someone who talks to me for a few days then drops off the face of the earth, so please don't waste my time. Looking forward to meeting my "; ;-) I think first dates should be in a public place for dinner, coffee or a drink and spend time talking and getting to know each other. Chivalry is not dead, so I love a man who is well mannered and still opens doors for women, and pulls out their chair.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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  • Robert

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Loving mother, educated, goal driven, and a whole lot of common sense!Expect the same (except the loving Mom) Cheers!! In pursuit of one day becoming a DBA manager or who knows CIO (chief information officer). I have a degree is in MIS (management information systems). I am finally working on my dream career as a professional in the IT world. I love my job and the people I work with. Things I do for fun:I love anything that has to do with water. Beach, lake, there is just something wonderful about the sound of the ocean early in the morning. My daughter and I love too bowl. I am not very good but I have a lot of fun trying.I have swing at a golf ball or two and would love to learn more about the sport.Take a weekend trip to a place I have not been before. I don't plan my life around dancing with the stars, the bachelor, fill in favorite football team vs. whoever....so I guess I am a spur of the moment, adventure seeker, get out side and enjoy Gods creations, kinda girl.....;) O.K. I am threw day dreaming now… back to reality. What I really want is someone who can be honest with themselves first and then with others. I realize that I may have a different view on a subject and that is cool, but don’t just go along. Sorry guys, I just am not crazy about football, but I do like to go to live games as I find them much more entertaining. Nothing worse than being with someone at a social gathering and everyone is laughing about a joke and the person you are with has the deer in the headlight look. (yes I have dated a few of those too, I know so sad , right) So I hope your I.Q. is higher than a 3 year old. Lastly, someone that can laugh at their mistakes and admit when they are wrong. Children:I have ***year old daughter. She is beautiful, energetic, and awesome! So an absolute must is that they love children.P.S. I am not looking for a pen pal, I am looking for a real relationship, so if you are just into having a texting, *** gf, that's just not my cup of tea. So please don't waste my time or yours!Cheers! And Have a Good Day!Just had too add this. Sorry,but I do not date black men. Hum first date...Dinner, Glass of Wine, Great converstion, walk in the moon light. However, I really like it when "he" already has a plan.

  • Robbie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Oh for gods sake WHY!!!!! How many times does a person have to describe themselves for strangers? I have tried unsuccessfully to sum myself up before and don't know what to say. I am presently employed as a labourer on the pipeline and am out of town alot so starting any sort of relationship proves to be quite difficult. I'm not looking for someone who feels the need to take care of me as i'm perfectly capable of taking care of myself!!! It would however be nice to meet someone who loves to travel and is financially able to do so. I travelled alot when i was younger and had no problem doing it on my own but as i get older i think it would be more enjoyable to share the experience with someone special. Am looking for someone that takes care of himself and is confident. As far as age goes i would definitely like someone around my age. PS There is this button on your computer that will check your spelling for you....USE IT!!!!! It is a real turn-off when someone sounds illiterate or just can't be bothered to put forward a good impression. Sorry for the rant but some of the profiles i have been reading sound like they have been written by someone in elementary school! I am quite shy so going for a drink would probably be the for the best. A couple glasses of wine is usually enough to get me chatting!

  • Lillie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Wanna know a bit about me? Here are a few crumbs... I am newly a non-smoker & serious about staying that way.. I am looking for some adventure that could lead to forever... I do believe I am finally ready to get out of the house and explore some. Are you a fun companion who can entertain me with your wit and fearlessness while keeping me mesmerized with your sex appeal? I want my forever to have some SPLASHES of excitement and to NEVER EVER feel like a chore. Here is my vibe du jour: *** if this is how you roll we might be a great fit!Likes:Diet Mt DewBaby WipesManners.. Yes Ma'am - Please & Thank You - Honors with Words & Works - Girls are girls and Boys are boys!CampfiresLIPGLOSSNaughty Heels ;)FLOSSIce CreamI Have a THING for teeth and hands?!?! Favorite Colors: Pink & TurquoiseFavorite Mixed Drink: Whiskey if its chilly & Vodka & Juice if its notFavorite Board Game: Backgammon Dislikes:Racists & BigotsLimited Vocab and mostly limited to 4 letter wordsTotal SlobsPUSHYThat guy who talks thru the movie and TELLS you whats about to happen...Bad Manners.. Doesn't hold doors - Girls can take out the TRASH - Disrespectful Words & Works - EXCESSIVE CURSING!Sushi... but love Hibachi! Can we compromise?**As I have been perusing I have noticed that a few of you struggle with your pix. I do want to take a moment to throw out some helpful hints. 1. A clear shot of the face, SMILING, NO SHADES OR HATS is crucial... kinda the whole point of a pic is to show what your look like TODAY! 2. Keep your clothes on and get out of the bathroom mirror that you forgot to windex and has a years worth of toothpaste on it. Those pix look gay... not knocking gay... but I think you are looking for a girl if you are on MY profile? jus sayn! 3. NOT A PIC OF YOU AT A WEDDING... be you! If you suit up everyday, show that & if you wear overalls everyday show that! Don't you want a girl to want you for your sexy self? 4. If you are tooooo scared to show your face this is not the medium for you.. probably because you are married? But, if on the off chance you have a semi-famous job.. be prepared to share quickly as it makes you come across as having something to hide. Meet n Greet.... after we determine there is chemistry, then ask me out on a first date! :)))

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