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Fay, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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About Me

I love life and all the adventures. I have a strong passion for my career and a genuine desire to impact the future. My sense of humor is wicked and I love a little banter and lots of laughter. As for my faith...Life has thrown me a few curve balls and I can say I'm a survivor only by the grace of God. My day to day life is an interesting and engaging tale. I tend to look at life differently, I don't sweat the small stuff, and I tend to live in the moment. I realize the past is the past, today is all we have, but there is still a need to prepare for the future. I am naturally a giver, would probably give the shirt of my back if public lewdness wasn't illegal. ;)My friends would describe me as an intelligent, straight up, honest, and loyal person; who has a fun loving positive attitude, and a witty sense of humor. I enjoy photography, a good movie, the outdoors (especially on the water), painting (canvas and redecorating), family time, and hanging with friends.Although my relationships says currently separated....I am in the middle to end of the divorce process which comes at the end of a long separation.I generally don't date outside my race, just a preference. Plus if you are just looking for a hook up please keep looking........I'm not that girl...... .........tbd.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

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