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Where do I start....I am not looking for a one night stand....nor am I looking for someone to marry right away either...I want someone that I can be friends with first, my best friend, someone to share anything/everything with and see where it goes......I am getting ready to start college to get my degree in accounting...I am so excited! I am an honest, caring and giving person looking for the same. I believe that you should treat others as you would like to be treated. My motto is Live, Laugh, and Love!I love to shoot pool! I love to dance. I like to go fishing. I once caught a 24 inch flounder that ended up scaring me to death an hour and a half after I caught it. And the croaker had me laughing for half an hour. I do like to just sit at home at times, and cuddle up on the couch with a good movie. I love a good thunderstorm! I am an average woman who loves her children, career, and wants to get everything out of life that life has to offer. I love amusement parks, especially roller coasters. Can't stand any RAP!!!!There are still plenty of things that I would like to do or try. I have never been skiing or horseback riding but would love to go. I definitely want to try bunji jumping at least once. I love to laugh and love to make others laugh too. Its the little things in life that I enjoy most. I dont see myself as materialistic. A walk along the beach or a nice picnic in the park are wonderful. If you have read this far, and I haven't bored you to death and you would like to know more, just ask.Also, one more thing please. If I message you and you just aren't interested, a quick message back to acknowledge that would be great!! If the weather was nice, I would like to go on a picnic in the park followed by a walk. Something where we could talk and get to know each other better. I want to spend time with someone who knows how to have a good time. I like to laugh and make others laugh.Something we both agree on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rebecca

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for someone to share my life with. I am tired of looking in the wrong direction. I have three kids by only two live with me. I am very laid back AD enjoy pretty much anything. I'm just looking to find someone who will make me happy. If interested please ***

  • Greta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First of all, I did not select anything for Body Type because none of the choices are descriptive of me. I am Curvy!Also, I put that I don't smoke, but I smoked in the past and have switched to e-cigs! LOVE THEM!Ok now that business is out of the way...Ultimately, I am looking for My Soul Mate! (as described below) However, I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my life and my future. And when I am free of this situation, my Acting Career will be my main focus!Plus, I've never been a fan of living in the cold weather up here; and I would like to live in a place where I can have flowers blooming in my yard all year around...rather than having them destroyed each year by winter.Then again, my family & I guess I will wait until the time comes to make that decision. It will mostly depend on where the majority of movies are being filmed at the time!So where does that leave me in my search for My Soul Mate???I want to go out on dates and have fun and enjoy life, but am I still looking for My Soul Mate? Is it wise to start a "relationship" with someone here if I may be leaving in a few years? I certainly don't want to hurt anyone by my leaving, including myself.However, if he IS My Soul Mate, wouldn't he want to move with me? Or should I not even be looking for him here? It couldn't be someone who has children here because I would never expect anyone to move so far away from his child/ren for me.So anyway, there's some random ramblings from my mind! L! I guess I'm not sure what I'm looking for here/now.But I do know that I would like to go out on dates! I don't want to put that part of my life on hold for years, regardless of future plans.Plus, this woman has needs!)So I guess if you don't mind going out with someone who is as confused as I am...I'm available! L!And here's what I had on my profile before:I cannot be summed up in a paragraph...I am multi-faceted...like a Diamond!I am looking for my Sun to Shine on me and reflect all of my beautiful colors!!! =8)I am a Movie Actress, a Fashion Designer, an Artist!I am looking for a meaningful relationship.I am looking for My Soul Mate---THE ONE to love who loves me. THE ONE to live my life with, laugh with, play with...I am focused on finding THE ONE!In an effort to save myself time and anyone who is reading this both time and possible hurt feelings, I have included below a description of My Soul Mate.If you meet this description, I would love to hear from you! We can then get to know each other better and find out if we are indeed Soul Mates!If you do not meet this description, you are not the one I am looking for. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I am just being honest. I wish you the very best of luck and hope you find what/who you are looking for! =:)Now for the description (and explanations, if necessary)...MALEMy Soul Mate is a man. However, I am bi-sexual and attracted to women as well. I am willing to be with only one man (if you are into men too, that's cool with me), but I would like to occasionally include women in our sex life. If we find someone that we are both attracted to and that person is interested in us, that would be perfect! If another woman (or man) is included, it would have to be a situation with all of us. If I am not included, I feel it is cheating, and I would NOT be ok with that. We can discuss this further in person if you make it past here and the rest of my description... Also, please know that Bret Michaels (should the opportunity arise) is MY "clause in the contract"! L!AGEAge is just a number! No one can change when they were born! Age is not important. I have dated people my own age, people younger and people older. What IS important is maturity! Age and maturity have ABSOLUTELY *NOTHING* to do with each other. I have known young people who are mature and older people who are immature. My Soul Mate will be mature...regardless of age!LONG HAIRWhile I certainly know there are plenty of good looking guys with short hair and even some with their heads completely shaved, I have ALWAYS been attracted to long haired men! Basically, if you look like you were in an 80s Hair Band...YES! If you WERE in an 80s Hair Band...HELL YES!! If you look like Bret Michaels...PERFECT!!! If you ARE Bret Michaels...F**KING PERFECT!!!!!!!!! (And what took you so long? I've met you many times! L!) All joking aside, my Soul Mate will have long hair! It can even be past your a**! I promise I won't even be jealous if yours is longer than mine! L! Hair color is not important (though I mostly find myself attracted to blondes) as long as it's long! L!*UPDATE*I may have to forgo this requirement as apparently, there are no long haired men left on the planet!I guess if I see a guy who has long hair, I'll know he's THE ONE...cuz he's the ONLY one with long hair! L!*********THE INSIDE STUFFThis is the hardest part... I could probably go on FOREVER listing attributes I'm looking for... I'm not even sure where to start... I guess I'm looking for the male version of me! Plus some extra stuff I might want and need in my life!Here goes...Intelligent (LOVE having deep intellectual and philosophical discussions!), Kind, Caring, Considerate, Thoughtful, Romantic, Spontaneous, Adventurous, Wild, Imaginative, Creative, (Love Musicians...must be the Actress in me!), HONEST, Open, Communicative, Ambitious, Sweet, Silly, Funny, Comical, Crazy (in a FUN way, NOT psycho), Hard Working, Takes Pride in Self and Work and Everything...I guess that's a start! If I think of anything else, I'll add it...All of these things are just like ME!Like I said, I'm looking for the male version of me!I also want to add that I am an EXTREMELY *HONEST* person. I am straightforward and *NOT AT ALL* into lies and games and bullshit. I expect the same from anyone who contacts me. If you cannot be COMPLETELY HONEST, keep moving on because you are NOT for me! (Not trying to be mean...just being honest!) I would like our first date to be going out to dinner, having drinks and talking and getting to know each other better.From there, I am open to whatever--a movie or dancing or...whatever we decide!

  • Tammi

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I guess I am a little old fashioned. I truly enjoy a man opening my doors for me. It makes me feel special and pampered.I would love to meet someone who can make me laugh with his crazy sense of humor, sarcasm and goofy playfulness. Someone who makes me feel those butterflies in my stomach every time I see or think of his smile. Someone who wants to hold my hand to show how much he loves me, not to show that he owns me. Someone who values honesty, integrity, family, friends......and me. Someone who is kind, considerate, loving and respectful. Someone I can slow dance with. (Even if slow dancing means standing still, swaying back and forth, so that my toes stay in tact.) :) Someone who understands that all of these things I’ve listed are important to me and will be reciprocated. Okay, so, a little about me..... I have a quirky/goofy sense of humor. Sometimes dry, sometimes totally off the wall. I am the one who shoots the end of the straw wrapper at you. I don’t like taking myself very seriously. Of course, I can and do, when needed. I hate extreme heat and humidity (it frizzes my hair, damn it!). I need to quit cussing. I don’t really drink but don’t care if others do. It gives me something to laugh at. I have been at my job for almost 18 years (they have tried to get rid of me but I won’t leave). I hate to do yard work. Who really does??? Ugh! I have a huge yard, so guess who gets to do a LOT of yard work anyways! I love the beach and the sun. Kind of contradicts what I said earlier. Well, it doesn’t have to be extremely hot at the beach. Noooo way!! A couple of BIG things..... 1. If you are or were one of my customers, I am not going to go out with you. PLEASE don’t contact me....can you say AWKWARD? 2. If you are married and supposedly have an open relationship, I’m still not interested. I kind of want to get married, too, someday. 3. If you are unstable in ANY way.....or maybe you just kind of think you might be, please move on. I have had the psycho get upset with me because I couldn’t drop everything to talk to him and am not wanting to go down that road again. Okay, now that THAT”S out of the way. If you are still interested, send me a message. If I don’t respond, that is my polite way of saying that I am not interested. I’m not saying I am too good for you or anything else. Most likely, there is something that just won’t mesh with me or there is just not that attraction there, sorry. Please move on and don’t *** times. Thanks for looking and good luck in your search!! Dinner or just a walk in the park. It really depends on our interests. Somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other better. Please, just be yourself. I will probably talk to you like I have known you forever. That's just the way I am. Just be real and it's all good. :)

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