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Della, 54
United States, California, Napa

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About Me

I am excited about life, the beautiful things it has to offer, and look for the positives in everything. I'm not a couch potato. I want to have fun, with fun people, and enjoy everyday! My guy will have to have the same outlook. Be outgoing, respectful, and make me proud to be with him. My world is "drama free" and yours should be also...or it just won't work.The type of man I want will be single/divorced, employed, and capable of handling his own affairs. My goal isn't to raise yet another child. I'm not interested in boys, not interested in professional meetville daters. I'm interested in that rare segment called "a normal man", who has time for me, has similar interests, and willing to start out as friends and let things naturally go where they're supposed to go.As far as looks.. Guys...c'mon now.. As nice and wonderful as overweight, bald, greezy, toothless men are...I just don't prefer to meet one. I personally care about how I look and you will need to care about yourself also. If that sounds crude or rude...unfortunately it needs to be said. It's also fact! Not looking to date "my dad", nor am I about to teach "a boy" the facts of life.. Again... I want a NORMAL man, in my age group, and sadly I must add...takes a shower when needed.. If I can smell you before I see you...it's not happening!If this sounds like you...then we should talk. IN THE ALTERNATIVE...if you are married, separated, engaged or have a girlfriend...then we shouldn't. Move along, hit your back button, exit stage left! Also...my kids are grown and I'm now free to explore life, so I'm not looking to help raise your little ones. I love kids, but... If you're a Creep just looking for a toy to play with or if you're a serial dater...beat it. I'm not the woman for you. Update.... At this point I am looking for a friend first.... I would like to get to know you.... I do not care to have a guy around that all he thinks about is getting you into bed and touching me in a inappropriate manner....I do not need to be analyzed head to toe be yourself please and I will do the same.... Let life flow naturally.... I honestly think the first time we meet it should be a meeting, not a date. If the magic is there...together we'll figure out our first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Classical American Chinese Irish Turkish Drama Thriller Dirt Bike Racing Tennis
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