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Ilene, 54
United States, California, Napa

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About Me

I'm a single Mom, who in the past focused on my daughter and my own personal growth. I am an independent, healthy and fun person, looking to move on to the next phase of my life without a dependent child. I enjoy working around the house and gardening in my free time, basically a homebody. I love animals, and spending time with family & friends. I am diligent in being around people who are responsible, positive, and nice. I really don't care for the drama that so many people, at any age, seem to thrive on. I would appreciate a gentleman whose age has done him well, and whose friends and family consider him to have strong morals, high values, and good character, and they would get the same from me. I love listening to music, especially 50s,60,70s. It brings back great memories, since music was always in my house and still is!! I l don't mind dressing up to go out, but am perfectly comfortable cooking a great meal at home. javascrapt:javascrapt:smilie(' ') ALSO;you must like animals, as I have fur-babies and they are part of my family. If you can't deal with love licks and paws for pets, you won't be comfortable with me!! My picture is current. I thought my parents were old at 50, however, now that that's where I am, I do not look, feel or act old! (of course, neither did they!) I also love to laugh and have a crazy sense of humor-I seriously think laughter is the best medicine!! I have been divorced for a number of years, not dating much, because I am the kind of person that believes that a parents first and foremost obligations with their time and energy is for their (minor) children. My daughter is 19 now, and has recently moved on her own and is independent and self sufficient(so, no drama there!). So if you think you we'd have some things in common and can deal with someone who wasn't/ isn't a serial dater, let me know!! I think a solid and healthy relationship is a wonderful bonus in life, not that you should spend your life with anyone, just so you are not alone. ALSO: If I make you one of my favorites, please feel free to contact me, as I'm kind of shy at first. Thanks for reading!!! My idea for a good first date would be to meet with someone who I felt a connection with after some phone conversation/emailing. Coffee or wine would be fine!! Going somewhere with some good old music would be good as well!javascrapt:smilie(' '). Pretty open to what we both feel comfortable with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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