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Colette, 44
United States, Virginia, Portsmouth

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About Me

Honestly didn't plan on being on a site like this, but life happens and I find myself back in the dating scene after 19 years. I don't want to seem shallow, however the rest of my Life is going to be the Best of my life, so I want what I want, not settling for less then that. If that offends you, well I am really sorry.. I would rather be alone then waste anymore time with the wrong man, life's too short and I'm not getting any younger!! My Family, My dog, Honesty, Music are the most important things for me... I'm not interested in men Under 35 or over 48, men that are more then a few pounds over weight, or dating out of my Race, however, I'm not a raciest. I'm not big on Sports, I can and will watch on occasion, but I would rather entertain with the wife's then actually watch! I've been to a few Nascar races and had a great time, but I don't make a habit of watching the race every Sunday. I am responsible, try to always do the right thing even if no one is watching, I am hard working, easy going, loyal and supportive.. I can be sarcastic, I can dish it out, but I can also take it. I'm goofy and a little Naive, but I think that's due to honesty! I believe that laughter is the best medicine!! My kids, Holidays with Family, My dogs, Country Music, Southern Rock & I do like Eminem, Harley's, Tattoo's, Muscle Cars, Big Trucks, Cowboys, Gentleman, Cold beer, Hot Wings, Food in general, Cooking, Eating out, The Beach, Amusement Parks, Camping are some of my favorite thingsI really love the fact that my kids are now old enough to party with, however I do miss them being small and wouldn't not objected to dating a man with younger children. Would love to learn Country Line dancing, so if you have an interest, maybe we could make ass's out of ourselves together? At the least would be a good laugh! Please don't mistake my honesty for Bitc**ness! If you still decided to contact me, well I guess I couldn't have offended you too much! Happy Fishing.... :) Some place quit, a few drinks, maybe dinner? Depends on the vibe & connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Music Caribbean Music Romance War Drag Racing Motorcycle Racing Soccer / Football
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