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Tamra, 39
United States, Massachusetts, Lowell

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About Me

It saddens me to realize that I've had to reduce myself to one single choice from a drop-down menu. Personality- dreamer/hopeless romantic: I have hopes and dreams for my future and the future of my children/grandchildren, I long for that one man that lights up an entire world of chaos and craziness and completes me like no other man could with just the sound of his voice, the smile on his face, the touch of his hands, or the look in his eyes. Adventurer: love the outdoors, trying new things, going new places and revisiting old places. My gardening skills have some room for improvement, but I enjoy it. Professional: I'm a nurse, professionalism is a job requirement, not a personality, but one I am able to fill when needed. Animal lover: love my cats and dog, they are faithful, loyal, and mischievous...awesome companions. Homebody: love the comfort and security of home, spending time with my family. Tattooed/pierced: yep, two tats and one additional piercing besides my ears...and nope they don't bother me as long as I can tell you're under there somewhere. Geek: still play xbox/play station with my two grown boys. Something we've done together for years. Love a good meteor shower, staring at the stars for hours in the peace and quiet of the night. Thunderstorms....love 'em...not very conducive to outdoorsy things but totally awesome for curling up with a good man and a movie.Love movies of all types and most music...if it's got a good beat odds are, I love it! Love to be curled up with a good book, cup of coffee, and a warm blanket.Compassionate, passionate, loyal, honest, loving, caring, sharing, trustworthy, imperfect, apologetic, sarcastic, witty, straightforward, openminded, observant, moral, ethical....Maybe I should just write a book? Love a man that can make me laugh, you know the kind of infectious laughter when you are laying in bed cracking up and one of you just can't stop laughing which in turn results in you laughing just because they are and by the time it's over you can't even remember what the heck you were laughing at, but it sure was funny. Love a man that I'm comfortable and safe with in that way that no matter how good the movie is...I just can't help but fall asleep wrapped in his arms. I was recently informed that the above is a memory, a "ghost" if you will, and that because of that "ghost"...none of you stand a chance. It's no secret that some of us have loved before...I prefer to look at that as yeah, a memory, it happened...it was good while it lasted. That doesn't mean another man can't make me feel comfortable, safe, and make me laugh like there is no tomorrow. The man I had those things with loved me the best way he knew how, it obviously wasn't near the love I deserved and yeah he hurt me too...not gonna cry a river over it, I'm not here to bash my ex. It was a learning experience. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. And obviously he wasn't "the one". Those things up there are, I guess, just a few things I miss about having a relationship. I've been single almost a year. Didn't even consider dating for the first six months...had no desire to hurt someone else while I was trying to figure out how to get my head and my heart in the same place at the same time. I love the person I am, always room for improvement but have no regrets for the life I've lived. I could be completely fascinated by a man that can communicate his hopes, dreams, fears, needs and what he desires in and out of the bedroom. It's not only a necessity to a strong relationship, but a complete turn on. Impressed by a man that gives from his heart, not just his wallet. Can totally appreciate a man who works hard, plays hard, and still finds time to spend time with those he holds close to his heart. I believe in that "forever" kind of love but am not so naive as to think that it happens over night. A relationship has to be nurtured to last. And that takes willingness to work when work is needed, play when play is needed and to be passionate when passion is needed. I know, I know, it's a lot. These are not requirements to date, dating should be fun. Meeting people. Learning about them and whether or not you mesh well. If not, hopefully you've made a good friend. What these are though...are hopefully what I'll find myself experiencing with one of you, and I will not settle for an exclusive relationship without them. So, if I do find myself experiencing these things with one of you...you're gonna be one lucky man, and I'll be one lucky woman. Something casual, comfortable, fun with an atmosphere conducive to conversation...after all I'm a woman...love to talk :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Jazz Cycling Comedy Documentary Romance Boxing Dirt Bike Racing Rodeo
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