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I am quit a busy person, I am a mom of 3 beautiful children of my own, who mean the world to me. at times Its a very busy career, but I love it! I have A LOT of responsibilities and busy-ness. I like to call it "Organized Chaos" Things you should know about me: I'm very sociable, I have lots of friends, female and male, and make friends easily, I'm very Outgoing, I love Fall Season, I love flowers of all sorts, I'm a romantic (receiving and giving it) I have STRONG family values and you should too, I am NOT racist and didn't raise my children to be. I don't fish or hunt,(doesn't mean you cant) I really don't like winter except over Christmas time, then prefer the snow to melt LOL, I love shopping, I'm sort of a Girly Girl, I do my nails, my hair and wear make up. I'm more of a City girl, but don't mind camping or anything like that, I'm young at heart, like to laugh and have fun, but obviously know when to be responsible and serious! I tend to carry my heart on my sleeve, but guarded at the same time, if that makes sense? Who I want to meet: Someone who can walk along side of me, not in front of me, or behind. A partner who can take on the JOURNEY TOGETHER, A man who has the same type of out look as I do on life. A man who is looking for something real, who can be themselves, a man who is mostly positive, caring and compassionate. one that has GOALS in life, can have fun but know when to be serious, someone who can be positive and maybe be the "calm" that I tend to lack with my busy-ness... (but be-able to handle my busy-ness and go long with me for that journey) I try to go out with friends every once in awhile to relieve myself from the weekly demands, stresses & responsibilities. I don't see anything wrong with that either. I work hard for what I have, and deserve some ME time. I'll try most things once. I like meeting new people and making new friends. I look at life as half full with room to make it fuller, *** half empty. I try to stay positive, and believe things happen for a reason, and also believe the experiences you go thru only makes you a stronger and more compassionate person at the end. I'm honest, so I hope you don't waste my time and BE HONEST WITH ME, or keep walking lol I DONT WANT people who PRETEND to be something their NOT. If your ONLY attracted to women who have Barbi Doll Figures, I'm not the woman for you, If your Racist, Judge-mental, using drugs, Controlling, overly jealous then again, I'm not the woman for you. I have NO TIME for these type of SHALLOW people, if you cant be real and honest, then your wasting your time, and MOST importantly, your wasting MY TIME, and I don't have time for you. I'm really putting some effort in finding my match this time, I'M NOT looking for "short term fun" or Flings, or anything that pertains to that. if you are looking for that... there are plenty other women on this sight who will lower their standards enough to give you that. I would also like to meet THE ONE MAN to show me he isnt like all the rest!! IS IT POSSIBLE??? There is sooooo much more about me, but that is where getting to know each other is all about.. so if this LONG novel didn't scare ya off, then you must have some interest in me and probably should take the first step and write me :P I dont have any real expectations on a first date.. other then a place where we can get to know each other but not totally secluded.... I like the lake walk, Lunch or Dinner, maybe a picnic somewhere during the sunset... or even coffee somewhere, anywhere really, It doesn't matter.. Summer time is the prettiest time, (besides FALL) to be outside and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-99

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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  • Cassandra

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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