Single Women In Benton, IL

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I am a fun person to be around and I really have a quirky sense of humor. I love being out on a boat on the lake or ocean.....or riding for the day on a Harley. I love golf though I don't play very well, but I love to ride in the cart on the course on a beautiful day! If you have tons of drama then please pass me by. I have had my fill of drama and just want a laid back, fun, funny and full of adventure and life kind of guy. I have 3 girls....my 2 youngest live with me and my oldest lives away from home. They are sweet and kind and I'm so blessed to have them! :) Surprise me! I love sushi......but surprise me!

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

I never knew how strong I was until I finally had to be. Now I am in a medical program on the way to becoming self reliant. I am waiting for an amazing man to make me laugh and forget all the problems of the world. And I am hoping to make him feel like the luckiest man alive. No bullshitters! No creepers! No lazy asses.. No addicts, no pimps or snackers and no**** sons of ****es that think they're God's gift to women (aka narcissists). I have had enough of that ish. I appreciate real people . It's our idiosyncrasies that make us unique.As for me I am a Christian, was married 15 yrs and have been rediscovering myself for the last 3 yrs. My kids are my love and my life. And my parents are the best :) I had a great upbringing, and other than a couple panty raids and living with a narcissistic addict for way too long I haven't sustained too much damage. lol.I don't do illegal drugs. I am responsible and I love to laugh. I'm cheerful, but not a powder puff. I am the mother of four boys (two of them grown). I like to go play about every other weekend and also enjoy movie nights on the couch complete with smashed grapes and I give pretty good massages and receive them well too ;)And guys, take off the sunglasses!.jk, first dates should be simple because they're stressful enough

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

I am a very professional woman. I am a single mother of 4. Three teenage boys and one daughter. I am very active in their lives and will support them and whomever I am in a relationship accomplish their goals. I am a trustworthy, honest, witty, faithful girl who loves to have fun.I am looking for a long term relationship. But I guess you never know how it is going to turn out unless you try. I love all sports. I play volleyball and softball. I enjoy watching football, baseball, basketball, car racing. I even enjoy kicking back and playing a game of football for fun.I enjoy going out to dinner, to the movies, I love wine, so wineries would be nice. I am wiling to try anything once. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Hard to go into detail about yourself.

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

Always be yourself... unless you can be Batman, always be Batman! There are a lot of beautiful people out there, but in the end you just wanna be with the one who makes you laugh. :)I enjoy new challenges and activities but can also relax while cuddling on the couch watching a movie. I have a witty, sarcastic, sometimes goofy sense of humor.... Will do almost anything to make my friends laugh! I'm not perfect, but I'm real, unpretentious, and honest (sometimes too honest). If you want a perfect girl, go buy yourself a barbie. Lol.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~My match would have good moral character, be emotionally & financially stable, have a great sense of humor, be reliable, reasonably fit, affectionate, non-smoker, & eventually want to get off this site. ;)~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Anyone can be happy when life is going well. It takes a warrior to be happy when life is hard. We can always find good reasons to be unhappy. We have a harder time finding the reasons to be happy. So we can choose to be reasonably unhappy or unreasonably happy. Peaceful warriors view happiness not as an outward pose or self-deception but a conscious choice about how we will act - to radiate or not - we can choose to radiate in spite of our situation. ~ No Ordinary Moments ~ Something casual, maybe dinner on a patio with live music.... Open to suggestion.... Some BAD ideas for a first meeting that i've been offered are: Meeting in a secluded park, going for a ride on your motorcycle, going out on your boat, getting in your pool/ hot tub, etc... just cuz i'm blonde doesn't mean i'm stupid... lol.

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

So tired of all the games that r played on these sites. But a friend suggested i try this one. ....im a very open person. At times the filter between my brain and mouth doesnt work very well. If i think it, i speak it. I know what i want as much as i know what i donot want. Im not looking for someone to take care of me, i can do that on my own. Im looking for someone who is down to earth and knows how to treat others. I believe in treating the one i am with like he is my equal and showing him how much he means to me. I believe in taking care of myself, i.e. dressing appropriately for the occasion, my hair and makeup are done when i leave the house, i usually have my nails done, and ive recently started back to the gym. No, im not high maintenance, but i do believe if i can do these things for myself, then im going to. I can be classy, yet be just as comfy wearing sweats with my hair thrown up. Im just me, and its worked for me thus far. I try not to be judgemental, but that can be hard at times. Im 100% czechoslovakian, and that fire in me really comes out when it comes to my children/grandchildren. I hold those that i care for fiercely close and they are my number one concern. I guess im looking for that one who can take my breath away...i will know it when he comes along! That first "date" can be so awkward, which is why i like to get to know someone via phone calls/texts first before we do the meeting thing. You can actually find out alot about each other during a conversation if you just listen.

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

***.Time for corn maze and hanted houses.who want to go.Updated ***Let me start by saying. I want to be spoil on a reg basis , but not by gifts. but by your time, your touch, your voice. your smile. I miss the touch of a man,, not by sex, but hand holding. kissing, hugging, and cuddling , i miss that hug and his kiss on on the neck. i miss the text message just to say hi. I am thinking of you in the middle of the day. just for the hell of it... .everyone has lost the true meaning of a reationship these days, yes gifts and flowers are nice, but so is a back rub when i am having a bad day, thats all I want . a nice guy who know hows to treat a female. i will do the same if I find the right guy.. I am a bigger size girl yes I am a bbw. with a big heart. .I dont smoke. but will date a smoker.as long as its not every 5 mins.. sorry. dont want a chain smoker. am looking for a guy mid 30 to late 40s age is just a number,I dont have pets, but I do like them. .. its sunday a really pretty day. when you *** tell me why you would be great for me.. i know i am on a long shot to find happiness but hell wroth a shot.. please dont think i am a witch. i just now noticed what i am really missing in life. good luckyes i am divorced with a 17 year old daughter.. .THANK YOU for taking the time to read my profile.. good luck.if you want to know anything else . send me a message..p.s.please dont be married or a real big lier.it will come out sooner or later.I am not asking for much.I want someone real.p.s. by the way i dont like getting phone calls from the guys wife . when you get busted.. not my thing sorry.. movie.maybe go to the zoo.maybe go to a shooting range..or even along drive.. or go for a drink.some where to just talk.

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

I am a 40 year old professional single lady looking for a man who is ready to settle down with one woman for the rest of his life, a LTR. I have a great career which I have been employed with for over 10 years now and I have a part-time job that is extremely flexible and it helps with earning some spending money for fun times. I do own my own home, own a car, and I do not have any kids. Please be honest, open, have a sense of humor, compassionate, open minded...don't be afraid to try something new as I would want to try something new, but also be independent as I am as well. I am attracted to a white, non-smoking, professional male who is between the ages of ***. Please only respond to me if you fit this age range. I am laid back woman who has a lot of patience. I enjoy many activities...too many to list here but some of my favorites are watching and dancing to a live band, concerts, reading, the beach, camping, attending sporting events of any kind, traveling, spendng time with my nephews, and amusement parks. I am the type of woman who can dress up and enjoy a nice dinner and a show out on the town or throw on a baseball cap and go to a game, or even just stay at home and cuddle. If the above interests you at all, lets chat and see if there is chemistry!! Thanks :) I would like to meet someplace social and have a drink or dinner and see where the night takes us from there. If there is chemistry, I would like to do something afterwards like a walk on the beach or we could stay where we were and just hang out. I am a huge sports fan so if we could watch a ball game, that would be great or like I said go take a walk so that it could provide an opportunity for romance. This would really provide the chance to test out our chemistry!!

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

Online

Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

Hello......I have to put this first-If you have no clue how to talk, write or SPELL esp. your HEADLINE-Don't read my profile-THANKS!!! All the decent guys who are literate & are not looking for a one niter or to be date happy (serial dater-lol), please continue & LET'S SEE IF we are a MATCH :).....here goes..... HELLO!!! I have always considered myself a 'FOREVER' girl & not really into dating too many people.......Not my first shot at this (online dating thing) & if you have met people online, you know what I am talking about! LOL Here are some of the basics......I have a child 10yrs old-My kid is a BIG part of my daily life & if you have a kid you know that's true....If you don't like kids or like feeling like #2, GOOD LUCK to you- I am not your match!!! If you know that your kid is the most important thing & finding someone to be compatible with is something you seek-Then read on!!! Ok, now back to meeting someone for the BEST part of my life.....I am true blue gal! I am funny, sincere, caring & kind & not in any way selfish. I am considered down-to-earth & still wear my makeup every day LOL I have a lot of interests & hobbies! Career/&hobby has been photography for most of my life. I love all types of music but not a big country or rap fan!..... I love to get together with family & friends & I am very family oriented. I was raised Roman Catholic but don't attend church every week. I have a lot of the family values that the good 'ol fashioned old world families have :) I believe in taking care of our parents & elders!- I wear my heart on my sleeve! I have a healthy sense of humor & love to laugh! Life is too serious/& short & if I have a chance to crack a joke without hurting someone....... I WILL!!! I like to go to concerts but don't need to see the same band year after year-That's silly!!! Life is meant to be lived & to experience a little of everything (as long as its legal & safe-lol) I can not say I have a type.....I would like someone who is attractive, is kind to people & would like to meet a very special & unique lady- That's me!!! lol Anything with the beach, walking by the water, dining out, going to the movies or a show/play, museums, art in all forms,playing a game or attending a ball game & family gatherings-You can count me in! I feel that I am getting a little chatty....If I strike your interest, I can tell you more in e-mails- I want to say THANK YOU for reading my ad & wishing you luck in your search for that special someone....PS I am not into casual anything, so move on if thats what you want!!! I am here for my FOREVER GUY :) First date.....Well, I would never expect someone I just met to take me to a $100. dinner date or get dressed up in a stuffy, uncomfortable state.....Ideally, meeting for coffee in Starbucks or a diner we could just be ourselves & actually TALK!!!! Then if we hit it off, I still love casual dress attire & dinner in TGIF & a movie is always nice.....Be creative- That makes me SMILE!!!