Carey, 36
Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Apr 2024 06:27:04
About Me
Are you spoken for? I'm not looking for someone to sleep with, I'm looking for someone to wake up to. A little about me... I love soft blankets, good music, good people, and helping out friends. Have you ever read "The Five Love Languages?"So which "love bucket" do you need filled the most (your needs)?Words of affirmation (compliments/assurance)Quality time (doing things together)Receiving gifts (flowers, cards, etc...)Acts of service (start the car for you on a cold morning, make you a cup of coffee, etc...) Physical touch (kisses, hugs, foot rub, back massage, sex)Personally I'm fairly balanced among them, it's best to keep them all topped off.Who are you? I know who I am when you're not looking..... I take care of myself. I enjoy things neat and orderly (clean house, laundry, dishes), however there are times other things take priority. I enjoy doing things with my partner (everything, dishes, mechanics, carpentry, painting, landscaping, movies, shopping, dinner). Notice the things mentioned are typically productive? I do however like to chill and veg out on occasion. I'd appreciate the same sense of togetherness from a partner (help in all the big and small things...). What's that? A true friend someone there through thick and thin not out for themselves. I don't mean you do this and I'll do that kind of "division". I mean together, as in us, we, and ours. Please be a non-smoker. Please do not message me if you do drugs, beat or scream at your kids, or are unfaithful. "Ain't nobody got time for that."Feel free to strike up a friendship. Like most anything you'll get what you put into it. If you message me, I'll likely respond. But if you stop communicating...so will I. I'm not interested in vesting my time, heart, and soul if it's one sided .I personally feel that Love goes through stages...euphoria (heart skipping a beat)...and eventually winds up as a choice... We all have a choice to do the things our partner enjoys (whether we do ourselves or not). I don't recommend basing your life on superficial qualities that fade (looks, height, skin tone, etc...). With that said however, don't be a fat lazy slob. I value a healthy life striking a balance if you will. A couple extra pounds in one thing, 50 extra pounds is unhealthy. I value a healthy, fit, non smoking, faithful partner with solid morals. I have no interest in dating black women (no offense, I have friends of most races). It's just my preference. I find myself attracted to ladies with long hair, preferably dark, natural in color, and red heads. Back to the superficial line... I'd say pick lasting qualities you can build a solid foundation upon. Should you decide you'd like to become a part of my life (friend or possibly more), the door is open. Feel free to come in...but your trust is yours to give. A relationship without trust is like a car without gasoline... You can sit in it as long as you want, but it won't go anywhere.You can tell a lot by looking at pictures... I like to play as much as the next...it's just not all I do. If you made it through all that, send a message. If you're not willing to put forth effort why should I? *** Welding "junk art" in the garage? Fixing a vehicle for a friend? Putting down a hardwood floor? Grilling and chilling? Jamming on the guitar? Beach? Mountains? Putt-Putt? Ice Cream? Bowling? Walk? Coffee? Volunteering for a local community activity? I'm comfy doing nearly anything, with nearly anyone.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
woman
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Relationship
Never married
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
Someday
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Christian
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
5'6"
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Eye color
Green
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Smoke
No
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Drink
Yes, socially
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