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Lester, 43

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About Me

I love to be outdoors camping,fishing,hiking,swimming boating, and running. this is my home away from home.I love to cook and I am a big foodie.My family is very important to me and we spend a lot of time together.I really enjoy going out. I am always open to try new things and new places. I also enjoy entertaining at home dinners, cookout, football parties ect. I enjoy movies but only certain movies are theater worthy. The others u rent dvd and relax at home. I like all different kinds of music. I love to laugh and really don't take things serious. I enjoy diffrent types of humour. I am not looking for someone to take care of me financial, but I am looking for a partner. I am very independent but not so independent that I don't realize there are things I can't do or cant do as well as a man. I am not a materialistic person.....so how much money,what u own,and ur toys don't impress me but if ur toys r ur passion and hobby than I am interested. I am not the kinda lady that has to put on makeup before I leave the house but I do clean up well . I do take care of myself but I am very comfortable in my own skin. I am a people person but pushy aggressive people scare me ( frankly I think there crazy and needed) . I am very laid back and easy go lucky kinda person. I would rather u bring a plant for my yard or do handyman things around house than bring me flowers and extravagant gifts. I prefer a steak at home on the grill than out. I prefer beer over wine but do drink wine with certain foods face it beer doesn't go with everything. I do like to just sit around my house drinking beer but not everyday ...I do Iike to hit bars regularly but I do have to say I like to shake my a..... I have raise my kids and want to just have fun and enjoy life.Does that mean I have drinking probem ...No..I like to try a new restaurant with friends once a month. I have studied many religions and I have found that I am more a spiritual person than religious. I like to read all different types of books and can spend hours at book store drinking coffee and reading. I don't have a nook I like the fill of a book.lol!! I don't do *** is my first dating site. Made my profile on ***. I have met people out who met here and got married. I hope this gives u an idea of the kinda person I am. Please bare with me because this is kinda like having a second job weeding out people that may or may not be right for me. It takes time to read over all the profiles. Oh and don't worry I am not looking for a texting and messaging buddies. I would rather meet and talk. Not really fond of texting. I enjoy other things than phones and computer I am not interested in one night stands or bootie calls. I don't want to see u naked ( unless we evolve into something amazing) I don't believe in casual sex it doesn't work for me I am very passionate and need to feel a connection. For all u really young men I find it flattering but I respect myself and my kids to much to date someone so close to there ages 24,22,18. I am looking for someone to laugh and play with. Someone who enjoys the simple things in life. Like finding the beauty in the way the clouds r moving in the sky,the way the leaves blow on the trees,the way the rain smells on a summer day,watching the flowers slowly open in the spring as the weather becomes warmer,the bright orange harvest moon glowing in the sky on that krisp fall night and the way the lightning moves through the sky on a hot summer night. I know we all have r soulmate out there somewhere. We just have to open r heart, mind and soul. Goodluck to everyone and may u find true love. Peace Jen Up Date: I am very straight up honest person no bullsh*t here I know what I want and will tell you. I have realized men are very intimedated by that. Yes I love to go out , have a good time and love to meet new people. I feel that I'm a very well balanced person when comes to my buisness , family, and social life. I am very active and somewhat of a busy body. I'm an early bird but don't mind if your not unless we have an adventure planned. Not looking for anything like love right now . Just one steady someone that I'm attracted to and enjoy thier company . For going out to party sometime or some adventure . Mostly I want someone that I feel so comfortable that if we just got off work we can hang out have a beer and not have to get all dresed up not feel like we have to entertain each other or I go out party with my girls and take a taxie to your house or you meet at mine. Over time with openess, honesty, and just having simple fun. We can build a trusting friendship. Who knows what can happen....I am not a wild girl nor am I innocent. Can be a little naughty...Just want to find that one special someone to explore myself with regularly like at lest 3 times a week with no expectations but more of an trusting agreement. Like I said who knows ...... this is just the way I want to do things ....simple and easy. I love my life .... I'm happy with it ..... just missing one thing . Believe me I know this seems crazy but just feel I should be up front. I'm not crazy or stalker .... just really know what I want and what is good for me in my life now. Only serioue interest apply please ... please no bullshit..... please crazy people don't waste my time. No idiot here Drinks and great conversation

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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