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Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

Hi! My name is Mary. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Poland, Maine, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

A mean spirited person recently did a line by line critique of my profile, and though I in general didnt take it too personally it did remind me that my profile was do for an overhaul.The basics:I am moving to NC and will be there mid September. And yes I do have a southern accent. I have two grown children currently living in LA and Chcago. At this age I realize that eating healthy and gym time are going to have to be a part of life if I want to stay being small. As the that reference, I am short and small but I am by no means a twiggy girl. I have curves and muscles and would have described myself as curvy but was told that was code for fat and I am by no means fat.I do try and eat healthy most of the time but life is too short to not indulge occasionally! I am an interior designer and have spent the last twenty years managing flooring stores. I had a poly sci and pre-law double major and sometimes I wonder how in the world I got from that to here, but life happens! I am a good cook and I love to bake. I just need someone to bake for so I dont eat it! I love to garden and do yard and do have a bit of a green thumb. I have my own power tools ( well they are currently in storage, explanation to come) and have done several remodel projects thanks to hurricanes and new houses!The contradictions:I love to shop! I shop more for entertainment than for need usually. I love the challegne of finding that rare item at an unbeleiveable low price. However I am not one of those girls that likes to spend the day out with the girls shopping, I would much rather spend the day watching football! So although I might look like a girly girl and have tons of hot shoes, I am probably a tom-boy at heart! I love most all sports, but probably football , baseball and hockey are my favorites. I am a huge football fan, college and pro.- Roll Tide! And I have recently realized you dont have to be a sports fan to catch my attention! The next contradiction! Although I have done building interiors for the last twenty years, I prefer exteriors! I love buildings and architecure. I like the mountains and the beach! Spring and fall but will admit I do prefer fall! There are times I will talk your head off and other times I set back and take it all in. You will particularly notice that on long car rides. The journey:My recent critic pointed out that the following information makes me sound unstable. This did hurt my feelings since I felt I was sharing something very personal to me. First off, I own a home, had a very successful career and raised two terrific, stable , successful children on my own. I dont think you can get much more stable than that! That being said, on my 49th birthday I realized I was not happy and needed to make some changes in my life. I got back in shape, sold my big SUV , rented out my house, and decided I needed to find what was going to make me happy for the next 50 years. Yes this was proabably a mid-life crisis but there have been several important people in my life that didnt live to see 50 and I realized we take for granted that tomorrow is guaranteed. Well a few months after I got there my daughter left to go to LA and business turned bad and it seemed crazy to stay somewhere alone and unhappy! So I gave some thought to what I really find joy in, alone or with someone, and that was travelling. With that knowledge and that this inner feeling I have had for years that there was something I was supposed to go out there and find, I set out on my current adventure. I packed up my household goods and put them in storage and set out to find that person, calling, or just the place I am supposed to be. I really don't know which it is and I really hope it is all three. I can and will provide all the details on that in person. I try to tell everyone, that although NC is where I am now, that if I find that person I am suppose to find and they are not here, I am in a position to go wherever I need to go. So just because I am currently not the girl next door, don't discount me because tomorrow I might be!The man:Hmmm... that is the hardest part! We all have our typical physical types we are attracted to but I have found with age I like all types! What I am looking for is someone who can put a smile on my lips and my in my heart. I want someone who I cant wait to share my crazy stories with! I am at a point I want to find that person to spend the rest of my life with, so it would be my hope that is where you are too. I want someone who is open minded and not judgemental. Someone who has the strength to tell me to stop when I need to stop but the insight to let me fly when I need to soar. Someone who knows it takes two to make a relationship work and is willing to put the time and effort into a relationship. I will tell you everyday what you mean to me and I would hope to find someone that can express their feelings and feels secure enough with me to let me share theirs dreams, desires and hurts. It is a big chance we take putting our hearts out there knowing full well we can get hurt, but I need someone willing to take that chance. Great rewards only come with great risk and I know it is hard to risk your heart, but I am taking that chance and putting mine out there, and I hope to find that someone also willing to do the same. After having written this now twice I know there are things I left out, but I have bored you enough! If you want the sequel all you have to do is ask! And if you fell asleep reading this you can thank the jerk who prompted me to rewrite my profile! Good luck with your search and I hope we all find that which completes us.

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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

I sure could use a professional writer to skillfully sum a lifetime of values, ethics, love, compassion and every G-dly life lesson that I have been blessed with in several paragraphs. Since none are here, I’ll just speak from my heart. So, let’s jump there first. The first chamber represents my family from who gave and molded my life. I was blessed with wonderful parents and siblings whom all influenced my life with good morals and values. Honesty is a must for me. It stems from self respect which I in turn will always share and display with you. The second chamber represents my immediate family, my two adult children whom I am so proud of and cherish as well as my late husband who passed away a little over 5 years ago. The third chamber contains greatly valued lifelong friends, acquaintances that have come and gone but taught me many of life’s lessons, pets and rescues that allowed me the privilege to walk along side and share some amazing experiences. The forth is a smaller chamber but vital for survival. This is where I, as a woman exists. It holds my passions, dreams, and my style. It’s where romance is created; visions are brought to color, and adds the sparkle to my eyes. It gives the gentle smile, shy kiss, the warmth of my embrace. It’s the fine lace, refined taste, spunky attitude, love of life, never give up mentality. The protector of my family, strong base for all, and yet underneath is pink and frilly. It’s where my humor and strong wit comes from, where my tears are stored and laughter rings out from. I enjoy most music and incorporate it in my daily life. Yes, I am one of those girls that you catch dancing when she thinks no one is watching. My passion is strong and is always thinking of a way to bring you a smile when you least expect it.-d supplies vital blood throughout my body. I recognize and give thanks to him every day. As my blood flows to all my vital organs and limbs I have known the pain of injuries as well the enriched nutrients that it provides.There is nothing as wonderful as being able to share and be a part of another person’s soul. To want to be a better person, to look into your partners eyes and know that each day is a little warmer, the nights stars are a little brighter because the two of you share a devotion and trust that is unique and only true to a devoted heart. Although I am a strong, independent woman, it is the quiet moments, the gentle touch, the sharing of goals and future dreams that I reach for again. I want to meet and become a best friend with a man that I look up to, who can be comfortable just being himself and not afraid to let his guard down. My true partner will be able to share everything, good or bad, and still feel safe. I enjoy being with a man that is confident, funny, romantic and sincere. Partners who look forward to spending time together either at home snuggling, watching a movie or a romantic dinner with a walk on the beach is what makes me happy. I love a quick wit, sarcasm and good sense of humor. Once I get to know you I give as good as I get and am able to even laugh at myself. I'm looking for that special true friend, partner, and lover for a long term relationship and eventually marriage. The one that always has your back and you know you can count on.There is no substitute for love. You can't have love if you're not willing to take the risk.Gentleman, I have an outgoing personality, but am still old fashioned in many ways. If my profile seems to find some commonalities and I have sparked your interest than I await your initial contact. Also although I am looking for a complete and fulfilling relationship, if you are at a point in your life that you are just looking for evening companionship and relations, I understand but that is not what I’m looking for. That doesn't mean I'm looking for a husband in the next six months either. What it does mean is that I'm looking to meet a man that we both respect, care for each other and find each other attractive (mentally and physically). If its meant to be then it will develop, if not then we are both adults and were able to share in some good times and smiles. There is no substitute for love. You can't have love if you're not willing to take the risk.In our character, we are all complementary to each other, none of us complete, each one contributing what the other lacks, each one adding his touch of perfection to his fellow. Like a massive jigsaw puzzle, we fit together to make a single perfect whole. Where ever you are in your search, I wish you all luck in finding the person that completes your puzzle in life. Have a great day... Dinner someplace we can take our time to talk and get to know each other further.