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Jaylah, 48
United States, South Carolina, Kershaw

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About Me

I am 47 and enjoy life and love. I always try to see the glass as half full. I've enjoyed a lot of adventures throughout my life and feel that I'm just getting started. I can hold my own in most social settings. I have a strong belief that everything can and does happen for a reason. I used to be very shy but not so much anymore. I enjoy good conversation especially when it's not 1 sided. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve but learning as I go. If I'm feeling it or thinking it, then I'm saying it and that leaves no question that I am honest. I've learned to take life on as an adventure. You never know where it will lead you and there's nothing wrong with broadening your horizons. Like most, just out of a relationship that was not healthy for me and was completely all about him which made it a one-sided relationship and that only works for as long as you let it. I try to live my life smiling even through adversity. I own my own bike and love to ride. I enjoy local bands and getting out on the dance floor. I listen to many different types of music,from country to hard rock. I've always been a fan of the blues. It's Not The Destination....It's The Journey that matters most. To me, a first date should be used for enjoying each others company and getting to know a little about one another. There needs to a be a chemistry and the only way to know if it's there is by meeting each other. I believe that a person can not have too many friends and that's the way all good relationships have to start. A first date should be left to the imagination of both involved. Never thought a movie was a good setting for a first date and not real original at that.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Funk Reggae Comedy Documentary Western
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am technically a single parent, although my older two are out living on their own and my youngest didn't want to move right before senior year, so she is living with my ex husband. I've been divorced for 15 years now. I am not active in church at this time bc I haven't found a church 'home' since moving, but even when I am active, I'm not a religious freak. I'm fairly liberal, yet conservative in some areas - go figure. I'm not a girlie girl, or high maintenance, but I do have a thing about purses !! I love sports, more and more watching and not playing, but I don't live by any certain team schedule - getting out and living is far more important ! I also like camping, fishing, drag racing, motorcycle rides on my bike (or yours), poker runs, playing cards, bbq with friends, NASCAR, Top Fuel, shooting pool, boating, float trips, anything water related, I'm there !! I am open to trying anything, within reason... tired of sitting on the sidelines of life. I'm not a slob or a neat freak, I'm somewhere in between. The thing I miss most about not being in a relationship is having another adult to share my life with; intimacy, holding hands, and someone to hide behind watching a scary movie. Call me a romantic if you must, but there is nothing like that feeling when a single touch can run a shiver up and down your spine. I'm hoping to find a man that's honest, caring, capable of being sensitive, but a man's man, if you know what I mean. He would have to not only tolerate kids and the noise and mess that comes with them, but actually enjoy being around them. You have to like dogs, tolerate cats, and not be afraid of reptiles. I'm a jeans & t-shirt kind of girl, and although I do dress up occasionally, I'm more comfortable hanging out with someone in jeans over a suit. And here's the deal, I ride a motorcycle 75% of the time. I've tried dating guys in the past that don't ride, and it just doesn't work. So I HAVE to add in here that you MUST ride a bike... not like bikes, not used to own one, not going to buy one some day, but you need to have one now, and ride it, or there's just no point. I'm sorry, harsh reality, I know, but I am what I am and I'm not about to change !! Just as I wouldn't try to change you. So here's the tricky part, since I'm not into one night stands or couples or any of that....but I'm not into JUST "vanilla" sex either... so it would help if you're kinky, adventurous, creative, willing to explore...and have a high sex drive....and no, I don't want to teach any of you young pups, etc. so don't bother writing. I have more freedom now than I have had in years &- I don't have a problem going to bars, or live music anywhere. However, if you live night after night in a bar, or you drink daily, heavy drinker, alcoholic, etc - we will not be a match. I need a man that knows his limit and I don't have to babysit. If you want to date several women at once and keep them all waiting for your call - we will not be a match. And if you're only interested in a woman for her looks, a barbi girl to show off to your friends, pass on by, cause I'm far from Barbi !! And last but not least, if you're looking for a one night stand - we will not be a match. *Please take this next part to heart, it's VERY important !! I am writer at heart and LOVE communication. If you send me an ***, tell me about yourself, why you decided to write to me, what was it about me that sounded interesting. If you send one sentence "how u doin?" or similar, I'm sorry, but you give me nothing to work with and I know I won't bother responding because you didn't take the time to really make an effort and respond to my profile. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but I'm looking for a partner, someone real. I'm not interested in getting involved with anyone that doesn't have the time to put into a relationship or isn't up to making an effort. Life's too short, and I'd rather be alone than involved with someone that puts me on a shelf and only takes me down to 'play' when he wants too. While I am looking for a long term type of relationship, I'm in no hurry to jump in without going through the process of becoming friends, dating, etc. So don't let that scare you off, and if things don't 'click' between us, then we both made a new friend, and I don't know anyone who has too many friends !! (Especially when they're new in town !!) Oh, and here's a hint guys - if you get drunk the first time we meet, guess what ? BINGO !! No second date ! If you oogle every woman in the joint on our first time meeting, again, no second chance. And please, high school is over, no baby mama drama, no drama queen daughters, etc. I think that just about covers everything. I'm as real as they come, ask me anything, I'll answer honestly, and that, may very well be why I'm still single. So if you really don't want the honest truth, don't ask. Good luck finding what you're searching for, I'm very close to throwing in the towel... too many games out there. I'd suggest some place quiet over coffee, but might be a little too intimidating for some? Coke's sitting on our bike's looking out over a lake, stars lighting the surface of the water while we talk? Game of pool over a cold beer? Where or what doesn't matter, it's the "who" that really matters ! I'm pretty open to suggestions. First dates are not a problem for me, it's second dates that require a little more thought and planning !!

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Happy and content with my life, I am looking for my special someone to share all that life has to offer. Attractiveness to me means a good sense of humor, easy going and having the ability to enjoy the simple things. I consider myself to be kindhearted, genuine, smart, funny and sincere. Animals have a big soft spot in my heart. I enjoy being creative/artistic,doing 'homey' types of projects and trying to keep it simple. Going out for dinner, a walk, seeing a play or movie are things I enjoy. The men I am most attracted to are honest, enjoy the simple things in life, have direction in their life, possess a fun sense of humor and a positive outlook. Kindness and good communication would keep it. Professionally employed in a fulfilling career while pursuing some goals by furthering my education part time, I have my life on track, raised my family and would like to get to know a 'nice guy' in the hopes of establishing a long term, meaningful and loving relationship. Someone who appreciates life and believes that the small things mean the most. Common interests are important and I find intelligence and creativity very attractive. I would like to find a down to earth, easy going man with a good heart and a healthy sense of humor to spend time with I hope to find someone to enjoy life with and appreciate that great relationships grow from great friendships.Taking the dogs for a walk, Sunday morning coffee with some fresh home made muffins, watching a movie together or just spending a nice fall day cuddling - anything can be fun and romantic with the right person.-much more my style than hanging out at a mall or getting my nails done.I am learning how to roller blade(although it is currently more entertaining for my neighbors than it is for me) and enjoy going for bike rides and walks. My vacation plans for next year include a road trip to the coast to do some camping and whale watching. It would be so nice to have someone special to enjoy the trip with me.

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