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United States, Kansas, Mulvane

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Although I have grown accustomed to being alone (in the sense of not being with a soulmate) and am content with my life as it is, I do find myself imagining what life would be like with that special someone. I think those of us who are long divorced (7 years now for me) have such better insight into the way things should be and what we want/need. When you are involved in a marriage that doesn't work, you are often the last to know or admit it. It isn't until long after it ends, when you are on the outside looking in that you see the dysfunction that was. Too many people succumb to the impulse jump right back into something just to fill the void, never allowing time to heal and therefore never learning from their mistakes. Probably why the divorce rate is higher the 2nd time around. I have such a deeper appreciation for the simpler things in life now.; If you don't get what I am talking about, we are probably not a good fit.Love to cook, especially for others and/or together. Also love spontaneous travel. I own my own business and have been able to do a lot of traveling with my job. Lived in Europe on two separate occasions (France and Germany). Big Bears and Cubs fan and would love to be with someone that shared these passions.– I know. Oh, and the yellow lab in the photo is usually the center of attention around my house - you would of course need her approval :) Just a few more details that I feel are important. I place a high value on emotional intelligence. I need to be able to connect with someone on a deep level emotionally. Someone who has a keen sense of who they are and why they feel and act as they do. Someone who is deeply introspective. I need to be able to make this connection in a very intimate way. I want to be able to look across a crowded room when we are at a party and feel as though we are standing together. I don't want to give the wrong impression either. I don't sit around all day contemplating the meaning of life. I have a silly side and would be pretty embarrassed if anyone saw the way I talk to my dog when no one is around. This is one of those traits you expose people to gradually. :) Education and class are important to me. Although I certainly recognize one's posession of a 4 year degree does not mean they are "smarter" than someone who did not graduate or guarantee they won't say "I seen", but in a venue like this I choose to make it a criteria simply as an odds play. I will not be impressed with gratuitous photos of your cleavage as it demonstrates (in my opinion) a lack of class and a low opinion of one's intellect. For sure I appreciate a nice body, I just don't appreciate those who flaunt theirs putting it before all else. I am not a Neanderthal and I find the overt pandering of one's body to be low brow. I am looking for a relationship that will last a lifetime, therefore it is important to seek someone that shares my values, passions and interests. I do not write these things to offend anyone - just playing the odds here. No one has time to personally get to know everyone on this site, right? just meet for a quick drink - I think we will know pretty quickly if a 2nd drink is in order. No need to make extravagant plans, after all, we have never met!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Jazz R&B Internet Browsing American Indian Middle Eastern To Work Out
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