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Velva, 34
United States, Alabama, Ragland

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About Me

I am a pretty simple and laid back kinda girl. I grew up in a very small town with good ol fashion values and morals. So you could probably say that I am still old fashioned in some ways--as in I think that it is very respectful to open a door for a woman, bring her flowers now and then, surprise her with little things, etc.--Just because I think that is the little things in life that make it big. Anyway, I grew up playing basket ball, I was a cheerleader all 4 yrs of high school.- But even with all the girly stuff that I love, I am also a outdoor kinda gal as well--I love to be outside, I love riding horses (which I havent been able to do in a very long time) My parents live in South Padre, so during Spring Break and every summer--I turn into a beach bum...LOL. I think compared to alot of women, I am pretty easy to please. I am not high maintence by far. Dont get me wrong, I do like the finer things in life, but I am not a spoiled little rich girl that had everything handed to her. I have always worked for what I wanted...It makes a huge difference in how you look at things and take care of them...As well as appreciate them. As farrelationships go...Well Id have to say that Ive had a few rough years with them!! I do not totally blame the men in all of the bad--I know that I had a hand in the problems and issues as well. (Well in some cases I did anyway) So please dont think Im saying that I am perfect...Actually I am very far from it. I am human--I live and learn...I try to learn from my mistakes and improve from them. Thats all you can do...Anyway, like I was saying the last few relationships have been kind of rough. I have been through 2 very abusive ones-that have left scars on the outside but way more on the inside. (So if you have ever even thought of hitting a woman before--please just stop reading now, Im not the girl for you) So, because of the abuse, it has left me a little gun shy you could say. But I tend to come around with a little bit of time. Im easy to get along with as long as you understand that I am not a mind reader--If you dont tell me what you want, I cant give it to you. Im really easy to talk to--just talk and Ill listen. And finally on life--I think that life is a precious precious gift. One that way too many people take advantage of and waste. I lost my best friend/brother to a tragic accident 6 years ago....And it changed my whole world. It especially changed the way that I look at life and how I lived day to day. I no longer take life for granted for now I know that it is a priviledge to have life--and noone is promised tomorrow. So I now live my life to the fullest every chance that I get. I laugh a little bit more everyday. I go out of my way to remind my family, especially my 2 amazing kids--just how very much I love them...I make every moment count...I live in the moment...I try to remember all the little things in life that get over looked so much...and I try to find good in every person and in everything that I do...I believe that everything happens for a reason! My idea of a good first date would be one of two things***would be to meet at someplace that is kinda fun orientated like Shennanigans, or Speed Zone--Or #2- at a small bar--Just to have a kinda up beat atmoshere--You can also a drink to maybe loosen up and relax a bit...You can talk and get to know each other while also having fun -- laughing and smiling. Just kinda takes some of the pressure off compared to sitting down at the dinner table at some resteraunt being forced to make conversation the entire time of the dinner--Too much pressure and ackward silent moments. LOL..Just my opinion...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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