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Hannie, 52

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UPDATE 10.20.***:Gentlemen: Thank you for 'liking me' and 'wanting to meet'; however, I need more than that.I am looking for a relationship - starting as friends of course - but I am not glued to this computer on a daily or nightly basis. I have a live and am out enjoying it. So please drop me a mail message and I will get back to you. Or set a chat date and time and I will be there if possible.End Update.Do you believe people are put in your life for a reason? Sometimes they are put there because of your need at that moment in time. Sometimes it is you that is there for someone else’s need for that period in time. This is what I embrace. It allows me to capture the good from any relationship. STATUS: Since Divorced and Widowed can carry their own preconceived notions, I have chosen SINGLE. (Out of respect for my children, let me clarify that I have been married previously then life turned me into a single parent.) And don’t the other two imply single, or am I missing something? Topic for discussion! PERSONALITY: Have been told I am easy to get along with (amiable) – YUCK! Sounds like I am the one with the ‘nice personality – not the hot chick’! Oh well there are a lot of us out there. I chose humanist from the selections available – none of the others fit exactly. If ‘inexperienced traveler’ had been available that would have been an option. Or ‘hesitant adventurer’. And I have been known to hug a tree or two. Also a mermaid who does not swim (must correct that one day). Beach Bum would have worked too but I have a job/career and only seem to get to the beach ***times a year. Typical Middle Child – always trying to smooth things over and make you laugh (but it only works if you get my sense of humor).LIKES: a sous chef in the kitchen with me or I can be your sous chef; books – classics from Charles****- system must think I am being offensive!) to Emilia Zola, or current as in World War Z, Dragon Tattoo and Hunger Games Trilogies, books by Khaled Hosseini, currently reading the ten (oops think they just added more!) book series Left Behind; movies – almost anything except things like ‘Dumb and Dumber’ or ‘The Three Stooges’ (my apologies if I offend) or musicals; music – anything NOT rap, heavy metal, musicals (or would this be under movies?) or opera (can do it but not my favorite); festivals – art or otherwise; ROAD TRIPS to anywhere or no where; concerts - outside or live; honesty - as hard as it can be sometimes, it is always the best.DISLIKES: Roller Coasters; Bungy Jumping; artificial adrenaline generators; Endurance activities – I push myself at the gym; most seafood, although there is usually chicken or steak available; rude or mean people (although they don’t know they are being rude or mean so I may tell them!); conflict.ASPIRATIONS/GOALS: To enjoy all that life has to offer;; hope to find company for the adventure ahead; continue to grow strong mentally, spiritually and physically! A walk somewhere around town where we could walk and talk and window shop and people watch then maybe stop for a drink (of any kind) for more talking or easy quiet (as opposed to awkward silence) then decide what happens next.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Disclaimer: ***I have never been married and I don't have any children; if this is an issue for you, please move on. ***If your picture looks like a mug shot/webcam photo/self-portrait in the bathroom mirror, I will not reply.Wow! Where are all of the nice, normal guys? I am a nice, normal, healthy girl who has a good job, enjoys traveling, likes to get out and do things *** vegging on the couch and am looking for a guy who is the same.I have a good sense of humor, am outgoing and very easy to talk to. I've been independent and self-supporting since I was 17 and paid for my own education while I worked full time (nothing like hard work to build character).[the good: independent, plain spoken, generous, creative, warm, enthusiastic, affectionate, romantic. The questionable: intolerant of whining, complaining and pretentiousness (I already work for attorneys, thanks), can be impatient, can be aggressive, prideful]. So there it is - I'm not perfect [gasp]! Physcially, I'm no Angelina [Jolie], but I'm definitely no Rosanne [Barr] either! In short, I'm more the girl-next-door than the supermodel - but I can easily turn heads when I want to, and I do!!! I try to take decent care of myself and dress in an attractive way (I frequently meet with professional people and clients in my line of work). So, if you like sharp, active, funny, sexy, curvy women (height and weight proportionate - not cadaverous), you're in the right place. Worth noting: I prefer men who can spell. If you've really got something to offer to a woman, then show her you're not lazy and make a good impression - use spellcheck, a dictionary or the library - after all, you're a smart guy, right? Two more things, although I really enjoy pets, if your pets tie you down, we are probably not a good match. And, may I apologize up front, but I really prefer men who are at least 5' 10; not judging, just my personal preference.- a sunny patio, around a piano or fireplace, a picnic by the lake, a park bench, a free outdoor concert, an art fair, a cozy pub . . . there are LOTS of possibilities . . .

  • Georgia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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Anything Cali and ocean is the best. Love the water! Oceans, lakes, beaches. Would love to go boating. I have a pretty flexible self scheduleing job so it can allow me a little flexibility. I could relocate anywhere with my job as well, and would hope to find a wonderful man to settle down with. I would like to experience all the good things I somehow missed out on when younger. Truly finding that one and only first love would be the main thing.I want to feel secure and safe with a man, that he is reliable and dependable and yes, can take care of me. I have taken care of myself and everyone else alone for far too long, so I would love a little TLC and caring for! A real man knows how to care for a lady. I am looking for the love of my life, and truly want to be the love of someone else's life. Too much to ask for? I hope that is still possible. I would love someone with a great sense of humor that keeps me laughing, but knows when to be serious, and is dependable and loyal. Loyalty is an absolute must have- a non-negotiable. I am me, real, honest, flaws and all, and it will take a special man to me. but hope to find a special soul out there capable of unconditional love that heals the heart, soul, mind, and body. Wow, that is a lot to ask for :) This is meant to scare away the bad guys, not the good : No liars, no cheaters, no drug users or alcoholics, (Light social drinking ok) No smokers, no users, no abusers, no obsessive compulsive. I am worth more than that to waste my time on men that do not deserve me. I am looking for a wonderful special soul, the illusive soul mate. Of course I am trying to find someone who is funny, great sense of humor, well adjusted from all life has thrown at them and not a bitter, mean old fuddy duddy. I want to be content with someone but not bored by them. Nice and calm is fine, just not someone that needs a fire lit under them to have an interesting conversation. Have some goals! Dreams! Hobbies! No matter how old you (we) are! You have to have some hobbies, ambition, goals and dreams to offer a woman! Find out who you are and who you would like to be and have goals to get there, then maybe...you can find someone who can share that with you! I think I am pretty well adjusted for all the stuff I have been thru in life. I don't want to just survive but to thrive, to overcome and triumph. I think most everyone is complex with many sides, goals and talents. and I think I am a complex human being and sensitive but not drama, creative but not a flake, dorky yet surprisingly deep. My almost savaant brilliance will catch you off guard when you least expect intelligence out of me, lol. For those I haven't scared off, hopefully we would have a chance to talk first and get to know more about each other. I have written a book here, so I'd like to know more about you. Maybe at very first simply meet and talk over coffee. If we are think we click, I would enjoy the romantic dates. Walking, movies,or music, dinner, seeing area attractions, walks on a beach or waterfront, blues festivals, Boat rides. Some outdoor adventures (I'm a wimp.) Cooking together, maybe having a little wine and a cozy fire. All the cutsie romantic stuff. I am a hopeless romantic, but have to be smart and combine the logic with it. I want a genuine soul, a good Christian man, a real man that knows how to care for a woman, and I in turn will care for him. Let's not waste my time or yours if you are not that.) . I am looking for positivity and someone that wants to look forward to a good life with goals and dreams and enjoying family, friends, making the rest of our lives a great life together. The right person is out there. We have to believe the best half of our lives is still to come!

  • Ayla

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I love to have fun, I love joke n around, even if it makes me look a little silly..Im loyal, honest, caring. I hate games, I know what I want and will not at nothing to get it.. I love the oldies music, more country, rock and roll.The man of my dreams does not need money, just alot of love to give. Honest open and not scared to talk. I am a talker and a very good listener as well.I enjoy going out to eat simple places, and good conversation, sitting out side enjoying the sun or just staying in bed holding each other. I like playing games on line,dancing, bomb fires.Really Im a good old country girl, with a little city...

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